I once fell in love with someone who didn't love me. I was so deeply in love that I was injured three times and four times. I thought I would go through all the hardships, but I was finally abandoned mercilessly, leaving only a scarred and crying heart.
In fact, falling in love with someone who doesn't love himself is a mistake in itself, just like falling in love with a piece of ice. Don't think about what to influence her and melt her. Even if it melts, it will only be water, tasteless water, which will never be as thick, pure and true as her own. Some people say that lovers will be very painful after breaking up, but at least there are sweet memories. One of the great blessings of life is that many things lost in the past years can be awakened with vivid memories, savored carefully, and felt gratified when I was old. The feeling of dying is more painful and touching, just like Romeo and Juliet and butterfly lovers. But when you fall in love with someone who doesn't love you, there is no such thing as a beginning from the beginning to the end. It's just wishful thinking, thinking it's already started, but it's actually just a big dream.
Come to think of it, too many people like to insist on emotional issues, but in hindsight, love is a kind of pay, a kind of tolerance, a kind of trust, a kind of respect, not just possession and struggle.
Hard twisted melons are not sweet. Everything comes naturally, and so do emotional problems.
I still remember a saying that love is like a master's trick. Whoever is tempted first will lose miserably. And if you move your heart and she doesn't, you lose even worse. Although we don't care about the pay and return in love, love is mutual, and what is between you is not love. Now that I think about it, I feel stupid. I only know silly love and silly dedication. You said it was right, but I wouldn't say it was wrong. You name one, I know it's two, but I didn't take the time to think about whether it was love or not.
Love should be both tolerant and selfish: tolerance is for forgivable mistakes and selfishness is for unforgivable mistakes. Forgiving someone repeatedly and unprincipled is actually cruel to yourself. In fact, each of us should be better to ourselves, because there is only one person who will not cheat, betray or hurt himself, and that is himself.
Since you chose to leave, you should not come back; And I have chosen to be kind to myself, so I won't be cruel to myself again. In fact, there are many choices in life, but there is only one opportunity. When you choose A, it means that you give up B. You can't have your cake and eat it. We should not be too greedy, we should be responsible for our choices. Repeatedly evading responsibility is not only sorry for others, but also sorry for yourself.
I am glad that I finally figured out what is love and what is not love; What is good for people and what is not good for people. I finally stopped crying for you, no longer sad for you, and my heart was calm. All I have left is a faint memory and love for you. Perhaps it is this memory and love that reminds me of you inadvertently, but I don't love you anymore!
If there is fate, time and space are not distances;
If there was no chance, we would never have met.
Let everything take its course. ...
Love is a feeling, even if it is painful, it will feel happy;
Love is an experience, even if it is heartbreaking, it will feel sweet;
Love is an experience, even if it is broken, it will feel beautiful. ..
Some losses are doomed, and some predestinations will never bear fruit.
Loving someone doesn't necessarily mean having it.
However, I just can't erase the bits and pieces you left in your heart. ..
Forget your truth and your purity;
Forget the memory of the past;
Forget yesterday's laughter, forget your voice and smile;
Forget your melancholy feelings and your calm eyes.