During the Chinese New Year, it is a common scene for family members, relatives and friends to greet and communicate with each other. However, some questions may feel awkward or uncomfortable. Here are some potentially uncomfortable questions and how to deal with them:
1. Relationship status: Some people may not like being asked about their personal relationship status, especially those who are single or divorced. If you encounter this situation, you can give your relative or friend a smile and answer directly, or divert attention by changing the topic.
2. Work Questions: For some people, being asked questions about their job can cause anxiety, especially if they are unhappy with their job or are unemployed. When answering, you can briefly describe your work situation and move on to other interesting topics, such as hobbies or travel plans.
3. Income and financial situation: This is a sensitive topic, and many people don’t like to talk about their financial situation with others. If asked this question, you can choose to respond politely, or simply say that you are uncomfortable talking about the topic and then change your focus.
4. Kids Questions: For some people, being asked questions about fertility or family planning can be uncomfortable. If you don't want to answer, you can politely say that you haven't thought about it or don't want to talk about it.
5. Weight and Appearance: Being asked questions about your weight or appearance can be embarrassing or uncomfortable. You can directly express your reluctance to talk about these issues, or change the topic to other more positive and interesting areas.
When answering these questions, remember to be polite and kind. If you feel uncomfortable or confused, try sharing your feelings with the person or politely declining to answer. The most important thing is to spend this moment of reunion with relatives and friends in a positive way and enjoy joy and love with them.