Many women, after the breakup, the surface of the more repulsive, indicating that the more importance of the heart you, so sometimes the woman's desperation for you is not her true will, but you some kind of behavior stimulate her to make a passive response. She can fall in love with you once, you can certainly fall in love with you for the second time, your own attraction is impossible to completely disappear, how to realize her high quality, high efficiency recovery, you need to have a precise control of her psychological change stage.
Next, the tutor through today's article for the brothers to show the inner world of the woman after the breakup, so that we understand what psychological changes after the breakup of the woman, but also will tell you why the woman will reject you, and how you should be highly effective in salvage!
After the breakup, you become hesitant, want to go back, but afraid of not succeeding; do not go back, but also afraid of the beloved woman into the arms of others. If the brothers want to reverse this emotional pattern, to retain the woman's heart, I will be free for you to do recovery rate assessment, targeted to help you develop a private recovery program, hand in hand to teach you the follow-up operation method, so that you can one-step recovery success!
The woman and you break up, on behalf of her at this time has lost confidence in you, and the mode of living between you can not let her continue to maintain interest in you. Such a situation, often the more desperate to stay, the more she got her desperate response, so you choose to give up, that she will never come back ...... But in fact, you see her on the surface of the decisive, just your subjective judgment, her inner depths of hard to give up and uneasy but no one ever perceived. You want to know what women think in their hearts after breaking up?
The first stage: pretending to be relaxed
Just after the breakup, the woman will be thinking that she can finally enjoy the happiness of a person, desperately saying that her boyfriend is in a relationship with a variety of bad, that she is finally free from that period of love, and then their hearts are full of anticipation of the future, looking forward to the life of their new "Prince Charming! "The man is not a good man, he is a good man. This time the man to retrieve and entangled, usually will end in failure, the woman will clearly say "do not love", but, although she is in the level of consciousness or verbal expression, but in the deepest part of the heart will still be cut to the feelings of the former.
The second stage: anxiety waiting
The vast majority of women in love do not like to take the initiative, so this stage of the woman will choose to wait, they hope that their boyfriends can again take the initiative to apologize to their own, to restore their own, but when the left waiting for the right waiting for the right not to come, the woman began to fidget, and every day like a year, the heart of the endless anxiety, the anxiety, will accelerate her search for a new footsteps, the right to go, the right to go, the right to go. The first step is to find a way to get to the top of the list.
The third stage: the start of a new relationship
In this stage of the woman may have found their own other half, so as to start a new love, this time immersed in the sweet love in the eyes of the woman is all the "ex-boyfriend's bad" and "new boyfriend's good"; there are also some women who do not have a good boyfriend, but they are not in the eyes of the woman. "
There are some women who have not found a new "Prince Charming", they are afraid that they will never meet the right person, and they are worried that they may never get married, and they are getting restless.
The fourth stage: miss the ex
Whether it is the start of a new relationship, after the passion of the woman returned to the plain, or did not find a new "Prince Charming" of the woman, will enter this stage. The main manifestations are: think of the ex-boyfriend point by point good, think of him together with a good scene, in the brain like a movie. After returning to reality, you want to cry a lot, hate yourself when you do not have a good treasure, and when you lose it, you do not want to stay.
Fifth stage: can not control the contact ex
At this time brothers must pay attention to, if at this time you have not come out of the shadow of the previous breakup, please be sure to be careful with the return to the heart of the woman, do not be in a hurry to agree to get back together. I will help you to determine whether she is out of sincerity, or because of the breakup of the lonely unwilling, at the same time, will also teach you how to insight into the psychology of women, so that you grasp the psychological weaknesses of women, lightning back together!
90% of men want to go back to each other after breaking up with a woman, so that you are unforgettable is not a certain person, but with the person experienced things, said words, walked the road, *** with the experience of that period of time was once beautiful and incomparable. Sometimes unintentional memories that come flooding back, the heart still hurts, hurts so much that it can't be touched. You know she still loves you, but why when you put down the man pride to beg her to come back, she ruthlessly rejected you?
