The late 1950s, the early 1960s, China and the former Soviet Union dispute, the former Soviet Union government tore up the contract to withdraw the experts, the perfidy behavior, so that our country's industry was paralyzed in order to clear the debt owed to the former Soviet Union, Chairman Mao called on the national people to practice iron and steel, to carry out the unprecedented Great Leap Forward, the Chinese people will not know that our country still owes a debt, but also a debt to other people. The unprecedented Great Leap Forward, at that time, no one in the Chinese people would know that our country still owed a debt to others, thinking that our country was liberated and would lead a carefree life, but the Party and the leading comrades of the country took up the burden, at that time, the lies told by the leaders of the country to the people were well-intentioned and did not impede the integrity of the people, the people of China were not under any pressure at that time, they were working hard, and created a great success. The people of China worked without any pressure and created an unprecedented miracle. That era created the iron man Wang Jinxi, and Wang Jinxi led his oil drilling team, drilling the first oil well of our Chinese people .....
Second, in talking about our personal, I'm here to give two small examples:
Watched a TV report, said an old mother with kidney disease, if not kidney will be threatened, then the eldest son came forward to ask for his mother to donate a kidney, which can be painful to the old mother, the old mother strongly opposed, said that if so he might as well die. The son was afraid of delaying his mother's condition, so after discussing with his family, he tricked his mother into giving him a young kidney. A young kidney donated to the mother, after the success of the operation, the family is still hidden from the old mother, the most touching is the mother and son living in the next ward, the mother is not aware of, when the mother wants to see the oldest son, the family just lied to her that the son went on a business trip, after reading this report I was touched by the tears, friends, is it such a lie in the way of honesty?
A little girl with leukemia, in the late stages of her life, when the doctor asked what her biggest wish was, she said she wanted to go to Tiananmen Square to see the flag-raising ceremony, a dying girl's last wish, the doctor and the parents of which there is no reason not to meet it? But because her family lives in the distant Xinjiang, if her request is met, the doctor was afraid that the girl could not withstand the journey, so a collective lie organized by more than 2,000 volunteers and doctors and the girl's family began to lie, from the train to the tourist bus, along the way, from the station to the waiter to serve tea, even to the travelers to talk to the passengers, are all intentionally arranged, and finally came to a school, in the military, to the police, to the police, to the hospital. A school, in the marching band accompanied by the sound of the national anthem, the blind girl thought she really came to the long-desired Tiananmen Square, when she saw her powerless to raise her small hand to the direction of the national flag salute, the people present all shed tears, this organized by more than 2,000 people in a collective lying action, you can say that their well-intentioned lies have impeded the integrity of it?
And, a lot of elderly people do not feel well and do not want to let their children know the first time, for fear of affecting the children's normal work and study! A lot of children fall down and say that it does not hurt, in order to let parents say that they are brave! There are many successful personnel behind the silent dedication of the woman tired, never complained, in order to let their husbands can rest assured that the work done better for the family to worry a little less .... Such examples in our country has a long history of civilization is really countless, here I do not list, the facts speak louder than words, to sum up, they are lying, but their lies are good intentions, is not hindered by the integrity of the ......
Good intentions of the lies are not hindered by the integrity
"Lies" are called "lies" because they are false, untrue and deceitful words. If a person often has a lie flow with the mouth, so as to deceive others, over time, he will lose people's trust. Just like the child in the article "the lying child", every day shouting "the wolf is coming" in order to seek excitement, happy, but when the wolf really comes, he only one person to face independently, to bear by himself, no matter how much shouting will not help, and there will be no one to help him again. Because the people who may come to help him have gotten used to his shouting, and thought that he was "teasing you" again, so it can be seen that lies are a hindrance to honesty.
But today, when we talk about "lies," there is a qualifier - good faith - and with this qualifier, the nature of the lie is fundamentally changed. "Goodwill lies" are people's good wishes for things, is the people's good heart of the dialog, is the people comfort each other a warmth, is the people's heart out of a kind of tenderness ...... who will not go to the extent of its credibility, even if the The people who hear the kind lies know that it is a lie, but also the same will go to try to believe, will not feel the hypocrisy of the liar, and sometimes also from the heart to appreciate it.
When a terminally ill patient is sentenced to death by a doctor, his parents, loved ones, children and all his relatives will not directly tell him: "life can not be saved", "the most can still live in the world for a long time" and so on. These words are true. Although this is the truth, who would be so cruel as to tell the truth to a loved one who is already in pain and suffering, just as a judge would pronounce a death sentence on a prisoner? At this point, everyone will form a united front and keep their mouths shut about the truth, while using well-intentioned lies to make the patient hopeful about the treatment, so that the patient can spend the rest of his or her days in a peaceful state of mind. Could this be a hindrance to honesty!
When a child who does not rhyme with the world suddenly suffers a misfortune and loses his relatives, how to explain to him where his relatives have gone. We think the best way is still: do not tell him the real situation for the time being, just say that to a very far away place on business trips, or in the foreign study and work, and so on. When the child understands, has a certain ability to bear the time, and then to tell the truth, the child will also understand the relatives of the practice, will not be angry because they did not know the truth. Is it possible that such words also hinder the integrity!
When a soldier who is on a mission in the field of the mother is very sick, hot a breath of time, how much hope to see his son one last time ah, but the son is not able to come back, can not do a little bit of filial piety for the old mother, to take care of once for the son of his mother worried about the mother, he was very apologetic, and also very much in his thoughts. And the old mother is very understanding of the son, told the relatives around him, after he left, do not tell the distant son, can not let him distracted, to say that the condition has been stabilized, so that he can rest assured that he will do his best for the country. Is such a well-intentioned lie a hindrance to integrity!
So, I insist that: not only does the well-intentioned lie not hinder the integrity, but also will greatly enhance the friendship between people and feelings, social stability also has an indelible role. Suggestion: the good intention of the lie should be used, and honesty is not too much powerful conflict.