As a root of the "star" second generation, he was not comfortable growing up.
As a root of the "star two", Zhang Boyu's growing experience is not comfortable,
Although he head of his father Zhang Fengyi and mother Lv Liping's halo, but did not get a half of the warmth of the family,
2 years old when his parents divorced, his father Zhang Fengyi do not care about him, and even cold words,
After his hard work on the road of the actor, Zhang Fengyi, the father of the wedding, and even the wedding, the father of the wedding.
After his hard work on the road of the actor, Zhang Fengyi also became the biggest piece of "stumbling block",
Zhang Fengyi not only time and time again to suppress Zhang Boyu's heart, and even refused to participate in his wedding,
For many years to not let Zhang Boyu to contact him, and claimed: "This is all for your own good."
Why on earth did Zhang Boyu let his father treat him so badly? What is the reason for Zhang Boyu to do so?
01 hasty parents marriage
1956, Zhang Fengyi was born in Changsha, Hunan Province, before the age of one, followed his parents to live in Yunnan Province,
Compared to his son, Zhang Boyu star bumps, Zhang Fengyi's fame experience is obviously much smoother,
16 years old, Zhang Fengyi was selected into the
At that time, he was already 1.8 meters tall, with a decent appearance and a strong physique, and was favored by the team leaders.
After two years of working in the troupe, Zhang Fengyi accumulated a wealth of experience on stage.
Coincidentally, this time, he caught up with the resumption of the college entrance exams, a good opportunity.
So he quit his job and enrolled in the Beijing Film and Television Festival, which is a great opportunity for him.
Zhang Fengyi has the same good fortune as being favored by heaven,
With his accumulated experience and outstanding appearance, he stood out among the tens of thousands of candidates,
After being admitted to the acting department of the Peking Film Academy, Zhang Fengyi embarked on the path of becoming an actor at an early age.
During his sophomore year of college, he was chosen by the director of Hong Kong's Phoenix Pictures to play the lead role of Jing Dalei in the film "Raiding Treasure Outside the Sea.
In his first production, Zhang Fengyi was given the opportunity to play a leading role on the big screen, and his strength and luck were evident.
Zhang Fengyi's acting skills in it were also recognized by the crowd, and he succeeded in entering the audience's field of vision.
After that, Zhang Fengyi ushered in a second good opportunity,
In 1981, he starred in the lead role of Xiangzi in the movie "Camel Xiangzi" directed by Lin Zifeng.
The movie was well produced, the script was solid, and Zhang Fengyi used his superb acting skills to restore the Xiangzi in the original novel by Lao She.
With this work, Zhang Fengyi became famous before he graduated, and became one of the leading actors in the movie industry.
After graduation, Zhang was assigned to the Emei Film Studio, where he continued to play many tough-guy roles.
In 1986, he starred in the movie "The Adventure of the Pigeon Fancier," which won him both the "Tongniu Award for the Best Adult Performance" and the "First Chinese Movie Acting Award".
At the same time, Zhang Fengyi began to consider his own life,
In 1987, Zhang Fengyi came to the home of his classmate Lv Xiaogang as a guest, and just happened to run into Lv Liping, who was visiting her brother.
At the age of 27, Lv Liping had already won the Golden Rooster and Hundred Flowers awards, and starred in the movie The Old Well which is now in theaters nationwide.
The two men met at first glance and were very happy.
In 1988, Zhang Fengyi and Lv Liping licensed marriage, son Zhang Boyu was born soon after,
And Zhang Fengyi to Lv Liping's wedding ceremony is even simpler to almost no, a *** only spent 50 dollars to set up the wine,
Lv Liping in the marriage of the choice of the family and give up the cause, while Zhang Fengyi continue to fight career,
Lv Liping recalled: "I was all alone with the children, there was no time to dress myself, often several days without washing my hair and changing clothes", although she paid a lot for the family, but it does not mean that it can keep the family,
In Zhang Fengyi's heart, Lv Liping is a traditional virtuous woman, very much in line with his requirements for a wife,
Lv Liping is a traditional woman, very much in line with his requirements for a wife,
Liping is a traditional woman, very much in line with his requirements for a wife.
But his feelings for Lv Liping are not necessarily deep,
A large part of the reason why he chose to get married in the first place, or because Lv Liping is pregnant.
After getting married, the couple lived apart for a long time, one living in Emei Studios and the other in Shanghai Studios,
The lack of communication between the two sides coupled with the trouble of family chores, the two were not strong enough to create a gap between their feelings,
Lv Liping thought that the child was slowly pulling up, her husband would be more understanding of their own,
But I did not think that with the passage of time, this gap is not as deep as it should be,
But I did not expect that the child would not be able to understand her.
