1. Rely on their own skills to stand on their own feet and be a strong woman.
We can often see some of the elite in the workplace, women are not in the minority. You can look to them in that direction.
2. You can also pay more attention to friends of the opposite sex around you in life, in case which one is your true love. You can spend the rest of your life ****ing with him.
God is fair to everyone, and since you have been allowed to go through suffering once already, you will surely be favored afterwards.
3. You can have a fun life on your own.
Commuting to and from work on time every day, and after work, you can learn to cook, learn to illustrate, learn to dance by yourself. A new age woman is not going to pout just because she had a failed marriage.
In old age, one can square dance with the old ladies in the neighborhood.
If the house is too cold, you can also adopt a child or two, and time with children can really make you forget all your troubles.
4. After you have some capital accumulation, you can also go around the world, broaden your horizons, understand the human feelings of different places, but also not in vain.