At the moment, I am 34 years old, sitting at home at the table, just finished a video conference, facing a part-time job that I am not very familiar with, and I am a little bit panicked at the bottom of my heart.
With my friend, I consulted with the Hong Kong stock market, but I didn't make up my mind. Instead, I was given a list of preparations for the birth of my second child, and I was not prepared for it, so it's no wonder that I have a lot of worries.
After reading about Tsuen's 40 years old, it seems to me that the height is unattainable, but I have to say that it is an incomparable correct life path, we will eventually begin to go, the same way, if we want to become better.
Also looked at Daki's 30 years old, this look for me to endorse the writing, write "a pot to bring happiness", in the rhythmic group said that follow the two boys to chase the balance of the car girl immediately into the 30 years old, but there is also another side of the twists and turns around the entrepreneurial journey, the age of the young is still quite light, but immediately can be wholeheartedly chased after their own life. Envy at the same time, but also know that this is not easy, did not follow the male child chased 1-2 hours balance car people can not understand this is not easy, haha!
This envy leads to my dissatisfaction with myself, and as of now the biggest contradiction is probably the desire to have 2 children related to the fact that I'm already very old and my job is not very stable and satisfying, so what will happen to me at the age of 40?
At 40 years old, I certainly hope that I can still maintain a healthy body, children, stable work, husband and wife, family relationship, parents and family members can be healthy and safe! It's easy to say, and not simple to be specific.
I was 40 years old when my father reached retirement age, Shanghai's social security has saved enough to be able to retire in Shanghai, I think I can finally for my father to breathe a sigh of relief is certainly also full of self-reproach, can not be more for them to share a little bit, in the age of 50 years old, but also in the high heat of the factory in a row.
My little nephew will be 7 years old, and if my brother wants to have a second child, he'll be 3-4 years old, so my mom will be able to relax a little bit, and hopefully her tendonitis will be gone by then.
Every time I talk about my family, I am proud of them and at the same time filled with some guilt. In a lot of old people of about the same age, my mother and father are considered very hard-working, has not stopped, and there are a lot of old people have begun to take care of their old age, they have worked hard to raise us, provide us with school, start a family, and now being grandchildren involved, but also to earn their own pensions. The fact that we are still unable to do so does not give them a reason to rest in peace. Their generation and our generation, destined to still have to keep struggling in order to have better choices and future, and at that time, I hope that they can stop and take a break, practicing sword, square dancing, and live their generation of later life.
My brother and sister-in-law, I also hope that at that time they can no longer rent a house, back to their own home in Hefei, in the beautifully decorated room, we sit around the table, watching the children play, laughing about the past in Shanghai 5-6 years ago.
40 years old, then with the love of parenting philosophy should be able to agree on the road, I hope that each other in the fight and reconciliation of the road more and more less quarrels, together with the joint efforts to cope with the then on the elementary school 3 years old child, and strive not to be driven crazy, but also calmly talk about homework. I also hope that I, who have been learning and practicing since my child was young, can raise an empathetic, educated, financially literate, healthy and happy little boy. In the age of a middle-aged mom, I respect, understand and tolerate each other with my lover, just as I do now; and I can still be close to my child and even be his best friend!
Now into their own business, although it was brought down by colleagues, but I have to say, it seems to have been my subconscious want to chase things, so although I have encountered difficulties, had to give up the idea, but in the many not familiar with the encouragement of friends, I will still adhere to this dream want to do try to do a handful of years, I hope that I have been entrepreneurial success, no matter how hard, will be happy! I hope that by then I will have succeeded in starting my own business, and no matter how hard it is, I will work happily and happily, like Warren Buffett, "tap dancing to work", and no matter whether the ultimate success is now this road or another road, the middle hardship is sure to be there, and may fail, but I firmly believe that this road is not a road to pass, and I will be able to reach the other side of the river eventually.
At this moment, the part-time job opened, I also hope to continue, to become another competitive advantage. And at that time I also hope that their own career can give themselves a certain amount of wealth security, for us to change a set of larger school district housing, the ability to not need the elderly to contribute too much to the case of the birth of a second child or can be 1 month a year out of the travel time; of course, also be able to equip the elderly with a better quality of life of the elderly in their twilight years.
Besides career and family, middle-aged people still need to ensure a certain amount of their own time and life.
Sports from July this year, if continued to 6 years later, it will be rare good habits, benefit for a lifetime, so from now on I have to always adhere to, but also in this year to achieve the ideal target weight has been maintained.
The English reading that I started more than 2 years ago is also going to continue, and after 6 years, I can read more than 3 million words cumulatively. Chinese reading should also keep up, now able to listen to 30 books a year, reading less than 10 books, now began to have paid great attention to this aspect of the investment, 6 years later, I hope to be able to do every year to read 20 books or even more.
In these 6 years, I hope to complete the teacher's license and psychology study, and have the opportunity to take another other aspects of the practitioner's license or IELTS TOEFL class, to maintain a good learning habit.
From the beginning of this year's investment, but also along with their own continuous learning, to achieve the expected return, 6 years uninterrupted, 6 years after the fight to have a 7-digit market value!
Of course continuous recording and writing can not be left behind, hopefully then I can have a few decent articles, and on the basis of the accumulation of 500,000 words, I think I can start to write a small book about childhood dreams, record the life of the Xiangyang brigade Xiazhuang, the history of a small village on the Central Plains!
At 40, my eye lines will be deeper, the spots on my face will be more, my skin will not be as radiant as it is now, but I'm not bloated, I'm not greasy, and my face is still glittering, and that, that's what I want at 40!