Midlife crisis is a problem faced by many people.
In middle age, everyone is worried about the crisis of infidelity. And in middle age, the rate of cheating is highest. At this age, a woman has a family, feels supported, and no longer has the pressure of life. Moreover, this is the time when a woman is most likely to feel empty and lonely.
And because you have been married for a long time, your married life feels dull. Therefore, you are more susceptible to the temptation of the outside world and accidentally cheat on you. If a woman cheats, she is most likely to have the following symptoms.
1. I like to make friends of the opposite sex more and more.
The woman I like will like to choose square dancing, and will also make friends of the opposite sex through some chat software, and then choose square dancing and other activities. At first it was just to make life more fulfilling so as not to feel lonely, but as I participated in more activities like this, feelings gradually developed.
For men and women, once they get too close, it is difficult to have a pure friendship. Sooner or later something will go wrong.
2. I prefer to go out early and come back late.
Women used to like to stay at home. If they have been going out early and coming back late for a long time recently, they are full of fascination with the outside world, often lingering around, and they dress up very delicately every time they go out, just like when they were in love. Very attentive to details. In such a situation, it is very likely that someone has cheated.
3. He becomes more and more indifferent towards sexual intercourse, completely different from before. And he likes to sleep on your back. He even deliberately stays away from you. He always talks sarcastically about you and is always dissatisfied with you in many ways. But he always talks about flattery and good things about other men. In short, I just find you very unpleasant. Because she already has someone else in her heart, she will only hate you more. They always say that others are good and everything about you is bad.
4. He likes to go to nightclubs, but he doesn’t allow you to follow him, and he often doesn’t come back until late at night.
Once a woman likes to go to nightclubs, she likes to be alone, and she also likes to dress up. Such a woman is just a piece of fat in the eyes of the men in the nightclub. The fact that she dared to go showed that she was mentally prepared. You can't keep a woman like this. It was only a matter of time before she cheated.
Some women are just like this in nature. If they don’t show off outside, they will feel uncomfortable. They are naturally intolerant of loneliness.
5. We often chat endlessly. And even in the middle of the night, someone called me, and they chatted for a long time. And when chatting, she will run to the toilet or other places to chat so that you don't hear her. And after chatting, he looked happy, just like when he was in love, he often got distracted, and his face was very happy.
And she will never let you touch her phone. If you accidentally touch it, she will get angry. If you remind her, she gets angry and says you don't trust her. In short, her reasons are right for everything. For you, you are always angry and quarreling at every turn, but for the calls you make, your voice is always gentle, and they are completely different.