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Forget who said this sentence, "A happy marriage is the beginning of a new life; it is also the beginning of happiness and bliss." This statement could just be someone who has experienced a happy marriage. When we get married, we will fantasize about their old marriage. When we get married, the passion fades and the resolve grows awkward with the arrival of firewood and oil.
The details are magnified in marriages, as if there is no trivia, nothing left to do that day. But that said, those slightly more detailed details will be a bit of the marriage. So, when you get married, you must understand the importance of marriage. If you think that faggots are too tired after marriage, therefore it is solely because of fantasy mental immaturity.
Marriage is not a fantasy before marriage. In life, there is a very common phenomenon: many people marry before marriage marriage, they can not wait after marriage. Real happy couples know: "Marriage, not only to continue to love"
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"Paper Marriage" said: the decision to marry a person, just a time courage, guarding the marriage, but it takes a lot of effort. There is a college friend just graduated, I got married, I did not spit: I do not have the meaning of marriage. The person she married was also a college friend of ours. It belonged to the same grade in the same school and both were hot during school. Immediately after graduation, I entered into marriage.At that time, on a single party before their marriage, someone asked this classmate, why did you get married so early? This classmate said: for love, married to love is not the dream of all girls? I am the result of blooming love. This classmate is relatively open, do not give gifts, house has hometown, only need that wedding man. So, she married relatively simple.
After the marriage, I did not have six months. The classmate was too tired in the group, which was even more tired in the group. The spark between the two wasn't there. Still have a bit of regret about the marriage. In fact, it's not the marriage, it's the meaning of this classmate who doesn't understand the meaning of marriage.
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The essence of marriage is not love, but living together. If it is just for a simple love, then continue to fall in love, why are you still married. Besides, luminaire talk is not married, independent and free, happy and fulfilled. Do not worry, you do not want to be bored, which do not want to talk, you can also find the next person to continue to pursue the excitement of love. Just for love, please find someone to erase the sparks, what do you want to do marriage? Is this wedding Chai Mud, more fang than love of love?
So, married to love very beautiful, but marriage, not only to continue to love. Marriage should be gentle twilight in ordinary moments. Rejected later, I got married, I still understand the warmth of this husband and wife.
Even if life is very painful, even if the days are difficult, but people love people around, they are competing, understand each other, support each other, support each other, then you are very sweet.
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Marriage also means that you are not alone, no matter how cruel life is. This love of love, far more and more love, is the purpose of marriage. In the past few days, July has been at its warmest, and a neighbor's grandmother has been hospitalized for a relapse of an old disease. Grandpa King began to "bitter" Xu love. Previously, we ate countless dog food from Grandma King. King's grandmother is an old disease that can easily recur every summer. I do not know what the situation is, I only know that in recent years, Grandma Wang will be hospitalized.
Whenever Grandma Wang was hospitalized, Randall Wang was always waiting at the hospital, giving Grandma Wang, caring for Grandma Wang's health, and in the afternoons, in the hospital gazebo, with his old companion. Everyone who sees Wang's grandmother must stop watching, because it is happy to wear the disease and laugh.
It is also because Grandma Wang is not afraid of death, she talks to my mother after she jumps on the square dance, and I make her afraid, when I talk to my mother, I will be afraid. She said, "No matter what, I won't die alone, you have my grandfather with me." On a typical day, two old men are reluctant and a couple kids are out working. Every time I see them, I hold my hand and pay my respects, and I always feel like this life is too little.
The significance of marriage is just that is old get, there is a person to accompany you, accompany you to the hospital, and your life together, this kind of partner, why is not a kind of happiness.