① She loves the charming you
At the beginning, your every move, a word, are revealed to attract her male charisma; your recklessness, acute, lose three temper, will make her feel that this is a man's qualities and you again and again tolerance. However, after a long time, the hot period of love has passed, and your shortcomings began to be unlimitedly enlarged.
You become straight, irritable, her performance slightly out of your mind, you began to get angry, began to pick a fight, began to become more and more of her headache, if this time you do not pay attention to the method, just to go to the noisy pestering her, she will feel that you are even more incomprehensible, more people are bored.
② She is afraid of repeating the same mistakes and repeated injuries
The breakup is a double-edged sword. She refused to accept your request for salvation, in fact, because of the fear of touching those hidden pain of the old wounds, she was afraid of and good after your feelings and back to the original - quarrels, jealousy. This time the woman, just want to calm, calm, and then calm! If you step by step, can only make her like an ostrich, bury her head in the sand, powerless to escape, no courage to face you positively.
③ She doesn't like to get along with macho men
There are some men who, whether at work or in life, act macho! If you force a woman to make up with you in a breakup situation, or to annoy her and beg her every day, even if you think, you have used the most humble lowly gesture to get her back, but in reality, she is still in a passive state in the relationship. This will instinctively cause her resentment and make your relationship further deteriorate, and your salvation will be even more difficult!
In this situation of repeated rejection, if the brothers have been at their wits' end, I will help you to analyze her current psychological situation in detail, and quickly develop an exclusive salvage plan for you to help you first stabilize the current situation, and then steadily and steadily to salvage your feelings, will be her a one-two punch!
It's possible that when you chase a girl, you use a "domineering president" approach to chase her to the hand, so you think that when you break up to recover, you can also "force" her to give in, which is a very wrong idea! If you are on your own to salvage the situation is still stalking, including frequent phone calls, information bombing, and even go to the girl unit to chase, will only let her see your emotional and immature, increase her boredom with you, let her feel you are so horrible!
In the other side of the negative emotions have not subsided, the more you do, the more wrong, the girl's desperation is a very scary thing, at this time you should first calm down, accept the fact that the breakup, stabilized the girl's emotions, stop loss in time. Temporary "space withdrawal", can give your feelings to leave room, but also will let each other's impression to maintain a degree, no longer continue to deteriorate.
When you want to get back together with the other side, the possibility of being cold by her is very high, that is because in the previous breakup storm, you left the girl's positive impression and survival value has been greatly impaired, so the next step, you need to repair their own bad impression, to improve the survival value, to dissolve the negative impact that you bring to her and harm, so that she regained the hope for you. The mentor summed up the following two suggestions from many successful cases, just for your reference:
① Inherent impression transformation
Many men are at a loss in this step, thinking that they themselves are very ordinary people, doing an ordinary job, and usually do not have any favorite things, watching TV, bragging about it, and if playing the game is also counted as a hobby, then it may be one more The reason for the breakup.
Here, the tutor would like to say: you have to give each other hope, so that she can see and you have a future together, she will unload their defenses, re-accept you; you only repair the bad impression left on her, into a man worthy of her trust, she will willingly return to you.
② display surface construction
Work: girls in the relationship between the two sexes is very important to the survival value of the man, so they all like to have a progressive man, so that they can give them a sense of security.
Social: "Social credentials" are a strong signal that a man has an identity at first glance, and can be very effective in generating heterosexual attraction, which is especially important for men who are not dominant in terms of looks.
Topic: This is about her hobbies and interests, and you need to find out what she's talking about in order to open up the chat window.
Pre-selection: This is a technique that can only be used in the later stages of salvage, the purpose is to borrow the girl's jealousy psychology, the relationship upgrade. However, the scale and time of the pre-selection must be well grasped, otherwise it will cause the opposite effect.
