The difference between being 18 and 38

When I was 18 years old, I thought the happiest thing in the world was to go to college

When I was 38 years old, I thought the happiest thing in the world was for my son to go to college

When I was 18 years old, I thought every night about getting into 985, marrying a high-flying handsome man, and moving into the north

When I was 38 years old, I thought every night about getting through the PMP, changing a

When I was 18 years old, I thought that books were for pretending, to impress teachers, classmates, and friends

When I was 38 years old, I realized that books were for renewing your life, and when you encountered career ceilings, marital cracks, and parenting problems, you would be accompanied to get through them

When I was 18 years old, I thought that friends were for making friends with each other, and sharing all kinds of strange stories and interests

I thought that friends would be for sharing all kinds of strange stories and interests, and sharing all kinds of strange stories and interests, and sharing all kinds of strange stories and interests, and sharing all kinds of strange stories and interests with each other.

At the age of 38, I thought that my neighbors, the decorator, the courier, and the people who liked me in my circle of friends were my friends, because their actions were all out of kindness

At the age of 18, I thought that there was no such thing as a pure friendship between men and women

At the age of 38, I thought that there was no such thing as a pure friendship between men and women.

When I was 18, I thought my parents were the bosses who controlled me, managed me, and pushed me to do well in school

When I was 38, I realized that my parents were a book, and the way you read it determines how happy you are for the rest of your life

When I was 18, I thought my kids were the troublemakers, the pests, and the slugs

When I was 18, I thought my kids were the troublemakers, the pests, and the slugs

When I was 18, I realized that my kids were the troublemakers, the pests, and the slugs.

At 38 years old, I realized that children are the soul teachers sent by God to save us

At 18 years old, I thought the most terrible women in the world were mistresses and mothers-in-law

At 38 years old, I thought the most terrible women in the world were the ones who were mad at their children in minutes after the midterm exams

At 18 years old, I thought that finding a partner was just a stroke of luck. You never know what kind of person you're going to meet, whether it's someone who loves you or someone who cheats on you, it's fate

When I was 38 years old, I realized that looking for a partner is really a matter of luck, and that you're born into the kind of family of origin that you are. What kind of person you are will meet what kind of person, will attract what kind of person.

When I was 18 years old, I felt that love is "once the sea is difficult for water, in addition to the witch mountain is not the cloud"

When I was 38 years old, I found that love is the cold days when you hold your hand, cold when handed to the porridge, after the fight in order to make you happy when blowing cattle

When I was 18 years old, I felt that the work is to do what I like best, and the work is the best thing.

When I was 38 years old, I found that work is to help other people realize what they like best

When I was 18 years old, I envied the office workers, and looked forward to the day when I could become a valiant white-collar

When I was 38 years old, I envied the full-time housewife, and hoped that one day I could be financially free not to have to go to work

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When I was 18, I felt that money was the most useless thing in the world, and as long as I had the ability and the idea, I could definitely earn money!

At 38 years old, I found that money is the world can never be without something, no matter how hard, can only earn that little money?

When I was 18, my mom said, "Look how free you are," and then she continued to deal with the unit's statements

When I was 38, I said to my mom, "Look how free you are," and then she went out for a square dance with the next sister

When I was 18, I felt that the worst thing in my life was that I didn't get into college, and then I didn't go to college after repeating the same thing for a year.

When I was 38 years old, I realized that the most tragic thing in my life was to study hard, get a tough job, work hard for years, get laid off when I was about to be unproductive, and then go to PK with the college students, and everything went back to square one

When I was 18 years old, I felt that I am different from other people

When I was 38 years old, I realized that I am different from other people, and not only myself, but also everyone is different <

When I was 18 years old, I thought the road was two straight lines, from the dormitory to the cafeteria, from school to home

When I was 38 years old, I realized that the road was a web of straight lines, from my hometown to the university, from the office to the kindergarten, from the youthful girl to the middle-aged woman, which seemed to be chaotic, but was actually a hidden treasure

When I was 18 years old, I thought that eating was a kind of pastime, calling friends, talking about the world and the world.

When I was 38, I realized that eating is a kind of interest, and even shredded potatoes with the person I love is also tasty

When I was 18, I felt that life is a poem, as long as you keep on writing, no one knows what will happen in the future

When I was 38, I realized that life is a play, as long as you put in a good performance, you can one day go from an actor to a director

It is a good thing that you have a lot of time and energy, but you can't do it without a lot of money.

When I was 18, I thought life was a sprint, and I needed to keep sprinting through college, graduate school, and finding a job

When I was 38, I realized that life was a marathon, and as long as you didn't get cramps or run out of breath, you had a chance to cross the finish line

When I was 18, I thought I would never be able to forgive myself for being so dull

I believed that I could not forgive myself for being so dull

I believed that I could not forgive myself for being so dull.

Full of confidence

And going forward!

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