I think the lack of care for babies and young children is the number one barrier to having children. But this is only a superficial factor. If you scratch the surface of the problem, the deeper issue is that people don't want to have babies because they can't afford to raise them.
The reason why young parents don't have time to take care of their children is because they are busy earning money. The pressure on one person to earn enough money to feed the whole family is just too great, so it has to be the husband and wife *** working together to share the burden of the family's finances, and in this way the young child is naturally left unattended, and the expressed need is the urgent need for childcare.
Children cost money everywhere from birth, and with today's parents' minds being influenced by others and rolled up so much, the amount of money spent on raising a child is even more unpredictable.
My cousin's kids grew up eating premium snacks, and every week my mom buys hundreds and hundreds of snacks for my niece, and those snacks get eaten up in a week, and then my mom refills them for her. A snack can be so costly, not to mention a normal diet plus all sorts of nutrients.
My cousin's child was raised from kindergarten to college student, and it cost nearly three million dollars, and that's just for the investment in her studies, not counting other expenses.
The two real-life examples I've mentioned above show that parents love their children and want them to grow up, and that they need money to achieve these goals. Therefore, the young parents will be in urgent need of childcare good to let themselves go out and try to earn money, in order to give the child arch a better growing conditions.