If you can not talk together, is not considered to be a friend of the heart, disappearance disappearance it! As in the street met the same people, not deep friendship, do not contact, each tube of each, give up is a kind of liberation, as long as you are honest and have the heart of the world friends naturally come to meet.
First, the three views are not consistent, play together.
Second, the people who are chasing fame and fortune, there is no value to be gained from you.
Third, see through human nature, self-esteem and self-improvement, do not rely on others to live.
There is an old saying that is a bit interesting: "A thousand cups of wine is less than a thousand cups of wine, and half a sentence is more than a sentence of words." Because the words do not talk to each other, so chatting people disappeared, but also because the words do not talk to each other, and then do not talk about the department, why will the words do not talk to each other?
People and people's birth, life situation, circumstances, knowledge ...... each different, thousands of different.
You think your former classmates know each other, wrong. Life changes all the time: take this epidemic for example! Once her family was well off, driving a sports car, hanging designer bags, wearing fashionable dresses ...... But the epidemic came, her family originally exported foreign trade business all the way to a thousand feet, insolvent. But your family's mask business is in short supply, and all of a sudden, your family is rolling in money. If you talk to her about your family's recent situation, touching her pain, misunderstanding you ridicule her ...... speechless.
You and she used to be close to a small sister, you talk to her husband and wife love, children lovely. And she is a large order of leftover women, touching her pain, misunderstanding of your sincerity to make her unhappy, and from now on a goodbye two wide, no longer have dealings.
She likes poetry, photography, tourism. You like to play cards and chat, dancing. You said: "Yesterday paste, or yesterday and lost ......" she once and twice to endure, the heart of the boss is not happy to hear. Finally tolerated, speechless.
Take the salary to eat people do not do the boss's relatives chat, you idle her busy, you poor her rich, chatting chat speechless. Elderly people do not often find young people chat, *** with different interests, the elderly like to keep fit, young people to fight for the cause, chatting, chatting, speechless. Men easily do not chat with women, chatting, women misunderstanding, for fear of causing trouble, from then on, no longer contact ......
Life is largely so, Baoyu and Baochai counted as handsome men and women, and the family is quite. Baoyu do not like the career economy, and Baochai aspire to rise to the top of the career economy, so see Baoyu every persuasion, Baoyu also brush off, but also said: "Lin sister never say this asshole words." Even if the parents as the master to marry Baochai as his wife, he also do not love, out of the house as a monk to go.
In fact, life, find a chat cheerful people is not easy. And: "too many words will be lost". Too familiar, inadvertently, offended. Often big people, most: "big sound", because they dare not say more. Sometimes talk out of killing it! Cao Cao killed Yang Xiu, that is, Yang Xiu talk too much, smart, thought he guessed Cao Cao's mind. Cao Cao couldn't tolerate it and found a reason to kill him. The saying: "accompanying the king is like accompanying a tiger" is the origin of this. Sima Qian was put to death because his words were not in line with the king's wishes. This shows: "trouble comes out of the mouth" is very reasonable oh!
People are divided into groups, things are gathered. Get along with, not to get along with on the points, do not have to force. Similarly, said to say, said not to say. The world, there is always someone and you will know all the words, all the words, I wish you meet a confidant.