1, the hazy period of first love
This is the early stage of love. Both men and women like each other but know little about each other, and both are eager to know more about each other. At this time, the eyes of both men and women are always catching each other's figure, creating conditions for dating and meeting, and feeling happy from dating.
After getting to know each other a little, both men and women can't help beautifying each other's image and ability, and fall in love with their beautified illusion. The infatuation with this illusion is called "love" by many people.
2, love * * * duration
Love period mostly begins in sealed with a kiss, and kissing is often a symbolic action of love, which brings men and women into intimate relationship through intimate action.
In love, because men and women have more contact, they know more about each other, and their advantages and disadvantages are increasingly revealed. When one party finds that there is a certain gap between the other party and the image he created in his mind before, and this gap makes it difficult for him to adapt, it will cause a great psychological gap, which will be manifested as indifference and alienation in behavior, and eventually one party will propose to end the love relationship.
Generally speaking, during the period of love, both parties will notice that there is a gap between each other and their own images, but many people can still accept this gap, and the love relationship will continue to heat up with the communication.
3. Dependence and independence period
The physical contact between men and women is escalating, and they are no longer satisfied with holding hands, kissing and hugging, and begin to try to caress each other's bodies until they have sex. Sexual behavior is the satisfaction of the most primitive physiological needs of human beings as animals, but it has special symbolic significance in the love relationship, which represents that the love relationship has entered the stage of mutual attachment and the love relationship has begun to stabilize.
Sex means to many girls that she is now the other person's person, and some boys feel responsible for the girls after having sex. Of course, some couples will insist on having sex until they get married, but this phenomenon is rare in this era.
After both men and women enter the attachment period, they can't live without each other in daily life, and they will feel unhappy and uneasy after leaving for a period of time. At the same time, both men and women will directly face the trivial details of daily life and differences in lifestyle, and small frictions will continue to arise, and occasionally greater conflicts will erupt.
If the boyfriend doesn't understand the psychology of girls, he will feel that girls are importunate and the contradiction between men and women may escalate. This stage is the high incidence of love relationship. One side seeks independence, while the other side seeks attachment. When the pursuit of both sides is in opposition, many lovers can't stand the feeling of being left out by the other side and propose to break up.