So the woman thought of a two-way street, to go to the gentleman's house when eating, and to the scholar's house when sleeping.
Of course, this can only be heard as a joke. Such a thing could not happen.
However, this situation in the marriage can be quite a lot, a person in every aspect of the excellent people really hard to find, sometimes, you really hard to choose.
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The lesser of two evils, sometimes the marriage may be helpless?
In the TV series "Little Shelter", Nan Jianlong began to marry the "princess", Nan Li's mother Zhao Na, at that time, Zhao Na is beautiful and colorful, although proud, can not do anything, and even food and living have to take care of Nan Jianlong. But Nan Jianlong fell for it, he loved her.
The power of love is great, Nan Jianlong in order to win the heart of the "princess", Zhao Na care can be described as meticulous.
Zhao Na has been living in a happy marriage.
However, there are unexpected events that can happen at any time. A serious illness of Nan Jianlong makes this happy marriage encounter a crisis, which comes to the point of rupture.
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At this time, beauty became worthless to Nan Jianlong, because Nan Jianlong was on the verge of life and death, and he needed someone to take care of him.
As the saying goes, the disease comes like a mountain, the disease goes like a silk. The disease is three points rely on treatment, seven points rely on conditioning.
And Zhao Na is a little bit can not take care of him.
And this time, Cai Juying appeared. Although she is only a nanny, and is not beautiful, but she is very good at taking care of people, Nan Jianlong in her care, the condition has improved.
During the period of recuperation, Nan Jianlong because in gratitude or not, Cai Juying because Nan Jianlong is the vice president of also. Anyway, they have their own needs, and they are ostensibly "in love".
However, they have been together for more than ten years, is still each "keep a hand", especially the South Jianlong, the house book does not give Cai Juying genus on the name of the passbook on the 600,000 deposits disappeared, Cai Juying questioned the South Jianlong, why can not know me a word.
Their marriage, mixed with more mutual use of the relationship.
Cai Juying's children go to school, the need for tuition, they can climb on the vice president of the South Jianlong, but also climbed on the high branch, and soon get rid of the status of the low, quickly improve their social status.
Nan Jianlong, but also just wait for the "Princess" days enough, he also wanted to enjoy the feeling of being served, he also wanted to live comfortably, he did not want to die so quickly.
And both sides have their own needs. For Nan Jianlong, leaving Zhao Na may be a helpless move, compared with true love, life is more important than just living, living comfortably is more important.
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The failure of the marriage is helpless, but also caused by their own ignorance, women should not throw away their motherhood.
In the TV series "Little Shelter", Zhao Na would have been a winner, if it was done more than ten years ago, Cai Juying could not have come to the top, she did not have the posture, no culture, but time has changed, she will serve the merits of the people, and got the favor of Nan Jianlong.
After all, people are to eat the fire of the earth. High cold, beautiful, and ultimately return to reality.
Nothingness, ultimately, can not withstand the reality of the firewood, rice, oil and salt.
As a qualified woman, it should be on the hall, down to the kitchen. This is also the freshness of the marriage. As a woman, taking care of people should be nature. The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal of money from your family.
A woman who can't take care of people is deficient.
Not to take care of people, how to raise children, the husband's body is not guaranteed. It is strange that such a woman's marriage does not fail.
In fact, Zhao Na and Nan Jianlong divorced, has not remarried, she is still "my way", she is still living in style. The company's main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
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The fish and the bear's paw in marriage can be both.
Mencius said: "Fish, I want; bear paw, also I want, the two can not be combined, give up the fish and take the bear paw also."
A person's trade-offs can really determine a person's fate. The same is true for marriage, which requires responsibility. The fact that you don't want to take responsibility and lose your marriage is just a natural thing.
In fact, marriage and love can be both. People must continue to cultivate themselves, as much as possible to improve themselves, is their own life in a multi-faceted, so that the marriage can be long-lasting, always keep spring.