In 1991, Zhang Fengyi slapped Lv Liping in an argument, which made her completely dead,
The two soon chose to divorce, ending the hasty marriage,
Zhang Boyu was only 2 years old at that time, and at the age of nothing to understand the children in the divorced family.
02 "star" in the rough
In 1988, Zhang Boyu was born into the spotlight as a "star",
but his childhood was a very rough one.
When his parents divorced at the age of 2, Zhang Boyu couldn't understand what it meant and didn't feel that his life had changed in any way,
so he rarely saw his busy father from a young age, and lived with his mother all the time.
When he was young, Zhang Boyu was nicknamed "Shuanzhu" ("拴住"), which means "to be tied down. "
Zhang Boyu had a nickname as a child, "Shuanzhuang", which was given to him by his mother when he was born.
After her divorce, Lv Liping had to make a comeback to the theater,
and the young Zhang Boyu was often brought along by his mother and became a "regular" on the set.
The childhood days spent on the set were very new and interesting for Zhang Boyu,
Not only could he follow the crew and fiddle with the props, but he also got to see all kinds of shooting scenes that he couldn't see in reality,
Under the influence of his eyes and ears, Zhang Boyu also had a concept of shooting, and he liked the atmosphere of the set.
When he was shooting for the "Story of the Editor", Zhang Boyu had the opportunity to see a lot of people, including his mother, and he was able to see a lot of people who were not in the set, but he was able to see a lot of people who were not in the set.
When he was filming "The Story of the Editorial Office", he would help to maintain the order of the scene,
When he was filming "The Walled City", he would use Shanghainese to speak to Chen Daoming,
Chen Daoming was full of praise: "This kid is really smart, and he will be great in the future".
The mother, Lv Liping, is a strong and independent woman who never seems to have a moment of vulnerability,
In Zhang Boyu's memory, his mother seldom mentioned his father in front of him,
Even if his mother worked while taking care of him, and the whole person was tired and very haggard, she would not say a word about his father,
And Zhang Fengyi, before he remarried, would come to pick him up on the weekends if he had time.
This makes the young Zhang Boyu thought that his father just every once in a while to travel, and not separated from his mother,
Until the age of 7 years old, Zhang Boyu from his grandmother's mouth learned that his father has set up a new family news,
He realized that his father is no longer only belongs to him alone.
Zhang Boyu's heart has developed a grudge against his father, believing that his father abandoned him and his mother,
so he threw away the toys that his father had given him, and he was cold-eyed when he faced his father, who came to visit him on weekends.
He yelled at Zhang Fengyi, "Go away, I don't want to see you," and then hid in his room and refused to come out.
He yelled at Zhang Feng Yi, "I don't want to see you," and then hid in his room and refused to come out,
After seeing his son like this three times, Zhang Feng Yi's patience was exhausted,
Plus, after remarrying, Zhang Feng Yi began to put more energy on the side of the new family,
leading to the neglect of Zhang Boyu's care, the father and son to get along with the time is greatly reduced, and the relationship has slowly been estranged,
And his mother's work began to become more and more busy, not like the old days.
On the other hand, Zhang Fengyi and his wife Huo Fan, who is 12 years younger, remarried, and there is a stepdaughter on the other side,
Perhaps after a hasty and failed marriage, Zhang Fengyi treasures his wife, who is in love with him,
He also loves his stepdaughter and pampers her, and he never skimped on the money, luxury cars, and luxury goods.
In his 14th year of life, Zhang Bo Yu has been a member of the National Committee of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference (CPPCC) and a member of the National Committee of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference (CPPCC).
When his stepdaughter was 14 years old, Zhang Fengyi came all the way back from the theater to accompany her birthday,
He also sent her a million-dollar Porsche sports car, and in his usual life he also pampered his stepdaughter.
In contrast, Zhang Fengyi treated his own son Zhang Boyu's attitude after this,
Since having a son and a daughter, Zhang Fengyi's education concept has become a typical "poor child rich child",
Since Zhang Boyu was born, he has very little time to stay with his son's side, and often do not care about the child.
Since Zhang Boyu's birth, he has had little time to spend with his son, and often does not care,
Not only has he never accompanied Zhang Boyu on his birthday, but he has never given him any material representation,
On Zhang Boyu's education, Zhang Fengyi has also been very strict, and even to the point of censure,
He once said: "My son and I are not friends, that is, the strict relationship between father and son". The first time I saw him, I was in the middle of a conversation with him, and he was in the middle of a conversation with me.
