I just interviewed three women who just turned 50. Listen to how they deal with and choose true love.
0 1. Ms. Lu is 52 years old.
My wife died four years ago. At that time, my mentality was really bad, and I almost wanted to go with him.
Fortunately, my children and friends actively enlightened me and helped me survive from a person's despair.
Since last year, I feel that I have regained my youthful vitality. The reason is also very simple, I am in love again.
In those lonely years, I actively participated in gatherings organized by the elderly in the community. I met my present wife at the party.
Like me, he was widowed in his later years. Because of the same experience, plus we both like chatting and walking, our tacit understanding will converge over time.
We've been together for a year and a half now. To tell the truth, we're so old that we don't intend to get a license. Think of it as having someone to spend your old age with you.
This mutual companionship has enabled him and I to regain the vitality of youth, and we all feel that this is a good thing to be grateful for.
02. Ms. Wu is 5 1 year old.
I am a divorced woman, divorced 12 years. I have been living alone since my divorce.
Now that the children have grown up, they have all gone to work in other places. They are very worried about my personal life and always want me to find someone to live with.
To tell the truth, I'm really used to living alone these years. You can cook if you want to. If you don't want to cook, you know how to order takeout. It feels particularly convenient.
At the age of 46, a colleague and friend advised me, but I thought about it and didn't agree.
Now, after so many years, I still want to live alone and support the elderly alone. If you don't want anything else, you can feel at ease and live as you want.
Don't cook for others, take care of others' lives. I took a break some time ago and signed up for an elderly tour group.
I followed a group of old sisters to play. Now that I think about it, I feel very happy.
So, don't say that I haven't met the opposite sex, even if I have, and I don't want to move that mind. After all, I have been here for half my life, and I want to be more free when I am old.
Ms Gao is 56 years old.
Probably well maintained. Many people say I don't look that old.
When I was young, I attached great importance to keeping in good health and adjusting my mentality. I think this is the key to my youth now.
My wife died almost 10 years ago. Really a little lonely, especially after retirement.
Grandchildren don't come often, and my old age is a bit deserted.
A few days ago, I discussed with my children whether I could find another wife, just to inject some vitality into our future life.
Unexpectedly, my son and daughter both agreed with my idea, and said that they had thought so long ago, so they didn't say anything for fear that I wouldn't agree.
I haven't found a suitable partner yet, but since the children don't object, I will work hard in this direction.
For a year and a half, I can meet someone who is suitable to accompany me to death. After all, the old people really need to have some fun now, otherwise this long time is really hard.
Emotional conclusion:
This man is old, but he can't be too lonely. After all, I have been busy all my life, and I have to work hard for my happiness when I am old.
If you can meet the right person, add a fire to yourself and have a good time. If you can't meet the right one, you can also have a wild play by yourself.
Although the years can't go back, the vitality of youth can be obtained.