Caterpillar A: "Hey, have you heard the story of the caterpillar turning into a butterfly?"
Caterpillar B: "I know, isn't it just about breaking a cocoon into a saucer?"
Caterpillar A: "Let me tell you, once upon a time, I saw such a caterpillar.
"It bit out a small hole in its cocoon, and then it struggled and struggled and struggled in the cocoon, very hard. It kept pushing and pushing and pushing, but, after a long time it did not break out of the cocoon.
"At that moment, a human happened to pass by and witnessed this scene. The human then thought ah, seeing it like this, it is really too painful, he should go and help it.
"So he took a pair of scissors and carefully cut out a large opening in the cocoon. As a result, the butterfly escaped at once.
"But when the human saw it, he realized that it didn't look like any of the usual butterflies. Its body was very bloated, and its two wings were hanging down at the sides. He waited for a long, long time, expecting it to fly. However, it could not fly.
"After an hour, it, died.
"Later, the human realized why that was!"
Caterpillar B: "What was that for?"
Caterpillar A: "Because breaking the cocoon into a butterfly is a natural law. Humans think they are helping the butterfly, but they are harming it. Because in the process of breaking the cocoon, the butterfly will be compressed by the narrow space inside the cocoon, so that the blood can be transported to the wings, and only in this way, after breaking the cocoon can become a real flying butterfly."
02
The other day, I also gossiped with Zhu XVII about this story.
He said, "Isn't it the same thing with love?
The other day, I was talking to Zhu XVII about this story.
Yes, how can you see the rainbow without the storm!
He later added: "This reason, perhaps only those who have experienced can understand. The first thing that you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and then you'll be able to get a new one, and then you'll be able to get a new one. If I can, I really want to give her my life."
I said, "What about your wife?"
He said, "My wife and I are like the butterfly that has not experienced the breaking of the cocoon, too quickly to the consummation, and in the middle did not go through any trials and tribulations, so much so, that butterfly can no longer fly up."
He went on to say, "In fact, I really envy those couples who come together with the same sweet ****. For example, two people take out a loan to buy a house together and discuss the trivial matters of decoration together. At the moment of living in a new home, the experience is the most sincere and warm joy of two people about love."
And now, at a certain age, the conditions for people to choose a partner, increasingly clear and conditional.
For the average boy, the girl should have a high face value, good figure, good job, good character and so on.
For the average girl, the boy should be mature and steady, have a house and a car and savings, the economic foundation is the most important part.
"My wife belongs to this type. So we got married soon after we met and later had children." He added.
03
Three years ago, Zhu XVII's family took a trip to Europe.
That day, in the square in front of the Leaning Tower of Pisa, Zhu Xiaoqi, in order to take a good picture of his wife, he circled around the Leaning Tower of Pisa for several times, trying hard to find the angle. Unfortunately, the photos were not as good as they should have been.
Mrs. Jiaoqin couldn't help but be furious, "You have no good in the end to me to take pictures! You come to see, you see how ugly you shoot me, short and fat! Also, didn't I say! Looking for the wrong position looking for the wrong position, are you a pig brain you!"
Zhu XVII immediately face helpless, only to continue to "take pictures" by heart.
Jiaoqin is so, for matters related to photography, has been so "dedicated" "meticulous".
Then one day, Zhu XVII family in France, a fine restaurant **** lunch. The restaurant was selected by Jiaoqin after a long time on the Internet. I thought I could have a happy and elegant meal.
Unexpectedly, halfway through the meal, a tall and sexy, extremely good-looking beauty came to the front. After she shouted "pig eighteen" at Zhu XVII, she unexpectedly gave Zhu XVII a big hug, and then kissed him enthusiastically.
Now it's a good thing that Jiaoqin was on fire. Did not wait for the two of them to react to, Jiaoqin immediately rushed out of the seat, the right hand movement skillfully pulled the beauty from the arms of Zhu XVII out, and then "snap" sound, rewarded each other two slaps.
Jiaoqin cursed: "Bitch, in front of my face also dare to seduce my husband!"
The beauty was innocent and bewildered, only to stare at Jiaoqin dead, do not know what to say.
Zhu XVII face, on the other hand, could not hide the embarrassment, his face instantly green into a square shape. He hurriedly got up to help the beautiful woman and asked if she was well.
Jiaoqin see the situation, the heart is more like a river turning over, not waiting for Zhu XVII to make explanations, she cried while running out of the restaurant. Only a few huge and heavy words could be heard, echoing up in the restaurant, "Zhu XVII, don't you regret it!"
Zhu XVII threw a sentence at the beauty, "I'll personally make amends later, I'm really sorry for today." After that, he quickly rushed out of the restaurant.
04
It was also in that split second that the daughters sitting alone in the restaurant, one after the other, followed their mom and dad's footsteps and stepped out of the restaurant's door.
As a result, she was accidentally hit by a small car. The daughter's legs were crushed and fractured, and the retina of her right eye was detached.
In the face of a sudden accident, the family was at a loss.
Later, Zhu XVII explained to Jiaoqin with pathos and powerlessness: "Wife, will you be too sensitive! She is my hair young, long stayed abroad, we have not seen for a long time."
He went on to say, "Hugging and kissing is an everyday ritual in the West."
05
"You see, the relationship between my wife and I is like the butterfly that was released? It's both fragile and powerless." Zhu XVII asked rhetorically.
He then added: "Perhaps, the love that has not experienced the development of natural laws and comes together too quickly is actually doomed to end from the very beginning. "
Yes, the sword from the sharpening out, the plum blossom fragrance from the bitter cold. The love that has not **** together through the wind and rain is not exchanged for a brilliant rainbow.
Perhaps each of us is like the caterpillar that needs to experience the cocoon to become a butterfly.
First from the caterpillar itself, into a pile of nutritious "paste". Then the adult discs and adult cells develop naturally in the "paste", grow tissues and organs, and finally metamorphose into a butterfly.
Butterflies have to go through the process of breaking the cocoon, in the process, squeezing their bodies. So that the body fluids can be transported to the wings in a timely manner, and ultimately realize the wings to fly.
You see, this caterpillar has to go through how many trials and tribulations, in order to metamorphose into a butterfly in the true sense of the word ah!
Love, in fact, is the same. The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal of money. Between two people, if there is a lack of understanding, trust, mutual respect, mutual support, the relationship between the two sexes is actually the same as a plate of loose sand.
And the formation of these important friendships, often need to be like a caterpillar, through the development of the laws of nature, and ultimately will be obtained.
06
A year later, I met Zhu XVII in a café, just as he was finishing a business deal. I wanted to ask about him, but I didn't know where to start.
Zhu XVII just said: "I'm fine, just that my daughter ...... is not. If possible, I really hope that the person who was hit by the car at that time was me. If I can, I really hope I can suffer all these pains for her. If I can, I really want to give my life to her!"
Afterwards, Zhu XVII pulled out a contract from his briefcase and signaled it to me. It was a "divorce agreement" with five big, naked words printed on the cover.
Zhu XVII later said: "There are some difficulties in life, when you can turn over, you have to turn over, when you can not turn over, you have to jump."
Perhaps love is like the butterfly that "needs to escape". Some butterflies, drooping wings, how can not fly up, until the end of life. But some butterflies can spread their wings and dance in the sky, dance to the end of life, dance out of the color, dance out of the wonderful.
If possible, I hope my love can be like the caterpillar that "breaks into a butterfly". I'm not sure if I've ever been in a position to do that. I'm not sure if it's a good idea, but I'm sure it's a good idea. As long as the final rainbow can appear, then everything is worth it.