When he was in junior high school, his mother only gave Zhang Boyu 20 yuan of pocket money each month, counting the food expenses was 100 yuan,
This is certainly not enough for the child who is growing up, he can only think of ways to earn pocket money on his own,
One of the ways is to play basketball with Zhang Fengyi, and if he plays well, he may be able to ask for some more pocket money from his father,
Whenever you play soccer and sweat, Zhang Boyu can't help but wipe his face with his hands,
Zhang Fengyi would scold him when he saw it: "The hand that touches the ball is too dirty, don't wipe it on your face."
But when Zhang Boyu, who was soaked in sweat, accidentally forgot, Zhang Fengyi kicked him directly:" Are you deaf?!"
His father scolded himself in public, which made Zhang Boyu feel both aggrieved and sad.
After this incident, Zhang Boyu was taught the majesty of his father, and no longer dare to have any disobedience,
A few games down, Zhang Fengyi from his pocket to pull out a bunch of 100 yuan bills,
Zhang Boyu saw after the can't help but happy: "finally can have money to spend," < /p>
But I did not expect to see the father's father, but he did not know that the father's father had a lot of money to spend.
But Zhang Fengyi found a crumpled 50 yuan in the pile of money and handed it to Zhang Boyu,
This made Zhang Boyu completely confused and frustrated,
But he still used this hard-earned "hard money" to buy a bouquet of flowers to give to his mother,
Because of this,
Zhang Boyu's mother had to buy a bouquet of flowers to give to his mother because of his marriage to Tao Weiwei. The first time I saw this was when I was in the middle of the night, and it was the first time I'd ever seen it.
After receiving the flowers, Lv Liping was very touched and understood that she owed something to her son over the years,
In 2001, Lv Liping and Tao Wei divorced, and the marriage lasted only one year,
In the same year, Lv Liping shot "The Passionate Years" when she got together with Sun Haiying,
Sun Haiying is a big, easygoing person, who was also very concerned about Zhang Boyu.
After a period of time, Sun Haiying gradually made up for the lack of fatherly love in the growth of Zhang Boyu,
In 2002, Lv Liping married Sun Haiying in the third marriage, and Zhang Boyu once again had a stepfather.
This is the first time that I've seen Zhang Boyu's father's face, and I've never seen him in the same place.
03 Suffering from his biological father's "cynicism"
In the blink of an eye, Zhang Boyu was 14 years old, and he intended to go to his mother's school to study,
Lv Liping supported her son's idea.
In addition to disliking his son's looks, Zhang Fengyi also has another reason for his opposition,
He believes that acting is not a shortcut in life, and that only with sufficient knowledge can he better understand the role,
And Zhang Boyu was not only a "little fat", but also only a junior high school education.
This is the first time I've ever seen a movie with the same name.
Combined with the above two points, Zhang Boyu in Zhang Fengyi's view is not a piece of good material when the actor,
So Zhang Fengyi in the phone to his son loudly scolded: "You hurry to me to quit school, to go to the examination of a serious high school, you look like this and the educational level still want to be an actor? Zhang Boyu also not willing to show weakness back to choke: "I just want to be an actor, is to study art school, and in the future I will also be sure to get into a good university, do not have to worry about you",
These words of his father y hurt Zhang Boyu's self-esteem, he can not yet understand his father behind the scenes to do the long-term considerations,
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Zhang Fengyi on his son's behavior is very dissatisfied, the two will meet for the matter of quarrel,
But Zhang Boyu firm unwilling to quit school, Zhang Fengyi also refused to let go, father and son relationship is also the more and more stiff,
Until one day, Zhang Fengyi in a fit of anger bluntly said: "Since you give me this, then do not call me, after I Do not recognize you", this sentence so that Zhang Boyu heart of aggression and resentment completely exploded,
In that after a long period of time, father and son and then did not have no contact with each other, but also did not say a word.
In fact, in Zhang Boyu's heart, his feelings towards his father are love and hate, respect and fear,
Although his father rarely accompanied him since he was a child, he could always see his father's figure on TV,
which also made him more admiration for his father, especially after the real contact with the actor's profession,
Zhang Boyu, who is also a passionate actor, admired his father's skillful acting.
Zhang Boyu, who also has a passion for acting, admired his father's acting skills and took him as his role model.
