People to the middle age, has been through half of life, should be experienced a lot, know a lot, more love life. However, some people are at this time is in the downhill, may be decades of life, let them feel that life is not easy, after understanding and not open, but the more you think the more complex.
Particularly for women, to the middle age, in life, marriage has some changes, this time some things can not be done, the more you do, the more unfortunate in later years.
One, don't be upset with yourself
Women to middle age, looking at other people's husbands successful, children's academic progress, their own husbands and children are nothing, the heart feel very uninspired, feel that life is not a little bit of consciousness, into a kind of depression.
People have the pursuit of a good thing, but just because some of the things that are difficult to change and think too much, it is meaningless, just hurt sad. And being depressed like that is going to affect the whole family.
Family and everything is good, even if it is difficult, family harmony, the family positive , many things are not so bad, many things will be in the invisible change.
Two, don't be stubborn
Compared to men, women will be more stubborn, especially if they think it is the right thing to do, do not allow others to have an opinion. Women can't be too strong, can't be too short-tempered, can be strong outside, but at home with the family together, or to be gentle.
A woman's character is to affect the whole family, easy to stimulate family conflicts, resulting in conflicts with her husband, with her children, especially between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. When one reaches middle age, one should restrain one's temper, and some things should not be argued.
Don't let your own strength lead to the separation of the family, and later alone in old age.
Three, will be too heavy love
A woman to the middle age, it should be said that it is already for love this kind of thing to see very light, already understand. But when good there are some women, because in the marriage is not happy, the heart has always wanted to have a good love.
This time, just met a man of choice, it is easy to accident. There are already many regrets in life, and very few people are really with their favorite person, so you can't cause the misfortune of two families just because of your own selfish desires.
Focus your energy on your life and don't think about those illusory love.
Four, not kind
Kindness is always the most beautiful quality of a person, the definition of kindness is very broad, as we have seen those in real life, because of a piece of money and slapped the bus driver, because others do not let the seat of the fight, because of the square dance and other people to have an argument, these are not kind.
Not only do they have to be a kind person, but also do not interact with those who are not kind, has lived four or five years old, should be able to distinguish right from wrong.
Kindness, is a person's bottom line.
While the above four points are very easy to understand, but do it is not simple. For the sake of life, for the sake of marriage, for the sake of the family, and for the sake of oneself, or should learn well.