In the relationship between two people, even if there are some quarrels, there are unpleasant, it is difficult to completely say who is right and who is wrong amount, usually when, it is difficult to clearly distinguish. But as a party, in solving things, in getting along or even separate, our decision-making, there is indeed right and wrong. So next, I'm going to talk about the best and worst decisions I've ever made.
The worst decisions I've made are many. For example, in the beginning, I know that my boyfriend is a person who does not like to study and does not like to make progress, but I am trying to change him; for example, I know that my boyfriend has a bad temper, does not know how to be grateful, will not be considerate of himself, but still pay, a mother of God, want to move him, want to guide him; for example, I know that my boyfriend cheated on his wife, but I comforted myself that every relationship will be faulty, the most important is to go to the right place to save the relationship, rather than the right time. Save this relationship, rather than all of a sudden killed this relationship; such as the boyfriend's family, family history, and a set of people to deal with the world, the way to deal with things are not consistent with their own values, but they think they can accept, that they can influence them, in the end each other feel uncomfortable, each other hard; such as knowing that his boyfriend is poor and desperate, but told himself that there is love is the most important, there are love and hypnotize yourself that it's all just temporary. In fact, all the girls I tell you, this is all our own fantasy, delusion, are impossible. Whether it's temperament, outlook or family, it's basically impossible to change, so you need to look a little better in the eyes and find a boyfriend who is a good match for you, not someone who is very different and then try to change him. And now I also think that no that person needs to change for someone else, because love doesn't either, unless he is willing and will be content. All in all, just don't dream, or you'll find yourself
trampling the bottom line one at a time, and pulling it down little by little. In the end, if the breakup is okay, if not, it is simply a human tragedy.
? The most successful thing I've ever done is to think twice about all my decisions. No matter what the decision, I will think at least three times, and if the result is the same three times, then I will stick to my judgment and do it without hesitation. If there is one hesitation, then I will identify the point of hesitation, find out what it is for, and carefully analyze the source of this hesitation, and start from the hesitation to solve things, and basically still firm up the idea as well. If only once is very resolute, two times are hesitant, I will know that I still can't or don't want to do it, then I will suspend this matter, if the next time again, I will compare the last time with the cause and the fuse, and what is the hesitation, even if it has been hesitating, if the idea appears more than three times, I will do it, even if it will not be unshakable, but also to do no retreat, will not be repeated. Will not be repeated.