? Seeing your question, it's nonetheless similar to me half a year ago. I am also just out of work for more than a year.
Really, the happiest days of my life are the ones when I just graduated from high school, without the boring study, the overwhelming test papers, and the feeling of being liberated from humanity. The same is true for those who are now graduating from college and entering society, or those who feel that their friends from high school are the most cordial, the most ironic, and the most dependable.
Myself, I am an introvert, in addition to being able to open up to a group of buddies, usually not much to talk about. This friendship has continued until now. Although the camaraderie has always been there, people do become, especially after four years of college and then coming out of the campus, one's mind rises to a new level.
Personally, I feel that just getting out of school and stepping into society is the most grueling and anxiety-ridden year for me. In addition to having a harder time finding a job, the direction of my life was also very confusing.
We have grown up, gradually faded green, and no longer like the previous so passionate bragging and flirting, nothing to talk about. Now a lot of people party, basically manpower a cell phone, into what is now called the low head, raise their heads, but also just stare at each other. This is also a relatively common phenomenon.
Most guys have a common problem, that is, they love to play games. Sometimes we prefer to take out our stress into the tussle of the game. Nowadays, games can not only be our emotional support, but also one of the bonds of friends.
But when the camaraderie is gradually questioned, the game can not decompression, in addition to work is to sleep, we also gradually tired of such a life, the future is more and more confused.
What we need then is an instant change. Maybe we can't change the existing environment, but we can change our mindset.
In fact, in addition to the work time, we also have a lot of time, should not waste these times on the game. If you feel like you can't keep up with your friends, take the time to travel and explore together. You're feeling "left out" and left out, but you're also closing the door on yourself.
If you're tired of being full of negative energy, then go for a run, go for a workout, and sweat it out. There are just two ways people change themselves - reading and exercising. There has to be one of the two. In order to work better and know yourself better, you need to keep improving your skills.
Improve your sense of responsibility and find your emotional dependence and home. This age is in the youthful great years, is the taste of blood and sweat struggle, the same is also the taste of roses.
In fact, this time is the best time in life to work hard, obviously there is a lot of time to make yourself better, instead of giving up on yourself. Tired of themselves, tired of the current state on a new way of life, to meet a better tomorrow.