Alone, not unfriendly, not untamed, but in life can always maintain a sober, comply with their inner choice, live out their favorite model. Three different views, do not have to be strong integration. The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal on your own, and then you'll be able to get a good deal on your own.
Being alone is a kind of happiness, but also a practice, to be a solitary person, there is nothing wrong. Everyone's energy is limited, must be this limited energy, left to their own worthy of interaction. If you like to stay, if you are tired of it, you will go, and if you don't like it, you won't be able to do it. The higher the level, the more experienced people, friends do not need too much, as long as a can talk about the heart. The more you like to be alone, the ability to be alone is one of the important signs of a person's maturity. All day in the low-level socializing, flattery, say people long and short, can only waste time, waste feelings, not as good as alone, really smart people like to be alone.
Late in the course of life, the highest realm is to be alone.
1, people to the middle age, basically what things have been experienced, coupled with their own enlightenment, basically see through the true meaning of life, all the hustle and bustle for the benefit of the benefit of the benefit of the benefit, to the fame and fortune to see the light of those who are tired of those things that are vague and vain, so like to be alone.
2, realized the benefits of being alone, the hatred between people are acquaintances and related people (small pattern range), there is no intersection between people, there will be no love and hate, so with people are gentleman's friendship is as light as water, you can avoid a lot of trouble and worry.
3, alone is a realm, is the embodiment of their own cultivation, tolerate loneliness, have their own soul, do not go with the flow, can do the belly can tolerate the world of intolerable things, stay out of the matter and alone!
See the people after middle age, especially after retirement to be able to live alone, these people help with grandchildren nephews, take a walk, play chess, write, play table tennis badminton, etc., but absolutely do not care to turn themselves into annoying square dance and all day biting their tongues of the grandpa and grandma, the scholar of such a person are heartfelt admiration!
Middle-aged and elderly people alone do not give society and family trouble, positive energy!