One, have a healthy body
As the saying goes, the body is the capital of the revolution. Older people want to live happily after retirement, physical health is the first, it is the foundation of our pursuit of all happiness. Some people have made an analogy, physical health is 1, money, fame and fortune and other external things are 0, if 1 does not exist, then no matter how many 0 behind, will become meaningless.
People live, the ultimate spell is the body, the elderly is even more so.
Two, the other half also has a healthy body
Retirement, means that the formal into the old life. At this time, the vast majority of people's parents have left them, and their children have started their own families and have their own space.
So it's impossible for anyone but your significant other to be with you at all times. It is only when your significant other is in good health that he or she can always be there for you and you will not be lonely in your later years. Having someone to talk to, someone to take care of, someone to listen to you, and someone to hold on to you until you grow old is the happiness of the elderly.
Three, children have become a family
As the saying goes, children travel a thousand miles mother worry, from the moment the child was born, we will never stop worrying about them. Worry about their bodies, worry about their studies, worry about their jobs, worry about their marriages, and later on, worry about whether their families are harmonious.
The parents are like that, they all hope that their sons and daughters have happy families and successful careers, which is also the biggest wish of the parents.
So, when we enter the old age, we can see that our children have already established their own families and happy life, then we really will be less worried, less worried, and naturally, we can spare more of their own time, rest assured that they want to go to their old age.
Four, have a certain amount of savings and income
Though it is said that raising children to prevent old age, but even if the child is filial piety, especially willing to spend money on you, you certainly can not bear to spend more money on the children, spend their own money to be able to do as they wish.
Age, the use of money is less, but the body is not as good as before, there will inevitably be sick, whenever this time, we do not want to give the child too much trouble, they have money, in order to live a more decent.
The older you get, the more you think about accomplishing some of the dreams you didn't accomplish when you were younger, such as going to places you want to go and seeing people you want to see, and whenever this happens, we don't want to bother our children even more, so we can use our own money to really make it happen with our hearts and minds.
Having food in your hands is the only way to keep your mind occupied. Older life, even though physical health is the most important, but the hand has savings, monthly income, our life can be more solid, more stable, more decent.
Fifth, the young did not leave too many regrets
"How steel is made" has such a classic words: a person's life should be spent this way: when he looks back, should not be wasted years and regret, but also not because of the shame of doing nothing.
What is the meaning of life? And how should we spend our lives? From young to old, we will always meet all kinds of people, experience all kinds of things, we may also be obsessed with the fight for fame and fortune, obsessed with love and hate.
But as long as we have worked hard, struggled, fought, paid, no matter whether the end is success or failure, we will not regret, life will not leave regrets.
Otherwise, young left too many regrets, to the old age may still be grudging, and even regret for life.
Sixth, have a hobby
After retirement, no work, most of the free time how to spend meaningfully? The answer, of course, is to do what you like, so it's important to have a hobby of your own.
Some people like Go, some like singing, some like photography, some like writing, and some like collecting picture albums, and these are all hobbies.
With hobbies, life is motivated and life will become colorful, otherwise, most of the time will have nothing to do, boring, and will have a bad effect on the body.
Seven, have a good state of mind
Some people say, life is not to live by mood, but by the state of mind. Especially in old age, whenever you see colleagues and friends around one by one away from their own time, the inner sense of desolation and the fear of death will be more and more intense. Therefore, we must have a good mindset, look down on the parting, see through life and death.
People in old age, in fact, living is a state of mind, to always adjust their own state of mind, do not fight, do not panic.
If the heart is not tired, everything is safe.