A letter to a five-year-old child
Dear son:
Hello! Mom was going to write this letter to you on your fifth birthday, but it was just the early stage of the renovation of the new house, so I was busy and tired, and I was delayed.
Time flies, in a blink of an eye, you are five years old, from a cute little doll to a handsome big boy. Looking back five years ago, with you, my life suddenly changed dramatically I'm not in a hurry, but it's really hard. Fortunately, my baby son is very distressed by his parents, knowing that his father is busy with your work, and it is not easy for his mother to take care of the children alone. In the past five years, you have been clever and sensible, which has made me suffer a lot less!
Before weaning, even if you are hungry at night, you never cry. You always wake me up with a soft groan. Don't sleep until you are full of milk. Because mom is not used to breastfeeding at night, she always doesn't get enough sleep in the morning, but you can always lie there quietly and play by yourself after waking up in the morning. As long as you see that mom doesn't open her eyes, you will never make a sound until mom wakes up.
Because your mother's milk is not good, you are always hungry. In order for you to eat a good meal, you have to be weaned at the age of nine months. Weaning is a major obstacle in the lives of mothers and sons. It will take about a week to see other lost, crying and sick people. And you, indeed, followed me without leaving. In just three days, you successfully weaned yourself without crying. And since the third day of weaning, I have been sleeping until dawn and never disturbed my mother's sleep. But my mother's biological clock is not used to waking up several times at night.
You never left your mother in the four years before you entered the park. You know your mother can't take you alone. You have learned to entertain yourself, and you can always ask your mother to take you to cook, do housework or make a phone call.
Entering the park is another barrier for mother and child. Before you enter the park, every September, my mother always feels nervous and uncomfortable with others. Soon, you should enter the park. I have made all the preparations to send you to the park. I really didn't expect you to go into the park without crying. On the contrary, my disappointing mother cried all day because of the sense of loss that you suddenly left me. When I went to pick you up from school with swollen eyes, you really had a good time in kindergarten, and you didn't seem to be in a hurry to leave. After a while, I can always see other children crying their eyes out every morning, entangled with their mothers. Every time I see this scene, I feel really comforted! It was my son who saved me from a great ordeal and successfully passed another level!
You were very worry-free until you were three and a half years old, and you only got sick once a year. I really began to get sick frequently after I was three and a half years old, which worried me. I wish you a safe and healthy growth, even if you just cough, it will hurt my heart and liver. Illness is a growing process for many children, and in this process, you can also make me more worry-free than other mothers. All along, you have no worries about taking medicine and injections. Whether it is a sweet medicine or a bitter medicine, or even a bitter soup of Chinese herbal medicine, you can take it by yourself at ease. You never cried during the injection, and even if the needle can't find blood vessels, it moves mercilessly in your delicate skin, and you never said a word. Every time I see my mother's legs weak, you still sit there strong. Without my mother's hug, I have to admire you from the bottom of my heart! So every time I take medicine, I can proudly tell the doctor that medicine is bitter, as long as it works. Every time I see other children crying their eyes out for injections, and even use the strength of the whole family to cooperate with doctors, my mother is secretly proud, that is pride and relief! If you weren't so strong and carefree, my mother really didn't know how you were going through your illness.
Not only worry about taking medicine, but also worry about eating and sleeping on weekdays. I never have to worry about being picky about food or eating badly, because you are never picky about food. I can give it to you on my own judgment. You eat what I do, and you gobble what I give you. In the past two years, you will give a thumbs up and praise your mother for her delicious cooking.
You've been sleeping well, and you don't have to be coaxed to sleep by your mother since 9 months. At night, except when you get up to pee or drink water when you are thirsty, you can sleep peacefully until dawn and never sleep backwards. This will make mom less tired.
These five years, although life has changed a lot because of you, especially for my mother, it is a thoroughly remoulded change, and many changes are difficult for me personally. However, no matter how hard it was, I survived because I was always with you. When I am sad and crying, you will give my mother a paper towel and wipe my tears. You will say to my mother in a gentle voice: Mom doesn't cry, I am here! ? When your mother is sick and uncomfortable, you will ask her to be caring and attentive and bring her tea and water.
