The famous Russian writer Tolstoy said long ago: Men and women have no real friendship, only love.
The so-called blue confidant, that is, in addition to the husband or boyfriend, the best friend. This friend is commonly known as: "blue confidant," or also called: "male best friend,". To this man or blue-faced confidant it, nothing to say. And this man to explore life, to explore society, to explore life, to explore society, to explore human nature, to explore marriage. The mood is not good when the first to this man confided in , the mood is good, there is something happy, the first time first to this man report, everything. Every day think and this man chat, and this man have endless words. I ask a weak question, you are outside the words are finished, back home and what words with the husband or boyfriend to say it?
I very much agree with Mr. Tuo that there is no real friendship between men and women, only love. I would add one more point, or adultery. In the marriage did not find their own very satisfied husband, the soul out of the body, but also to find themselves a big lie, to make up a cover up the beautiful legend, "blue face confidant". Completely to betray the marriage to find a reason, those literati also used a long and lengthy text for the "confidant" endorsement. The "blue-colored confidant" portrayed the sky, trying to subvert the normal perception of marriage. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots, and you'll be able to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots.
Since the "blue friend" is so wonderful, you are to find out a few great examples out? Tolstoy was right, there is no friendship between men and women, only love.
I. Girlfriend's boyfriend;
During the university Wang Qian and Li Tong live in bunk beds , Wang Qian live on, Li Tong live down, the two girls are quite beautiful. Wang Qian lively and cheerful, big smile, love to eat snacks, the big city; Li Tong gentle and elegant, small place to come.
On the bunk of Wang Qian love to eat snacks, the bunk of Li Tong has become a garbage can, on the bunk of a piece of cookies, a piece of potato chips, and ham sausage or something, a variety of, as long as it is to eat, will be down. People can see that Wang Qian's family is superior. The lower bunk of Li Tong did not say, the upper bunk of Wang Qian is also embarrassed, from time to time also give Li Tong some food , two people **** with sharing.
One by one, the two of them have become good friends. The two began to talk in order to facilitate, the two people will be crowded in a bed to sleep, either sleep on the top bunk, or sleep on the bottom bunk. Sometimes they talk until dawn, and they can't stop talking about it. Then later, the two people good with a person like: together in class, eat together; walk together; chat together; shopping together; watch movies together, inseparable.
It was Wang Qian who fell in love first, and she fell in love with Hao Ting, a handsome guy who was one level older than her, and Li Tong, who was in the lower bunk, naturally became Wang Qian's boyfriend's confidante. So Wang Qian's boyfriend is shuttled between the two big beautiful. Sometimes Wang Qian's bullying, bad temper, Hao Ting really can not help it, to Li Tong to confide in. Li Tong is very gentle, elegant behavior, treat people courteously. Whenever Hao Ting confides in Li Tong, Li Tong always listens carefully and patiently, and gives her own reasonable suggestions. They got along so sweetly that it took them a while to get to their senior year of college.
Soon his college career will be over, and on the eve of graduation, Hao Ting confessed his love to Li Tong, saying that he loved her and hoped that he could accept him.
See, there is no such thing as friendship or confidant between a man and a woman, there is only love between a man and a woman. Friendship into love just owes a chance, once the water to the canal, the time is ripe, friendship either converted into love, or friendship relationship into a sexual partnership.
II. The child's godfather;
Shuying graduated from technical school and was assigned to the military industrialization enterprise , her master coincidentally is her same technical school brother, which inexplicably increases the sense of affinity between the master and the apprentice. The master is a little older than her, married, and has a lovely and well-behaved daughter. Shuying long quite beautiful, is relatively slim, dry up military products are not so handy. Many work can not do, are her master to help her do. She is quite grateful to her master. Sometimes Shuying also bring more food to the master to eat. They became good friends.
Later, Shuying got married and had a fat kid, so she recognized her master as the child's godfather. They were friends for ten years.
Shuying's husband is a construction engineer, there is a project needs to be done in the field for a few years, but also come back to New Year's Eve and festivals.
Once with the workshop workers birthday, we get together, Shuying drink more to point, the master sent her home. After arriving home, the master arranged their own disciples, ready to go out, Shuying suddenly pulled the master hand not to let go. This is the first time they have done so.
Blue confidant, red confidant, are no opportunity, but the opportunity is ripe, each do not say they just what what confidant.
iii. Mr. Wang is 60 years old, his partner died the year before, in order to exercise, but also to drive away the loneliness, every day and night to go to the square dance.
Auntie Li is 55 years old and her partner died 10 years ago. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty and get out of the way, and then you'll be able to get out of the way. In order to save time, Mr. Wang sometimes go to Mr. Li's home to mix meals, Mr. Wang sometimes do a good job of inviting Mr. Li to his own home to drink a little red wine, the two old mouth life is very comfortable.
The children on both sides of the time are aware of this, and feel that it is not appropriate to be alone together every day, so they want to let them separate. Li Auntie's daughter then received Li Auntie to her home to live, but also sold the house.
The two old mouths would have been nothing, not just dancing, eating, chatting? After the separation of the two old people agreed to do a lifetime of good friends. What's on your mind to tell each other, sometimes the phone for a few hours, talking about the East and West, do not want to put down the phone, the phone bill soared. This is the first time I've ever seen a person with a good eye on the world," he said.
The first day of his birthday, Mr. Wang asked Mr. Li to have a meal with him, and Mr. Li was happy to do so. They agreed that it would be better to be friends than to be companions, and that they could not listen to the children, and that the second half of their lives were still long, and that the next day, Mrs. Li moved to Mr. Wang's house.
Master Tolstoy really said well, see through everything in the world , he then said: there is no friendship between men and women, only love.
The so-called "blue friend" is self-deception.