Communicate with your husband and mother-in-law, your mother-in-law may be embarrassed to go eat, be patient, after all, is the in-laws call dinner, she will not disagree. Usually to get on good terms with your mother-in-law, so that the next time you speak, your mother-in-law will listen to you, you can through the following methods to enhance the relationship with your mother-in-law.
1, understand the interests of the mother-in-law
Everyone will always have one or two interests, now the square dance lady dancing to France, I believe that most of our mothers-in-law are this group of people, like to dance square dance. Some grannies are from the countryside and are not as hip and don't like to dance, and that's okay, usually they just like to grow a small vegetable or something.
2, every day you can take some time to talk to her about her hobbies
This is especially effective for those who don't know what to talk about with their mothers-in-law. My mother-in-law loves square dancing, so when she comes back from dancing at night, I ask her: What did you dance today? How was it? Were there a lot of people dancing? At dinner time, I would ask her: Where did you go to buy food today? What did you buy? What are you going to cook tomorrow?
These topics can be talked about almost every day, and their answers are not the same almost every day. So we can go from these basic topics to other areas, such as neighbors, activities and so on. There's really so much to talk about.
3, buy gifts for your mother-in-law
As the saying goes, a lot of gifts are not bad, a lot of oil is not bad. In our parents' generation, most husbands were heavy on the introverted type, not good at expressing praise and gratitude to their wives. But our mothers-in-law are also women, and women love to look pretty and dress up, so clothes and shoes and all that can be given at any time, and they can also teach their mothers-in-law how to dress up.
If they look good and are praised by their companions, they will be happy, and they will say, "My daughter-in-law made this. "So that the companions will say with one voice: "Your daughter-in-law is so good." Even if your mother-in-law doesn't like us at first, she will be influenced by this sentiment and change her mind.
The gift doesn't have to be expensive, it has to be practical. I bought my mother-in-law on Taobao square dance clothes are only 20-30 dollars a piece, but she liked it a lot. She even asked me to buy them for her other dancers. This is a kind of pride and honor for them.