Although you are young, you do give your mother a lot. Although you sometimes make your mother angry, more touching offsets it. So what mom wants to say to you most is: thank you, son! ! Thank you for being with your mother all these years! ! Comfort mom! ! Save mom from the pain. ?
Mom can give you too much and too little! I often feel ashamed that I am not a good mother. Because my ability is limited, others can have it, and my mother can't give it to you! Therefore, you have to rely on your own efforts to win more!
But I will never force you to do anything. I will never force you to do something just because others have something you don't, and I will never force you to fulfill your mother's unfinished wish. Mom wants you to be yourself. No matter what you do in the future, you should ask your heart if you are happy! And mom will respect your wishes, as long as you don't do anything that harms society and violates morality, mom will support you! Maybe mom can't do well in the future, maybe there will be a generation gap when you grow up, but mom hopes you can convince her with your eloquence, and she will consider the problem from the perspective of respecting you, hoping that we can solve the problem rationally in the future. Mom's greatest wish is to be your friend in the future, but to be honest, I'm not sure if I can do it now, but I'll try my best!
You can't understand this letter yet, but I can't wait to say what I think. Mom really appreciates you, thank you for being so worry-free and sensible, and thank you for your company over the years! Mom wants you to remember these six words all your life? Peace, health and happiness? !
XXX
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The second letter to a five-year-old child
Huang Xi and:
Hello! The idea of writing to you for the first time originated from Sina? "Letters from Parents and Bloggers to Children" 100 letters from home for a smiling face for children? Write this blog post in this form today.
Yesterday was the first rest day after the National Day holiday. In order to broaden my horizons, I will show you around almost every rest day, especially some places you have never been to. Although it was cloudy yesterday, I don't want to miss this rare autumn day. I heard that Dongba country park is very suitable for taking photos and barbecues, and the distance is not too far. So I plan to buy a barbecue oven, some charcoal, kindling charcoal and quick-frozen mutton kebabs on the road to let you feel the fun in the wild. But on the way, you urged to go to a place with a children's paradise. When you asked for directions, it happened that a female teacher in the roller skating class of the Olympic Sports Center was selling you a course, saying that there was a big children's paradise upstairs in Carrefour, Yaojiayuan. I temporarily changed my route and went to Qilele Garden.
Located near Yaojiayuan Road, Chaoyang District, Qileyer Children's Theme Park in the dynamic Oriental Outlet Factory has an indoor area of nearly 5,000 square meters, equipped with large plush toys, new technology toys, intellectual enlightenment toys, DIY handmade toys, dynamic movies, happy interaction and group games. In front of the sunny beach, there are spinning coconut trees and huge pirate ships, so you can't linger. Although the ticket price is high, I still met your wish. Let nature take its course You really deserve this ticket and played here for six hours in a row!
The ventilation conditions in large shopping malls are generally poor, and the windows are sealed. You had a good time, but I stood there, sweating unconsciously. But I didn't disturb your interest. I also prepared food and drinks for you, undressed you and wiped your sweat. Seeing some mothers sleeping there, I dare not take a nap for fear of any accident. When you were playing cake games with your children, I also made a guest appearance and asked you to open one. When you have an argument with other children, I nervously advise you to leave. I saw you always playing in one place, so I led you to steal a boat in Shanghai. Only by standing high can you see far.
When I was bored, I turned on my mobile QQ. At this time, a familiar blogger was laughing, and I told her that I was playing with you in Yaojiayuan. She said happily to me, Oh, it's right next to my house! Come to my house for dinner. I saw that it was raining in Mao Mao outside, and I thought it was really a timely help. I told her that I would discuss it with you and see your opinion. As soon as I heard that the little princess invited you to her house, you readily agreed. I made an appointment with the princess's mother and decided to go out to eat because it was a temporary date. I don't have time to tell you either, okay? Ask for instructions? I took the liberty of bringing a small gift to visit you. On the way, you saw the little princess's gift and were curious. You asked if you could open it and play with the little princess. At that time, I also said without thinking, this is a gift and should not be opened in person. If she has other toys at home, she can play with them.