When he was in art school, Zhang Boyu turned his father's movie Farewell My Concubine into a stage play, which he also wrote and directed.
However, Zhang Fengyi's cold words to him inadvertently distanced his father from his son, and he did not dare to get close to his father.
In 2007, after several years of accumulation and hard work, Zhang Boyu successfully entered the Central Academy of Drama,
But Zhang Fengyi knew, but also did not give him a word of praise,
Zhang Boyu at this time also no longer take into account his father's ideas, firmly want to become an actor,
He practiced more diligently in the basics, learning cultural knowledge, and during the school was very good. "The first time I've seen a movie, I've seen a movie, and I've seen a movie, and I've seen a movie, and I've seen a movie.
All along, compared to Zhang Fengyi, it was his stepfather Sun Haiying who gave Zhang Boyu more love and care,
In 2014, Zhang Boyu and actress Zhang Moxie got married,
His stepfather, Sun Haiying, helped set up the wedding venue, and even acted as the host of the wedding,
Lv Liping was very happy at the scene, and a group of family and friends also sent their blessings to Zhang Boyu,
The wedding ceremony was held at the same time as the wedding.
And in this life's most important occasions, should appear under the seat of the biological father ZhangFengYi but directly absent,
After the news released to the Internet, people have reprimanded ZhangFengYi son is too "cold-blooded, heartless,"
Because the day of the ZhangFengYi does not have other schedules, but simply do not want to attend the son's wedding.
Because Zhang Fengyi did not have any other schedule that day, he simply did not want to attend his son's wedding.
After causing a lot of controversy, Zhang Fengyi had to come forward to explain the reason,
It turned out that he thought that Zhang Boyu's wedding a **** set 27 tables, for him to do too much for the newcomers who just graduated,
Zhang Fengyi said: "The wedding only do a table to receive a certificate is enough to get so big battle a little too much! "
And he has participated in the wedding basically divorced, in order to avoid bringing bad luck to his son, simply do not participate.
04 understand the good intentions, and the father's reconciliation
Zhang Fengyi for Zhang Boyu's various behaviors and attitudes, all let the outside world that he is not a good father,
But in fact, he is for his son's love is hidden in the depths of the deeper, with a different and stricter way of expression,
grew up after the Zhang Boyu, only gradually be able to understand his father's good intentions,
Become an actor for many years, Zhang Boyu on the hardships of this industry a few more points of their own understanding,
Only to understand his father's opposition to his early entry into the acting circle, do not take a detour of the idea is correct,
Also understand his father's "criticism" of their own,
But in fact, buried in his father's "criticism" of their own.
In the absence of the wedding, Zhang Fengyi also found Zhang Boyu face to face to talk about the situation,
The father and son in the meeting after the wine to speak out of their hearts, Zhang Boyu expressed understanding of his father,
Zhang Fengyi also began to understand that their own over the years of his son's education is too strict,
and forget to give his son enough love and care. The father and son finally broke the ice after many years,
Zhang Fengyi told Zhang Boyu: "I've always kept a room for you at home, as long as you want to come to stay at any time,"
They began to meet each other after that to play ball and work out as they did when they were children,
From the photos Zhang Boyu showed, the relationship between father and son was even better than the one that Zhang Boyu had. Father and son are even closer than they were in childhood.
In 2017, Zhang Boyu and Zhang Fengyi shopping together was photographed by netizens,
On the eve of Father's Day in the same year, Zhang Boyu specially wrote a long article to thank his parents,
He said: "I prefer my dad to say that I, is a good way to give myself progress",
making a lot of netizens to say that they are not happy. p>
Let a lot of netizens look at have sighed: "you grow up",
has been, Zhang Boyu also in his own way to the outside world to prove the harmony of the father and son relationship,
he also used the actual action to tell everyone, become mature after he finally completed the reconciliation of the and father,
And after becoming an actor, Zhang Boyu has been working hard on his feet, starting from acting in web dramas to improve himself,
He played a few roles, but some of them are impressive,
such as "Tomb Raider Notes", "Pastoral Guile", and "The Sea of Rage and Submerged Sands" in the Wang Fatzi, which is very much loved by the audience,
The lack of fatherly love and not being recognized by the father's experience in his childhood has made Zhang Boyu a great success. father's recognition of the experience, so that Zhang Boyu's growth process is full of hardships,
But these past also did exercise him, until now he realized that he is actually happy,
Because he has two love their father, only Zhang Fengyi do not know how to express the father's love,
Well after experiencing misunderstandings and hurt, the father and son or to achieve a sincere communication with the