In this wonderful summer night, the busy neighborhood entrance square is particularly lively, in the wonderful sound of music, a group of middle-aged and older people dancing a beautiful square dance .
In another corner not far away, there is a group of Tango enthusiasts, that is, our today's story master Auntie Yang, from one of the Tango enthusiasts Auntie Yang, and now she has no heartbeat Square Dance, crying and looking for: disappeared Square Dance partner where are you? Crying very sad ! See the loneliness of the elderly, it is not easy to meet a confidant but suddenly disappeared, so the heart is incredibly sad! Anyway, see the situation I am falling tears .
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Auntie Yang is 68 years old this year, her only son is married, and her grandson is already in elementary school, her partner died many years ago, and now she lives alone in the old house.
2 years ago, someone once introduced to Auntie Yang, the other is a retired cadres, the two are very **** the same language, especially like traveling, walking, square dancing. The two of them are very chatty.
Originally, they planned to form a happy little family, together to visit the country's great rivers and mountains, traveled all over the country mountains and waters. But they were stopped by their son, who said to her, "Mom, you've been here for so many years, it's not good for you to live alone. You are so old, why still give yourself "if things" this let us do children's face where to put, besides, if the other side of the body has a problem, we do children have to take time off to come back to serve, you do not give me to find things.
Look at the son and daughter said many times in the case of reason, Yang Auntie and each other to cut off, but the night alone at home is really lonely, the elderly will also have loneliness and loneliness is very normal ah, and sometimes need to change the bucket of water, have to spend a lot of effort to meet the electrical appliances are broken is not a way. So this article tells us that we must care for their elderly, so that they are on our side of the carefree life .
Neighbor Sister Lee see her alone bored, many times will come to accompany her to talk, chat, free to pull her to dance, soon after the beginning of the aunt she could not let go of their inner, then there happened to be a Mr. Wang took her to dance, called her dance, and a little slowly teach her, so slowly, she also keep up with the rhythm, and the dance action is not worse than that of young people oh. This is as if the days are long.
Mr. Wang often praised her very talented, said good practice, back to take her to participate in competitions, after all, Auntie is still a bit of a young woman's charisma exists, Mr. Wang quoted the women is really a good hand, he should also be a young love master it. At this point, Auntie Yang laughed, said: "The purpose of dancing is just to pass their time, but not to go to shame." Mr. Wang laughed loudly .
"No, your idea is not right." Mr. Wang advised her in a serious manner, "The elderly also have the right to pursue their dreams, every day of living, each of us must live a wonderful life, only then let life without regret."
This sentence really touched Auntie Yang, yes, yes, although the age of the old, but you can live a wonderful life ah, so why bother to constrain themselves .
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A month later, Auntie Yang has been the main member of the dance team, she looks forward to the nightfall every day, now Auntie feels that square dancing is the happiest time of the day. So incomparable happy happy .
One day, Auntie Yang was sick and didn't go to the dance, Mr. Wang called her and came to visit her soon after he learned she was sick, and took her to the clinic at home, and came back to give her congee, and urged her to take her medicine.
Since her husband left 10 years later, after all, it has been a long time since anyone cared about her in this way, Auntie Yang heart is also very touched, and when the body is well, specially made a table of dishes to thank Mr. Wang . This is how the two of them became very friendly. In the eyes of outsiders also thought it was an old couple.
Day gradually past time long, Mr. Wang does not take the aunt as an outsider, see Auntie Yang's home fan is broken, or point bubble is broken, very active on the repair, every time to come to see her, will also bring a little food, buy some fruit ah and so on, the two came together very happy.
Just a while ago, because Auntie Yang began to cough, fever, and body rashes, go to the hospital, the doctor recommended that she take a blood test, the results came out, the doctor was told that HIV-positive.
So Auntie Yang began to be confused, and then how to not think, can not think of their own will be infected with AIDS ah, so Auntie asked the doctor with a red face: "I'm not this disease is said to be foreigners only to get the disease?"
At this point, the doctor patiently explained to her related to the transmission channels, but also suggested that she, so that she has close contact with the people also come to check, she first remembered Mr. Wang, to call him also explained the actual situation, suggested that he also come to the hospital to check the body, the cost of which does not need to be borne by him. Who knows, Mr. Wang words have not listened to the end of the phone immediately hung up, and then hit the phone off, the next day after a number of times, Auntie Yang went to the square dance to find him, but never saw Mr. Wang's trail.
Aunt Yang couldn't help but cry, startling all the onlookers. She did not know how to tell her son to show his own illness, but also wanted to find the square dance partner (Mr. Wang), she did not want the other party responsible, but hoped that he could go to see a good doctor, and at the same time, do not again wreak havoc on others.
Not more than a few days, Auntie Yang or call her son to tell the truth, filial son after a moment of silence, said: "Mom, there is a disease to see a doctor, it's okay, we are all in ah ." Fortunately, there is a good understanding and filial son. The doctor was very touched! In this day and age, there are not many filial sons like this aunt.
The son's understanding, Yang Auntie tears, regret that they should not be gullible to believe that a person, thought it was a "sunset red" feelings, who knows, I did not expect to let himself get this shameful strange disease.
There is a rumor in the district neighbors: As a result of usually live alone, sometimes Auntie Yang will take in some of the rags and other vagrants, both as a companion, but also to collect a little "accommodation fee" to subsidize the family. Auntie Yang recalled that over the years, there have been two or three men in their 60s had asked for their bed **** pillow, she also confused and they had sex. Therefore, Yiwu City CDC staff, from the Yang aunt's past situation investigation and analysis judgment, she through extramarital sex infection is more likely .
Summary :
Today many people in China still think that AIDS is a modern young people or foreigners will only get a strange disease, thinking that the country can not have this disease , in fact, the life of people infected, and in today's elderly people are not a minority.
In 2017, a 91-year-old grandmother Cui in Zhejiang Province was diagnosed with AIDS just because her family took in three homeless people.
In 2018, a nanny in her 50s was diagnosed with HIV because she cared for three elderly people living alone.
In life, AIDS is not far away, and the elderly are even more vulnerable to infection because of their weak sense of prevention.
Sociologist Sun Xinyu said: "One-sidedly stand on the moral high ground to blame the elderly does not make much sense, we should be a little more understanding of the elderly group of care, and at the same time should increase the publicity of AIDS prevention."
Let us have a little more care for the elderly, more to understand their emotional needs, reasonable arrangements for the elderly life is very necessary, only to go to the right place in order to have a safe to say.