What are the pros and cons of a high profile and a low profile? For example, A is a person who has mastered certain fighting skills and can take on four or five ordinary people at the same time. To most people, he's pretty good. But his kung fu is certainly not good enough to compete in a professional ring, and he could easily be killed that way. What was the benefit of choosing to be high profile under this premise? That is, many people would look at him highly and might actively make compromises when there was a conflict of interest between the two sides; there would also be people who would deliberately befriend him and honor him as their big brother, with the aim of obtaining a powerful helper of course; and there was also the possibility that he would be spotted by a certain bigwig and entrusted with an important task, which of course might be something like a bodyguard or an assassin. If A is happy to enjoy these benefits, or if this is his purpose in the first place, then it means that the high profile is correct. However, there is also a danger lurking here, and that is that others are well aware of his strengths, and will generally compromise in a general conflict with him. However, if his opponent is a powerful character, or the two have a deep grudge, his trouble will come. One kind of opponent is very strong and the other is very determined. On the basis of understanding his strength, the opponent will either look for a more powerful helper, or gather a large group of people to surround him, or even secretly lay a black hand, it is very difficult for him to escape.
Again, A, if he chooses to keep a low profile, then is not able to enjoy the benefits of a high profile. But no one will want to use superior force to "encircle" him. Even in the face of occasional hostility, it is clear that in all probability he will be able to neutralize it lightly. From this we can see that a high profile can gain a lot of benefits, but is also prone to great danger; a low profile may not be able to gain more benefits, but is more likely to keep the peace, or in the case of a high-value target, to take advantage of the paralysis of the opponent to give a fatal blow. For an example of this, see the second battle against the United States and North Korea: the Volunteer Army took the initiative to retreat and discard some supplies in the case of a small victory in the early stage, release the American prisoners and tell them "I am no longer able to fight". If not, how could the U.S. have suffered the greatest defeat in history and turned the tide of the battlefield?
Why do some people like to hide their strength? I think there are two reasons: one is introversion; the other is self-protection.
One, the character of introverted people, not easy to leak. A person has a person's character, some lively and cheerful, some calm and introverted. Generally speaking, the character of more introverted people, as if they hide everything, always not show the mountains. Especially to their own including wealth, talent, views, opinions and other strengths hidden very deep. It is very difficult for others to see it when they do not have a deep friendship. In fact, there is nothing wrong with this. Because, this is not selfishness, this is completely determined by the character.
Three, other reasons. In addition, there are many other reasons can cause the hiding of their strength. For example:Rich people tend to go to the bank loan, today loan, tomorrow return, to others to create the illusion that they have no money. The reason for this is that they are afraid of others borrowing money. Others often hide their talents, saying that this will not that will not, because they are afraid to do more things. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
In short, the introverted character and the sense of self-protection make some people like to hide their own strength, not to leak.
There is an old saying that a person's intelligence should be "used three times, hide three times, and leave three times to the children and grandchildren". What does it mean?
The so-called use three is to say, to do things to make three force, brain power, heart power and hand power.
The first thing that I want to do is to make sure that I have a good understanding of what I am doing.
The so-called hide three is that people can not be too strong, everywhere to show their own, this will be jealous of people, resentment, and cause trouble for themselves.
The so-called left three to the children, is that people can not be too smart, people are too smart, consume too much energy, often affect the next generation of IQ. This is why some parents are very smart, but the children are mentally defective.
When a person is powerful to a certain extent, he likes to hide his strength, because he is afraid that others will ask for help, and he does not need to ask for help, naturally, there will be people seeking him. There is also the fear that the trees attract the wind, the gun hit the head, in order to self-protection it. This may be one of the reasons why a person who is powerful to a certain extent likes to hide his strength! Of course, for a motivated, ambitious, love to toss people, never like to hide their own strength, but will try to show their own strength to attract more powerful people to cooperate with them, resulting in **** win, so as to go to a bigger, stronger, farther. This is human nature, greed. In fact, this society, if there is no greed, people's thinking will be old-fashioned, in place, or even regression, it is because of greed only to stir people upward to the good enthusiasm, break through one after another difficulties, the courage to Pan peaks, the courage to go forward, to create more and better to meet the needs of the growing demand for development, the society will be progress, will develop, people will have material enjoyment and spiritual enjoyment.
