Yang Liping is well-known for her peacock dance. That dance back then was really like a startling giant, like a swimming dragon, like a celestial being. A modern version of One Dance Moves the World. Although her dance is not the most popular type of dance nowadays, and what she dances is not an exotic type of dance, her beauty that shocks the world comes from the fact that her dance and her person are one. She danced her peacock dance to the extreme.
When you insist on doing something to the extreme, it is difficult to be excellent or successful. So, stop saying that your efforts are useless and your fate is unfair. It is useless because you have not done enough. If you think it is unfair, it may be because others work harder than you. When you do something to the extreme but still don't get what you want, then blaming your fate will not make people think you are worthless. ?Live like a peacock
After Yang Liping’s peacock dance became popular, people not only praised her dance beauty, but also lamented her appearance. Have you ever seen such a person? He has one-inch long nails and keeps them clean and tidy. His waist-length black hair has never been tangled. He often wears an ethnic style hat. It is matched with the overall clothing decoration to form a style. Although she does not lead the fashion trend, her unique style and temperament always make people wonder what kind of persistence she has in her inner world.
She is a dancer who integrates dance into her life. In order to give her hands the charm of a peacock's stretched posture when performing, she can carefully maintain the growth of her nails. She does not get married or have children. She lives like a peacock in a place that can be called a paradise, connected to the sky and the earth, quiet, beautiful, calm and magnanimous.
She has the arrogance of a peacock, and the beauty and elegance of a peacock when it opens its tail. She completely ignores the traditional evaluation of her by the world, and will not use this just because the world is attracted by her unique temperament. Curiosity to pursue fame and fortune. Although she is not fashionable and is a bit conservative compared to current trends, her persistence in her own life leads the trend of women in the new century to live out their own attitudes. She is at the forefront of independent women.
What is the most important thing to a woman? Is it to marry a good husband and have a good child to have a good family? No, this is indeed important, but for a woman this should not be the most important thing. Just because most of the choices are made, you cannot think that they are right and should be. You should not turn yourself into an accessory to your husband and son. Live freely and die alone
There will never be another Yang Liping in the world. Many people make fun of themselves when they are falling out of love, saying they want to live alone forever. People who say this are actually afraid of loneliness. Such people will not get along with themselves and will not truly live for themselves. Those who live for themselves like Yang Liping will not be afraid of loneliness.
When they choose to live alone, they will not feel that they are choosing loneliness, but they will feel that they are choosing freedom. Yang Liping has been dancing since elementary school. She is very good at dancing, but she can only dance, so she can only dance. She loves dancing more than herself. Is she lonely? No, she is not lonely, she has dance to accompany her, and she has herself to accompany her. If one day she stops dancing, she who regards dance as her soul will collapse.
I admire her very much. Her life is a life in which she truly lives out her own values. Just ask how many people can give their all to one thing, give up other possibilities in their lives for one thing, and do not need love or the family affection of children for one thing. Being able to do these things, you can still ignore the strange opinions of others and not be swayed by worldly people and worldly things.
If a woman wants to live her own life, she doesn’t have to live her life to the extreme like Yang Liping. You just need to ask yourself clearly in your heart, ask yourself what you want, ask yourself what you can pay for it, and how much you can pay? Ask yourself if you understand yourself? Conclusion
This society is tolerant and cruel to women. Tolerance enables women to receive the same fair treatment as men, while cruelty enables women to experience the same hardships as men.
In this way, fate is fair.
So how much you pay will definitely get you back, sooner or later. So since you have decided to live your life, don’t give up when you encounter some difficulties. Don’t just shed tears when you feel lonely. You must learn to get along with yourself. You must know that people in this world are lonely by nature, and if they cannot learn to get along with themselves, they will bow to loneliness sooner or later.
Don’t lose yourself when you encounter love, don’t live like someone else’s accessory, you are independent, why should others come and go when you are called upon?
Girls, live your life confidently! Don’t be bound by rules, don’t be imprisoned by tradition, don’t be kidnapped by other people’s opinions, let alone be intimidated by the so-called difficulties in front of you.