Marriage, for everyone, is sacred. In reality, once one of the men and women has an affair, it will inevitably attract people's spit. However, such an emotional dispute happened, but many people did not expect it.
Let's talk about it today He Qingkui, a national first-class screenwriter, lived with Gao Xiumin for 12 years after marriage, but at the funeral of Gao Xiumin's death, it was He Qingkui and Zhang Yanru's son who put on Dai Xiao's dress for her.
He Qingkui, male, 1948, from Fuyu City, Songyuan City, Jilin Province. His ancestral home is Wenshang County, Jining City, Shandong Province. Chinese mainland screenwriter, national first-class screenwriter.
He used to be a fisherman on the Songhua River. Later, I worked as a full-time screenwriter in the creative office of dongliao county Cultural Bureau. He resigned from 1992 to write plays. 1990 officially started the creation of sketches and film and television dramas. Since 1994, he has created more than 10 works for CCTV, including 6 first prizes and 5 second prizes.
He Qingkui is a man who has gone through many hardships. He used to fish by the Songhua River for 20 years. Because his son couldn't do anything, his father had to beg the head of the village troupe to let He Qingkui perform in the troupe.
It is worth noting that in this group, he and another girl sang the traditional joke "Shuang Suoshan". Later, he created "Two Scorers" reflecting the life of the production team, which was very popular. He put it in the newspaper and actually published it. This gave He Qingkui great encouragement and also gave him a manuscript fee of 5 yuan.
1in April, 1992, He Qingkui, who had been a screenwriter in the drama editing room of dongliao county Cultural Bureau, suddenly became a celebrity, and the essay "Yu Bao" planned and written by him won the first prize in the essay competition jointly organized by 3 1 TV stations in the country. At that time, many famous people in the national sketch circle called He Qingkui one after another and asked him for a notebook. Her husband was so overwhelmed that it was the first time that Ru Yan saw her again and again. She repeatedly lamented that the bitter days of many years had finally come to an end. During that time, although He Qingkui was very busy every day, sometimes he couldn't see the figure for half a month, but Zhang Yanru was flattered.
Gorky once said: "Marriage is the combination of two people's spirits, and its purpose is to overcome all difficulties and hardships in the world."
Affection between He Qingkui, Zhang Yanru and Gao Xiumin At the beginning of their marriage, relatives and friends were not optimistic about the marriage between Zhang Yanru and He Qingkui, a rural educated youth. Although Qingkui is a rural person, she is only willing to do two things: one is fishing, and the other is writing and submitting articles. Every year, He Qingkui has no other income except fishing in Songhua River in summer. Throughout the winter when the river was closed, Qingkui put a small table on the kang and kept writing and contributing, but year after year, his manuscript was like a mud cow entering the sea.
Zhang Yanru and He Qingkui have two sons and a daughter, a family of five, and a woman is on a farm in Zhang Yanru, so they are very poor. He Qingkui's situation is very difficult, because he is poor, and because he has contributed many times but never published it.
From 65438 to 0986, with the implementation of the policy of educated youth returning to the city, Zhang Yanru returned to Fuyu County with He Qingkui and three children. On the other hand, He Qingkui's fate turned for the better in 1989. That year, he showed his script "Who Marries Who" to the people of Fuyu County Folk Art Troupe, but they took it and returned it to him at a glance.
At that time, Gao Xiumin was the deputy head of Fuyu County Folk Art Troupe, and Qing Kui showed her the script. Gao Xiumin and He Qingkui have known each other since childhood, and she has always called He Qingkui "Brother CSI". Because of this relationship, Gao Xiumin carefully read Qingkui's script and thought it was very good, so he squeezed through the crowd and staged it himself. Unexpectedly, this script actually won the first prize of the provincial literary performance that year. It is precisely because of this achievement that 1990, the neighboring dongliao county Cultural Bureau hired He Qingkui as a screenwriter in the drama editing room, and the life finally settled down a little.
Who's Gao Xiumin? It must be mentioned here.
Gao Xiumin is a famous sketch actor and duet actor in China. She has collaborated with Zhao Benshan in sketches and duets for many times. Representative works include Water Delivery Man, Kidnapper, TV series Liu Laogen, Lake Shui Sheng and so on. Gao Xiumin's ex-husband He Qingkui also wrote many classic works for Zhao Benshan, from Yesterday Today Tomorrow to Happy New Year.
I have to say that at that time, Zhang Yanru still went to the market to sell vegetables every day, but He Qingkui's creation was out of control, and he wrote several award-winning scripts one after another. It was not until 1992 that his prose "Bao Yu" starring Gao Xiumin became famous all over the country. Zhang Yanru didn't expect that after more than 20 years of hard work, he finally came through thick and thin, and it was like a bolt from the blue to hear such a sentence from CSI. She sat crying all night and couldn't figure it out.
He Qingkui said, "Ru Yan, I feel sorry for you and the children, but I really can't live without her. Let's divorce! " Obviously, this is Gao Xiumin. In my opinion, the reason why He Qingkui and Gao Xiumin came together is mostly because they get along with each other every day in their careers and gradually develop their feelings; On the other hand, Zhang Yanru felt that he couldn't help He Qingkui in his career. Instead, she helps him take care of the children at home.
The French writer Roman once said: "In marriage, everyone has to pay the price and take back something at the same time. This is the law of supply and demand. "
Why did Zhang Yanru let his son Pima Dai Xiao attend Gao Xiumin's funeral? As He Qingkui's career grew bigger and bigger, he finally asked his son Shu Chun to come and help. However, a sudden accident of Shu Chun disrupted He Qingkui's life. In August, 2008, Shu Chun had a car accident while drunk driving and died on the spot. Even more bizarre is that Gao Xiumin died suddenly 10 days after Shu Chun's death. Imagine what He Qingkui was like when he lost his son and lover. It turned out that Zhang Yanru was immersed in the grief of losing his son. When he suddenly heard the news of Gao Xiumin's death, he couldn't help crying.
Later, she asked her second son, Cheng Shu, to go to Changchun for funeral service, to send Gao Xiumin a final journey. Perhaps this is Zhang Yanru's debt to Gao Xiumin. He Qingkui and Gao Xiumin will be very happy if they let go of He Qingkui earlier, and all three of them can go back to their own lives instead of being so entangled.
At that time, at Gao Xiumin's funeral, Zhang Yanru tearfully said to her portrait, "Xiumin, actually, after all these years, I forgive you. Eben is innocent. Why did you leave so early? " You must regret that I didn't really give you CSI in the end! "
Finally, it is hard to say who is right or wrong in marriage and love. In my opinion, in reality, everyone's marriage is selfish. Originally, these three people have been so peaceful, but in fact, they have tied three people from their bad karma into a fast knot, which they can't get rid of all their lives.