Unexpectedly, this sentence caused trouble later.
You have been playing for six hours today. It should be said that you are still in high spirits. Dad admires you for this, newborn calf, full of energy. But dad is nearly forty years older than you, and his energy is limited after all. Say a word in a daze and you will hold on tight. The princess accepted your gift outside the restaurant, and you also expressed your belated birthday wishes to her. But when you enter the restaurant, you find that it is not what I said to play with toys in people's homes. Bo You and his wife don't want their children to play with toys while eating. I am annoyed that you are so untidy, and the harmonious atmosphere at the dinner table was broken by your sudden crying. After all, the little princess is the little princess. Although she is younger than you, her manners are much higher than yours. She handled the matter very indifferently and returned the gift to you. But it is unreasonable for you to throw away the gift. Bo you's ability to deal with the situation at this time is very strong, which quickly got me out of trouble. After kidnapping me, you made up with the princess and promised to buy you a new car. What impressed me deeply was that you said a word: You make me unhappy, and I will make you all unhappy!
On the way home, you admitted your mistake without waiting for me to speak. I know you are smarter than me, but I still hope you can listen to me. Be sincere to others, be kind to others, introspect more when things go wrong, and go too far ... Dad has to do a lot of homework, and make these principles of being a man into a short story for you to understand. Here I also want to apologize to Bo You and Little Princess again for my rudeness. And invited the little princess's family to visit Dongcheng next time. Give you a chance to turn over a new leaf and show the generosity, modesty and friendliness that a man should have.
On the way to the electric car, I didn't expect it to rain even harder. Dad took off his coat and covered you from head to toe. When I got home, dad was soaked to the skin and all your clothes were dry. I was afraid that you would take a nap in the kindergarten today, so I didn't let you go today. My mother looks at you. I go to work as usual. I wrote this letter to you during my lunch break. I don't ask you for anything in return, but when you grow up, I hope you will be grateful.
Your father
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A letter to a five-year-old child
Dear son Xiaoyu:
My dearest son, 10 year 10 month 19 is your fifth birthday. I know you don't know a few words, and I don't know what dad is talking about. Dad doesn't blame you, because you haven't graduated from kindergarten.
But I still want to write something to you, because your mother often blames me for not having your shadow in my blog, as if I don't care about you.
Because my father works in other places, I can't accompany you every day, and I can't pick you up from school, but that doesn't mean my father doesn't love you. You know, son, you have always been the baby in dad's heart who cares about you day and night.
But dad is still very angry with you sometimes.
What I can't stand most about you is that you don't want to eat anything every day. You haven't drunk half a bowl of porridge for a meal, especially if you eat it above, and it's like farming below. And you don't eat vegetables, even a little green leaves have to be spit in your mouth, which seems to be more bitter than Coptis chinensis, but you didn't see that you were bitter when you took medicine. You may not remember that when you were one or two years old, your mother fed you spoon by spoon, even mouth to mouth, and your father often sang and danced to make you happy. My mother said I would learn to eat for you? Are you distracted? Yes Why, son, I was thinking about trying to coax you to eat. Why is it so difficult for you to eat something? Besides, you don't like fruit, and you don't like any fruit. Do you know that when dad was your age, he had nothing to eat?