This is the traditional middle way, to put it bluntly, in order to save his life, in our traditional culture, there is a very deep "the gun hit the head out of the head", "people are afraid of the famous pig is afraid of strong" strange logic in it, that is to say, you can be good, but you It is best to hide, I eat steamed bread, you can eat meat, but you do not BIAJI mouth, this is our traditional culture, if the violation of what will happen?
That is, as long as you live better than me, you are sure to die earlier than me, who fooled who died.
There was a little girl before, her old man was careful all his life, it was not easy to get a dozen suites, the result is that he is a loser daughter out of a fool, the above a check, finished, went in.
Li Gang's son bumped into someone, if not shouting "my father is Li Gang", on that kind of thing, if not by the media hype, it can be completely calm down, as a result, things have made a big deal, the son went in, the old man also lost his hat.
So, in our country, the more capable, usually the more cautious and low-profile, the more out all day fooling around, most of the small fry.
To separate and discuss.
One kind of person is to do it on purpose. The first one is the one that is not a part of the program, but is a part of the program. Here again, there are two kinds of people, one is to hide for utilitarian purposes; the other is to hide for inner pursuit. All of the above are hidden with a purpose and are acquired behaviors.
The other is the character. The other is the nature of loyalty and generosity. Sometimes hide half is to give you face, nature does not compete, in the field he is good at, but also give the opportunity to compete for meritocracy, at the same time, this kind of human heart is elsewhere, you value things for him is not worth mentioning. At the same time, this kind of avoidance of sharpness of hiding sharpness and show clumsiness is also a kind of modesty posture, the executive virtual weapon such as the executive surplus, the person who is as vain as a valley.
The above hidden people in real life is very difficult to distinguish, and is not right or wrong, because the personality color is very important, such as if the color is goodness, to become which kind of people are no harm, but encountered in nature to make this kind of, this friend I was handed over.
Back to the title, can let the owner obviously see each other hiding, then one is the original to you very sincere, honest, but between you appeared a number of things, he had the idea of you, that you do not deserve or that he frankly let you feel sold, then it will be obvious hiding. The other is to meet full of hostility, never had goodwill, hidden mentality are let you feel, then this key moment to see the bottom of the character, if it is good, but it is too much of the heart of the upwardly mobile, the proportion is not good, and the other can not help but beware of the villain of a kind.
Do not arbitrarily to the number, to have the experience to accurately judge,
The real strength of the people, is not hidden. For example, Ma Yun, Ren Zhengfei and other national beams, is a household name. The bosses of the middle level, because they still catch some of the ground, it is somewhat hidden, hiding in the luxury cars and mansions, for fear of small people jealous of the rich and jealous of talent. Stars can only be seen on stage and screen. The most free is the people of the city, the street square dance, roadside chess, park walks, shopping market and so on without fear.
Yi Yi proverb: the gun hit the head, people are afraid of fame, pigs are afraid of strong, the company's easy to fold, bright and easy to dirty, Yangchun Baixue, the general of the widow, in fact, the reputation is difficult to vice, outside the mountain, outside the people. Modesty makes progress, pride makes people fall; words can not say too full, leave room, space. Thousands of years of Chinese wisdom shows that people can not be full of talk, cloudy mountains. To be down-to-earth, down-to-earth work, honest people do not suffer...
This is called: the sky can not be leaked, leave yourself a little back way in and out, businessmen can not be everywhere to let the wind, there is no benefit to themselves, no oil and water to fish.
The wood show in the forest wind will destroy, China is the Taoist appearance, the world of public opinion. Since ancient times . This is China's biggest common problem, Bi Fu Jian, Tu Lei ...... is not enough? Sometimes it's better not to say anything. Secondly, China's biggest problem is that it has been shouting the middle way, just like the woman now, although it is not a politician, but she is the middle way of China, played to the fullest extent, you do not serve all can not. China can't say, but it's just hanging sheep's head to sell dog meat