Called me and told me about all the crimes of the brother, all of them.
The most said sentence is: I am for his good ah ......
Yes, it is for his good, so three daughters are still not willing to have a male child's mother, 40 years old, but also desperately risking the risk of old age maternal, grasping all around the superstitious straws to seek medical advice, with a half-believing half-hope to give birth to a younger brother. I'm not going to be able to get a good deal on a new one," he said.
It's all for his own good, since childhood to eat, drink and play on him are all the request; it is for his own good, even if the university did not get or spend money on relations to send him to the Ivory Tower; it's for his own good, to introduce him to the neighboring village of the most gentle and elegant college students as a wife; it's for his own good, just after the marriage to the urge to have a child to take advantage of their young to be able to take care of the child for them. ......
Sometimes when I think about my brother's life, it's all tied up in my mom's phrase "it's all for your own good", and I can even speculate on my mom's state of mind when she said that: "It's not easy for me to give birth to such a son as you, and I want to give you the best that I think I can," he said. I'm going to give you the best I think I can, as my son you have to listen to me, the reason is that it's not easy for me to have you, what I say, what I do is for your own good.
Mom cried on the phone and said: brother grew up, wings hard, do not listen to me, used to say what all listen, now know backtalk.
I don't know how to comfort my mom, because I really don't like my mom's "do it all" approach to education, and I'm even glad that because of my younger brother, she has no time to worry about us, so that we can enjoy a happy and carefree childhood, and let us go to the world where happiness is the most important thing.
At the beginning of the brother of the mother's words to listen to, in the feeling of the married life of tea, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar and tea of the troublesome trivial, after witnessing the child after the arrival of the family became a chicken flew after the woeful dilemma, suddenly came to his senses, said that he would retrace his steps in life, turn back to the past.
In this case, I do not favor, nor do I oppose, but if you really let my brother so dashing back, can hurt not only my mother, so many people's hearts have been traumatized, this crime in the end who to carry?
Of course, the most saddened than my mother, a son of the time for the sake of selfless dedication to the mother, a son of life everywhere to pave the way for the mother, a mouth said for the sake of the child's good mother, but she did everything, the child can really gladly accept, the full acceptance of it?
Now the younger brother's rebellion is also an answer.
There are many people like my mother who live for the sake of their children, and there are different versions of them, some of which are unimaginable.
There are those who give up their glamorous jobs in order to take care of their children wholeheartedly and go home to be a housewife; there are those who use up all their savings in order to get their children to a good school and take on a loan shark just to buy a few tens of square meters of the old house.
There are many more such examples, not to say touching but reasonable, but also enough to let the mother for their children's good intentions of the shining image.
But when a "mother's work for the child 'sacrifice' boss" news appeared in the major media, ushered in a sigh of relief, criticism.
What's wrong? The first time I've seen this, I've seen it, and I've seen it, and I've seen it, too. Yes, it is true that everything is for the sake of the child, but then ruin everything for the child.
But what the mother did is clearly a blasphemy and a smear on the word "mother", which makes the world's mothers lose face.
The first time I saw this, I was in the middle of a long journey, and it was a long time ago that I was in the middle of a long journey.
If your child learns about your dirty dealings, the image of a good mother will be destroyed in their minds. Even if you say you are doing it for his own good, he would rather not have you doing this to himself, and he would not want you to meddle in his life.
Once the story broke, the child's classmates, the child's coworkers, all know the child's people, will look down on the mother's child, said he was not capable of relying on his mother to get to the top, laughing at him for having a "great" mom, the child became the target of a thousand accusations, and the mother is the culprit.
They say it's all for the good of the child, but are they really good?
Everything is "for the good of the child" mom, can not listen to your children, in the heart in the end there is no understanding of your good, and what they are thinking?
The first grade Wenwen said: "I do not want to learn dance, but my mother said in order to cultivate my temperament, it is for my own good, insisted that I learn dance, in fact, I love the piano, let the fingers in the keys dance feeling really good."
In fact, the cultivation of temperament is not the only way to learn dance, the piano will be more to enhance the inner temperament, the ancients also said that "the belly has a poem from the gas", so many good methods, but only choose to kill the child's hobby, this is how cruel a thing ah!
The high school student Niu Niu also began to complain about the accompanying mother's recent fiery temper, often "are for your own good" as a mantra, when puberty meets the advance of menopause, Niu Niu can not wait to hide far away from his mother, do not like her every morning than the alarm clock is very punctual to shout at him to get up and read a book, a thousand nutritious breakfast, dirt The first thing I want to do is to get up and go to school, and then I'll go to school. The first boy has no money, no house, no car, by the mother-in-law's strong opposition, girlfriends have no choice but to choose a poor boy, but still changed the mother's lack of understanding, even the day of the marriage is still persuading her: daughter ah, mom is over, I am for your good, ah, the bread is far more than the love of the real ah!
"Poor couples have a lot to worry about" is the world's prejudice against poor couples, because there are still a lot of "in times of trouble" of the couple of CP.
My best friend with such an attitude, and his boyfriend, her husband, now! The same in and out, hand in hand, created their own mom and pop store, now, the room has, the car is not bad, the deposit is quite a lot, the mother-in-law no longer good to say that "are for your own good".
Without "everything is for the good of the child" everything seems to be colorful.
The day after my mom called me, the three of us signed her up for a two-month tour and lied to her that it was only for three days, and then told her when she arrived how much it cost, and that if she didn't go, she would be wasting her money.
I hope that during my mother's trip, my brother will be able to properly make his own life choices without being influenced by my mother any longer, and in the future, sweet and sour, all have nothing to do with others.
I hope that during my mom's travels, she can relax and unwind, tired for a lifetime, bitter for a lifetime, can you just live for yourself, the world is so big, just want you to be happy.
Not only do I hope that my mom, but also hope that all the moms live not so tired, live not so hard.
No one requires the house to be spotless. As a mom, you don't have to wash and shuffle and mop the floor and do laundry every day, and you are so tired that you can't stand up straight and hold your head high. Mom, there is you, there is me, is home.
No one will emphasize the meals to eat every day, colorful and delicious, and occasionally takeout delivery is also a necessity of life. Mom, delicious, not delicious, with you to eat, only the most happy.
Mom, go to your square dance, the nightfall can not hide your glittering; Mom, go to your old friends party, without your presence, where there will be laughter; Mom, go to your shopping mall, the beautiful clothes on you will be more glamorous.
Mom, there are so many wonderful things waiting for you to practice, you do not want to labor for us to do anything, "children and grandchildren, children and grandchildren blessed", how to enjoy? What's the harm in being miserable? The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots.
Besides, what you say is for our own good, and we still think it's counterproductive, so don't bother with us.