The development of human beings in recent years is rapid, whether in the economy, science and technology, human civilization and culture have effected significant progress, however, from the current scientific and technological level of existing human beings, the laws of nature - old age, sickness and death still can not be completely overcome, especially aging, immortality potions are still not been made. Therefore, aging is still a problem for everyone. So since it's a problem that hasn't been solved for a while, it stands to reason that we need to find ways to make old age more meaningful and happier in our later years, and I think that's something that both the young and the old want to accomplish.
The unsatisfactory present situation
1. The ideal scenario is always beautiful, but the reality is often cruel. From what often happens around us, the presence of the elderly in today's society is not very effective, and there are even many points of conflict. The first example is the problem of giving seats to the elderly, the reason why to give seats to the elderly, is entirely to inherit a virtue, respect for the elderly and love for the young is also a tradition, the ancestors of the people are doing so, we as the children of the Yellow River there is no reason not to continue the good things. However, in the process, there are some older people misinterpreted the meaning of this layer, feel that let the seat is necessary, do not let the seat is no morality, low quality, which makes a lot of people have a feeling of resentment, began to be reluctant to let the seat. Originally a thing to promote social harmony, so it became upsetting.
2, bumper stickers, the behavior of the skin. According to reason, the elderly, the body is weak, because the road is slippery or stumble and fall is not normal, as a loving or a little conscience, will go up to help, but was accused of intentionally hitting people, anyway, for me, I think the world is not more than this more people cold things. It's like a real-life version of the fable "The Farmer and the Snake".
3, the elderly life we have been advocating to enrich, meaningful, so that they live more happy, but some of the square dancing aunt but completely ignore other people's feelings, music, even the night before the college entrance exams to insist on jumping, so the high school students in the rest of the where? Their own night of happiness and the future of the students to take a more important it? Not only so overbearing jumping "the most dazzling national wind", in the face of the surrounding people's good advice is also ignored, even if more than one sentence have to fight up the possibility.
The above mentioned are just a few of the most familiar scenes, in fact, there are many other aspects, the elderly show and we think differently. The older a person is, the more they have experienced, anyway, in my mind, the old man is to give more people later to pass on some experience and life guidance, but at present, yo are point subverted my concept, then there is no solution, the aging more and more serious national conditions, only to make the society become more indifferent? I think action can still change the status quo, after all, the above behavior also exists only in a small portion of the elderly. I think the following ways will make a difference.
More patience
Nowadays, society can be said to be rapidly changing, some new things will make the elderly a little bit uncomfortable, and even some do not understand, this time as the younger generation we can be a little bit more patience to help them in the face of the use of some of the infrastructure can be taught to teach them or help them. Encountered ask for directions, but also to patiently point out the way, if you have the time to take the initiative to give them the way, in case of any accidents on the road.
Family counseling
It is said that there is an old man in the family, such as a treasure, if there is an old man in the family, usually in the exchange of time to inculcate a kind of positive and healthy ideas, and more to speak of some examples of positive energy in society as a way to let them also want to learn about the good things, do not think that only children need to be educated, sometimes the elderly are also in need of the same nature of the guidance. After all, we have a much wider network of relationships in society than they do, and for them, only we are the closest people. And only our words can infect and influence them.
More companionship
The problem of left-behind elderly people has always existed, they themselves have the fear of aging, and there is no one around to accompany will intensify this fear, so the companionship of the children at this moment is particularly critical and important. After work, often go home to see, more take them out for a walk. Don't take busy work and no time as an excuse, and don't take the old man saying no need as a reason. Which of the coming people do not want to reunite with their children and grandchildren often? I think that the warmth and harmony of the family will make the old people's life happiness index increased significantly, when faced with things in society, naturally have a good mood, the probability of conflict will naturally be reduced.
Responsibility of the whole society
To say that the elderly more harmonious existence in this society, in the final analysis, or the need for the whole society to **** with the crowd to create a cozy environment. Because most of the elderly still have morals, quality, which can be mutual courtesy, help, reflect a kind of humanistic care. And the face of those who really just do not want to change or can not change the "bad" elderly, on the one hand, I think it is still necessary to formulate some laws and regulations, and to have a certain degree of enforcement, to form a kind of deterrent to them, and tell them that they are not old enough to do whatever they want. On the other hand, a good environment will make them embarrassed to do things that are chilling and infect them with love. I believe that as long as we have a kind heart, **** the dream of building a warm family in a harmonious society is still not far away from us.