First of all, husbands want their wives to subsidize the household, it should be a big pressure to have a child, can not meet all the expenses of the three people, this situation is understandable, husband and wife *** with the advancement and retreat well. And you have your own work is not very good? A woman can only be economically independent in order to appear equal in the marriage. In fact, I think that even if the economic independence is not equal, since the man asked the woman to give up their own lives, give up the outside world to bring up children at home only to keep a home, pay the price of money is considered light. But many men do not think so always feel that the wife with their own money, you have to pin the tail as a man. So modern society, women want to live a wonderful life in the married life is really difficult, either meet a good husband, or you have to have a career, have a career at the same time also have to take care of the home.
Secondly, mother-in-law with children? I'm not saying that all mothers-in-law have problems, but older people with children are generally very spoiled. There is a relative who came to my house, the child is almost in kindergarten, every time the shoelace is open directly to the foot a stretch to let the grandmother tie. My mom couldn't stand it and said, "Let him tie his own shoes. Some grandmothers give their children whatever they want, and a kid who is just a little bit big always thinks that he has to give whatever he wants. Once my mother and a group of older women dancing in the square, non-me to take one of the granddaughter, I really do not like the child, especially the child will want to watch a movie, to the cinema and want my cell phone, almost out of battery I want to take back and angry with me! Really uneducated.
I think it's better to send your child to a transition class earlier than your mother-in-law. The premise is that you have to choose a regular, examine the teacher is not every day paste task, the kind of just put the children together to lock up the day really do not go. A good teacher will teach your child some little things. Children play together childhood is also considered happy, but also to know a lot of small friends, in the friction know that they are not the center of the world.
The above is purely as a bystander's sensible view, as a parent it is best to spend more time with your child, even if you can send to pre-school, you have to remember that it's just a means of adapting in advance, not a way to save your time.