What does this song mean when a man says goodbye to his bosom friend?

Maybe this man has a very good feeling for this woman, and both of them have their own marriages, so it is impossible to live together. I can only miss each other in my heart. But it's impossible. Let them live together, it is impossible to live happily together. That's why this middle-aged man sends women songs like "Don't be friends" to express himself. He can only say goodbye to the woman he likes. We will never be together. Introducing how to get along with others by a confidant may be an important life topic that everyone must learn. When I come to the university dormitory, I want to learn how to get along with my roommates. Of course, it's good to meet an approachable roommate, but practice is also very important! Many people are expecting a "person who knows me" and a "confidant". However, while establishing this relationship beyond ordinary friends, some students are frustrated, angry, betrayed and even no longer believe in the existence of "trustworthy friends", and their enthusiasm for making friends immediately decreases. Is it so difficult to want a "bosom friend"? In fact, if you want to pursue your life confidant, you must first return to the definition of the word "confidant". It makes sense to read the text. "bosom friend" simply means knowing and understanding your inner friends. In fact, everyone has other subjective identification of "bosom friend" in their hearts. If you can't examine your hidden thoughts about "bosom friend" and understand the other person's views on "bosom friend" first, you will rashly become a "bosom friend" and usually end up "separated by understanding" What does this song mean? What is the relationship between friends? Answer: Friends are very good friends, and friends mean good friends. A bosom friend generally refers to a person who knows each other and has deep feelings. It is enough to have a bosom friend in life. It is conceivable that having a bosom friend is a good thing. On the road of life, we will meet many people, some give us warmth, some give us a shoulder, some help us, and some hurt us. But there are also some people who are like brothers to us and are sincere to us. Such people are bosom friends! A bosom friend is the best among friends. Ordinary friends can contact, but they can't talk to each other. A bosom friend can pour out his heart when he is sad, comfort him, make it clear when he is wronged, understand him, and will not laugh at your shortcomings or publicize your secrets. A bosom friend is hard to find, but a bosom friend is hard to find. A bosom friend is the best among friends, and a bosom friend is the luck of life. If you have such a bosom friend, please cherish it, do not hurt, bully or abandon it! What does it mean for a man to bid farewell to his bosom friend? The first way to maintain the relationship between intimate friends is to get rid of some specious ideas: there are no secrets between intimate friends, and these people rarely allow them to do things they don't know. Where the other party goes and what he does, he must "report" to himself first, or go together or ask his permission before going. Think about it, these people want "real friends". People often think that since we are "bosom friends", she should know me, so when there are some contradictions, we should be able to grasp his thoughts compared with ordinary friends, but forget that we are not "worms in the stomach" of each other, and even we can't get to know each other well, and our mood and attitude will change at any time, let alone be "bosom friends". A "bosom friend" must be able to do anything necessary. If a "confidant" refuses his request, he will no longer be regarded as a "confidant". However, some things in the world can't be "cut corners", such as playing truant with friends, eating, drinking and having fun together, and so on. Such "friends" are blind followers, not "real friends"! From a psychological point of view, all mental health behaviors have a characteristic, that is, "the mean". "Too much is not enough" is unhealthy! The same is true of interpersonal relationships. The concept of making friends that is too intimate, completely trusting or too distant and completely distrustful can't get interpersonal satisfaction. Too clingy makes people feel suffocated, alienated and lonely. There is a saying in China that "extremes meet", and so does "bosom friend". Sweet feelings that cannot be dissolved, though desirable, usually deteriorate and disintegrate. True friendship, like delicious rice, is "a little sticky but not too sticky". If it doesn't stick, it can't reflect the friendship between two people, but if it is too sticky, it will deprive each other of space. Before we become "bosom friends", we'd better have this healthy idea. Confidante, in the dictionary, means "knowing people and having friendship". However, "Farewell to Vice Governor Du for Shu" expresses his concern for his friends in simple and touching language. From the comforting speech of this talented poet to his friend who is traveling abroad, we can see that he really knows this and really cares about this friend. And "We say goodbye to each other sadly, and * * * is an official passer-by" further illustrates the mutual understanding between friends and shows this friendship naked. After reading this poem, I was deeply infected by the deep friendship and the feeling of being inseparable from time. Is a bosom friend equal to a friend? I think a bosom friend is just a kind of friend. There are many kinds of friends, friends who nod and never look back. Most people think that the best friend is a confidant, but I think the best friend is not as good as a confidant. There are many words to describe a bosom friend, such as "a scholar dies for a bosom friend" and "a bosom friend dies without regret". All these prove that people have different views on their best friends and bosom friends. People will never say that a best friend will die without regret. In fact, it is very difficult to find a bosom friend. Some people have never found a bosom friend, and I haven't found a bosom friend yet. So, what kind of friends can be considered bosom friends? When getting along with close friends, we must be considerate and care about each other. The intersection of a pair of intimate friends lies in mutual appreciation, rather than teasing and using each other. They should treat each other sincerely, without fraud or deception. In addition, to become a pair of bosom friends, we must have the same hobbies, so that we can have the same topic. If they don't have the same hobbies, they naturally don't have much to talk about. No matter how you accommodate each other, you will feel bored, so it is difficult to become a bosom friend. My interest is reading. I like Chinese in China and China literature, but none of my friends have the same interests as me, so I often feel lonely. I always look forward to having a bosom friend by my side. The longing for a bosom friend reminds me of the sentence "I have a bosom friend when I am born, and I have no regrets when I die". I think, if I can find a bosom friend, maybe I will feel dead without regret. In life, it is difficult to have a bosom friend. If you have a confidant around you, you must cherish it. Intimate friends are really hard to get. Confidante and confidante are now online or in life. It seems to be a fashion to pursue and have a female confidant. People put on a warm coat for this heterosexual confidant, that is, "confidante" or "confidante". Not all people can enjoy this warmth, because "confidante" or "confidante" is not easy to define. Same-sex confidants are hard to find in life, and heterosexual confidants are even more rare treasures. They are as desirable as love. In fact, no matter beauty or blue, as long as they are bosom friends, they are all talking about an emotional exchange. What does this song mean? 4. The three meanings of bosom friend. The first meaning is to have feelings. The so-called confidant is based on the feeling of mutual respect, love and appreciation between two people, and at the same time, they can understand, tolerate and care for each other. A bosom friend can be without sex, but never without affection and love. Without affection and love, people can understand, respect, tolerate and appreciate. It can exist between two friends, which is also a kind of friendship, but the relationship between these two people is not a bosom friend. The second meaning is that this feeling must be mutual. Although there are feelings, if you only pay unilaterally, you can't call it a confidant. You can worship a great man, a star and a politician, but if you regard great men, stars and politicians as bosom friends, it is only your wishful thinking. The third layer means that there must be exchanges and communication between each other. Without communication, there will be no corresponding feedback on each other's experiences and sentiments. Without communication and understanding, it may become incomprehension, and without communication and care, it is impossible to achieve real care. As bosom friends, we must have feelings of mutual respect, appreciation and admiration, and we must communicate with each other in order to reach the realm of mutual understanding, mutual tolerance and mutual concern. Without any of them, you can't call it a confidant. To put it simply, whether it is "beauty" or "blue face", as long as they are bosom friends, they are "mutual" relations.