Girls have a **** sex, is the hope that men "understand" their own, more in life to create some romance, that is, to provide "emotional value".
If you know how to provide emotional value for a woman, then, even if you're not so rich, not so talented, the woman will die to follow you, this is because you give her the most comfortable feeling inside, this feeling is not good or bad, but her heart is the most lack of, the most need. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots.
For example: straightforward communication: this time she wants just a conclusion or result, you directly tell her the answer on it, do not need any extra explanation.
How to deal with the girl's "waste test"?
① Establish the topic of open rope
Don't come up directly to the words dead, this is a straight man is very easy to make the mistake, communication to learn to create suspense, to let people have to continue to communicate and understand the desire. For example: I dreamed of you last night. As long as the other party still has a trace of attachment to you, she will definitely ask you what you dreamed about her, because it is an emotional importance for her, for someone she is valuable, so she will be very curious.
② Find out the topic **** Ming
This is the same as when you were pursuing her at that time, that time you had the patience to learn what girls like, what they are interested in, and after being together for a long time, you began to ignore it, or even forget about it. This time you need to refresh your homework, such as her favorite singer, her favorite food, her free time hobbies and so on, this homework if you did not do well before, then in the salvage phase, you have to make up for it.
③ the only characteristic praise art
Women in the emotional value, the biggest **** sex is, like to listen to sweet words, listen to the good. Ordinary sweet words for the age of the girl, may be more effective, once more than twenty-five years old, you have to know how to use the "unique characteristics of praise art". More "most", "very", "important" such adjectives, is to let her feel the importance of their own, for you to be unique, such as:
"I didn't realize that the ideas I've believed in for over 20 years had been changed by you!"
"You're amazing, I didn't even realize this detail myself, and I can't believe you found it!"
Wait ...... this similar praise words, will let the girl feel very big spiritual encouragement, at the same time can also increase her sense of identification with you, significantly improve your chances of salvage. Brothers can now contact the teacher, I will be free of charge to your feelings of a full range of analysis, and targeted to develop the most suitable for your salvage strategy and follow-up methods of operation, so that your feelings easy to break the ice, and continue to warm up, until the beginning of the good, more sweet than ever!
When the invitation is successful, you can choose the date location in the restaurant you have been to before very like; if she previously felt that you wear a certain piece of clothing is very good, you can wear this dress to go to the appointment; you can also wear her to send you something, like belt, purse, watch, etc. ...... These locations and items can be evoked! The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
The heart anchor is the switch of emotions, constantly stimulate her with the heart anchor, she will miss more and more and your old love, want to return to you again. At the same time, you also need to choose the right time to establish some new heart anchors, new anchor stimuli can cause more emotional **** vibration, so that your salvation to the water!
The invitation is the most important part of the recovery, if the preliminary reconnection is to let her see your changes, then the invitation is to let her move to you again. If you are facing the "invitation" at this time at a loss, I will be free to answer all your confusion, teach you irresistible invitation words, help you establish the most appropriate and effective positive heart anchor, so that the woman can not wait to see you, and will never leave you again!
It is said that "a woman's heart, the bottom of the sea needle", this is because men habitually use "straight" thinking to consider things, they do not know how to stand in the psychological perspective of women to consider the problem. When the man in the salvage will learn to think differently, salvage will become not so difficult!
The ultimate goal of recovering love is to let yourself really have the ability to master happiness, and what kind of happiness you want, you have to pay what kind of effort!
If you are in a relationship predicament, be sure not to miss the best time to get back because of momentary hesitation, let me do one-on-one consulting for you to guide you to develop the most efficient, most suitable for your exclusive salvage program, comprehensively resolved feelings of contradiction in the point of hand to teach you to salvage their own happiness. Give yourself a chance to make love better; give the mentor a chance to prove to you what is the power of professionalism! Finally, I wish the brothers who read this article are successful in winning back their girlfriends and love to the white head!