My home is located in the city's landscape by the river, weekdays, the scenic spot every night will gather a lot of people, some people dancing square dance, some people dancing folk dance, some people walking, some people playing ball, very lively. After the epidemic, the scenic area has implemented control measures only allow free walking, to limit the density of people, so the small square under my house has become a neighborhood of old people swinging.
I began to some trouble, do not know how to describe a tangled mood, I can hear every night a burst of people crazy laughter. The old folks downstairs weren't square dancing, they were doing the moves on command, and to top it all off, they'd all throw their collective bodies back in time to the commands, and then laugh maniacally, in a heartfelt, hysterical kind of way. This kind of thunderous laughter would send a shiver down my spine every time it reached my ears through the window.
This state of affairs has lasted for nearly a month, and at first I wanted to find a property owner to intervene, but then I thought about it, and decided to give the old people a chance to be happy, because after all, everyone will be old one day. Kindness to the elderly is from the heart to cherish a kind of emotion, after all, people old is a very sour thing.
So close the window, the sound insulation effect is still good, although you can still hear the laughter, but the heart has been able to accept.
Lying alone on the bed, I began to think about this issue, what kind of outlook on life should I use to convince my heart, learn to reconcile themselves with life, accept and face this behavior of the old people. Open the floodgates of memory, put out some wisdom to find, the mood suddenly released a lot.
In fact, some of the things we are not used to seeing in life, the wrong may not be the thing itself, the problem is often in our own body, is our obsession and their own dislike identified this is a mistake. In other people's worlds, it's just a way of seeking health, it's what they want to be happy about. To me, it's just a sign of selfishness, and what's more, I have no right whatsoever to deprive them of that pleasure.
We live in the world, this is a complicated space, between people more or less will be intersected and collision, because of this, we have to let themselves know a tolerance, to respect and treat some personnel. Life, I can not change others, I can learn to change themselves, I can learn to yield through their own cognitive and thinking of the transformation, to fulfill the beauty of her. This is not a kind of cowardice, this is born as a person should be open-minded, this is not a kind of retreat, this is just with people's good cultivation and morality.
People this life, is to try to convince themselves to find the process of happiness. In life, we can not always by nature to let themselves follow the bad mood to run off, we have to learn to timely conditioning, to be a person with the ability to control. Our life, we will experience too many things and meet too many people, and it is this experience, gives us too much thinking and the opportunity to find themselves, and then there is our life of openness and transparency, only after we have the maturity and kindness.
The ultimate in life is to think, and the conscience of humanity is to know. We are in a world where meat has five flowers and three layers, and people are divided into three, six and nine classes, so we can't always demand that others can be the same as us. We are not used to seeing others because we are not cultivated enough, and our dislike of others can only be that our hearts are not broad enough. Rediscover ourselves, so that we can further improve ourselves while understanding others.
The joy of life is often a kind of relief after releasing, because know what you want, so try to convince yourself. It is a test of one's ability and a pulling up of the mind. Let's use a clear mind to decipher the code to happiness and acquire a wise tolerance. Throughout our lives, we endeavor to give life more reconciliation possibilities and less tangled suffering, and strive to live a high level of thinking and problem solving with different perspectives. The heart is ultimately harvested after the frank calm and calm.