Even western countries feel that it will take hundreds of years to achieve real equality between men and women, not to mention developing countries with such a large population base. In this interest-oriented atmosphere, society will not be gentle with you because you are a woman. Maybe your gender has become a stumbling block to your success, but we can't change these things, we can only be forced to accept them.
Too many women are unwilling to work hard. After entering marriage, they put their hopes for the rest of their lives in the hands of men. In this gambling game, most of them have lost.
A woman is past middle age, no matter how capable her husband and children are, please be prepared for the "three back roads"
Have your own vault, money you can control independently.
Nowadays, "women should be exquisite", "ahead of consumption" and "nine lipsticks necessary for a woman's life". In order to stimulate women's desire for consumption, merchants filled our eyes with exaggerated copywriting. Many women suffer from it. With a salary of 5,000 yuan a month, they dare to live up to the consumption level of 10,000 yuan. Just say "OMG" and they will take out their wallets. Some people will say ".
From the first month of entering the society, you should save money consciously. When you have more and more money in your pocket, you will feel more secure. Whether you are young or middle-aged, you have your own money, and you have confidence in anyone you face.
You should have your own social circle, not the family kitchen.
My husband has a stable job. In his spare time, he can invite some old friends to play chess and climb mountains. The children are growing up. You don't need to take care of them in front of you. You have a lot of free time. Life has changed from busy to leisure. Have you ever thought about what to do to enrich yourself?
You might as well get out of this small home that has bound you for decades, meet people your age, dance square dance together at night, and chat with each other at ordinary times. If you spend all your time making yourself happy, you will feel very happy.
When you reach middle age, take a vacation for yourself, see the excitement outside and stop by your family. If your daily life is just waiting for your husband to come home, you will feel particularly lonely.
Be sure to care about your health and don't be reluctant to spend money on it.
With the increase of age, the working ability and efficiency of various organs of the body are getting slower and slower. A small cold may develop into pneumonia if it is not treated in time. You could have cured the disease with thousands of dollars, because you were afraid of spending money, and it became a serious illness. In the end, you spent tens of thousands, leaving the root of the disease. This is not stupid. What is it?
Investment is healthy and harmless. I watched too much, and I was reluctant to invest in health when I was young. Unfortunately, I got cancer when I was old, and I can't cure it. Your health is not only for yourself, but also for your family and diseases, and diseases can easily destroy a family.
The sooner a woman pays attention to her health, the happier she will be.
To put it bluntly, husband and children are outsiders. They are close to you when you are well. When you have an accident, they treat you differently.
I admit that many couples have been together all their lives, sharing weal and woe, but who wants to go through hardships if they can? Don't test your marriage with benefits. If you are finally disappointed, you can't live with him as before.
Therefore, women should rely on themselves, and prepare more posterior routes for themselves, so as to avoid No Country for Old Men.