2021, and a new beginning, in the previous year, we have experienced the sweet and sour of life, then this year, we also need to learn to treat yourself well, not long ago, and grandpa chatting when he had given me such a sentence:
No matter what how, you have to make it through the hot, after listening to this sentence, but also a deep feeling.
When you face life, you also need to learn these points, to be able to harvest more happiness.
01.
Learn to ferry yourself
Ann Shiaowon once said, "Sometimes crying doesn't mean weakness, it's just because you've been strong for too long."
In the world of adults, we face all kinds of difficulties, and sometimes crying is an emotional outlet, but this quote also tells us that there is no easy word in the world of adults.
Lin Huiyin once said, "The world is full of suffering, but only to ferry oneself."
In real life, we will face a variety of difficulties and pain, and at this time, one of the most important things we should do is to ferry themselves, do not pray for who to do your salvation, only when you learn to work hard on their own, all the problems will be solved.
People in this life to meet the person who is good to you easier, but if you want to meet a person who always treats you like the beginning, but it is very difficult, in real life, we will meet a variety of people, and the one who said that he will always love you, may not always be accompanied by your side, so to see if a person really love you, just look at him to see what he has paid for you to actually do.
One day you will understand that it is never time that can truly heal you, but the release and understanding of your heart.
In your most need, can give you help people, is the most love you, if just icing on the cake, then such a person in you face difficulties, will also be far away from you.
The only thing that can really heal you is you yourself.
In this world, the warmest emotion is more than someone to accompany you around, know you cold, know you sad and happy, and such a person together will be a kind of happiness.
Perhaps you will feel that some people's departure seems to have some desperate, but the reason why you think so, but also because you still have fantasies about others, those who left us to learn to let go.
The longer the time, you will find that the more you go to great lengths to please a person, the more likely that person will make you a pain in the heart, so in the feelings of living a little more free, often get sex more happiness, love is not a flowery language, but selfless companionship, when a person is willing to give you companionship, also proves that he is y in love with you.
Deng Ziqi once said something like, "Any relationship needs time to be validated."
In real life, it is also true that people's feelings are true and false.
Life is long, learn to recognize true and false intentions, so you can meet people who treat you sincerely.
A life is very short, will spend time on those who are worth it, you pay all the meaning, love yourself well, do not care too much about the eyes of others, so that you can meet a better person, only to experience only can go through the test of time of the feelings, it is worth every one of us to pay and have.
And then the important people, let you disappoint the number of times, it becomes not so important, sometimes a person disappointed to a certain extent, but become indifferent.
In real life, we will meet a variety of people, those who let you down, we do not need to continue to entangle, feelings are so, to two-way run, if you only one person in the pay, then the love is meaningless.
02.
Life is your own
Newton once said, "Hard work is the law of getting everything." In today's society, no one is not hard work, so there is no need for you to complain, there is no need to talk about their own grievances, because everyone's success is through their own hard work.
Balzac once said this sentence: "Victory and tears, this is life." On the road of life, we will encounter a variety of people and things, but brave is one thing we must do,
Chekhov also said, "Their own destiny created by themselves."
In real life, this quote also tells us that we have to know how to grasp happiness by ourselves, and only through our own efforts can we get what we want.
The hardship will bring you more strong, in life, perhaps you will have a lot of complaints and dissatisfaction, but you have to believe that, after you get through this bitter, you will taste the sweetness of life, there are people who have ideals, will only be treated well by life, only when you have hope for life, you will be able to feel more joy in life.
In real life, no matter how others treat you, you always have to have faith in yourself, so you can go further and further on the road of life.
On the road of life, a person should also know how to self-criticism.
In real life, only when you know how to self-criticize, your life will become better and better, because criticism is a way for you to grow.
Ibsen once said, "It is because of the thorns that the rose opens up to the fullest in the sun." So on the road of life, only when you learn to live with a sharp edge, you can better protect yourself.
Zhang Wentian once said, "The hope of life is the ideal of life, the life for the ideal."
In real life, each of us is desperately trying hard to fight and struggle, but all of this is just for a better tomorrow, so there is no need to complain, face life with a positive mindset, is one of the most important things we should do.
No matter what happens, we have to learn to live well and laugh at life in order to usher in the sunshine.