You said you needed a VCD player when you were over three years old. Dad bought you a VCD/DVD player without hesitation. Son, you are very clever. Dad can't compare with you. Two or three-year-old children can turn on TV and play CDs, but you don't know English. A-B-C？ Ah, what cartoons are they? Altman, King Kong Huluwa, Xiao Nai, etc. Dad doesn't always object to your watching cartoons, but he always tells you not to be so close to the TV, don't put your hand in your mouth, and don't blink when watching several episodes of TV. Dad doesn't feel bad when he sees that the TV and VCD player are broken. Although he bought several VCD players, he was afraid that you would be nearsighted when you were a child. Don't you know that mom takes it off every day? Contact lenses? Really? Also, when you are writing your homework, can you stop staggering and crawling around on the table? Dad really doesn't want you to be highly nearsighted, because you don't protect your eyes as well as your mother does.
Son, how did you learn to lie at such a young age? I remember that morning, you went downstairs to the steamed stuffed bun stall, but you didn't buy anything. You came back empty-handed and told your mother? Is the steamed stuffed bun sold out? . But dad still believed in you at that time, believing that you wouldn't lie to mom and dad so young. But when I went downstairs to find the old woman selling steamed bread, she told me? You didn't say anything and asked if you wanted to buy steamed bread. You didn't say anything. . Do you know what it's like for mom and dad to be cheated? Mom and dad gave you a good beating that day. You cried in a big mess and looked wronged. But then I asked you why you didn't buy steamed buns. You said you were annoyed that your mother kept ordering you to buy things against your wishes. Hey, my son, I hope you are an honest boy, don't cheat your parents. What saddens them most is that you learned to lie at such a young age! Dad still wants you to listen to the teacher at school, never lie, and never let the teacher shut you up again? Toilet? To punish you? Trick or treat. Yes.
Son, you like toys, and dad knows you love toys. Like my father when he was a child, playing naughty is a boy's nature. I remember last April, my father bought you a simulation gun in Guangzhou, but you forgot to check it when you passed the airport security check, and the police uncle wouldn't let you bring it. Dad ran back to the consignment office at a sprint speed of 100 meters and went through the consignment formalities again to prevent his son from being disappointed with his father. Dad promised to buy you a gun to let you know that dad means what he says. Dad is also very happy to see you like it so much when you go home. But you can't always have a gun and everything, okay? Weapons? For grandma and grandma, dad particularly emphasized this point. Why don't you listen? How many times have you hurt grandma with toys? Dad threw away your toys because he didn't want you to hurt people easily, but you often broke them into pieces, and Dad never complained about you. If you are strong, do you still want to tear down our house?
Son, my parents are very happy and happy. Have you learned to write some Chinese characters now? Big, small, earth, field, me, you? Wait, how many classes do you have to take? 1+2=3? You can draw a red sun for a math problem like this. Ladybug? Well, there is nothing like what the teacher drew for you in your exercise book. Big red flower? And then what? Big apple? This makes my parents happier. But dad doesn't like you doodling on our white wall. Look, what did you draw on the table and sofa? Didn't your parents buy you a lot of books and drawing paper? Dad doesn't want to kill your love of painting. As long as you have this hobby, try to paint happily on the wall, but you must remember never to paint on adults again.
Son, don't blame mom and dad for being cruel. Being apart from your bed won't let you sleep alone, nor will it make you feel scared in the dark. Five years old, son. It's time for you to have your own space. You can't sleep next to your parents all your life. Don't cry anymore. Isn't this just a bed and a room? It's only a matter of time before I sleep with you separately. In order to cultivate your independence and self-care ability, my parents have to do this. Don't you always say that you are a villain?
Son, dad also wants you to grow up and succeed. He is afraid that you will lose at the starting line of life. Dad will buy you skates when other children learn to skate; All the other children have bicycles. Dad bought them for you last week. Other children play ball, and dad bought it for you; Other children have beautiful toys, and dad tries to satisfy you; All the other children have gone out to play, and dad is not available. Didn't mom take you to Tiananmen Square and Nanjing Zoo this year? Other children have a car to pick up after school, and this father can't satisfy you for the time being, because his father is a common people, but you have to believe that his father will work hard; Son, dad is afraid that you will grow up to look like dad, so he gives you milk every day and often makes you drink bone soup, although dad hasn't changed clothes for a year; Dad wants to say a lot.