Every family hopes that the family business is prosperous, everything goes well. The old man in the countryside used to say, "There are three things in the family, the days are prosperous. The first time I saw this was when I was in the middle of the night, and I was in the middle of the night. I'd like to share my understanding with you.
First, there is a harmonious family. As the saying goes, all things prosper in a family. As long as a family is very harmonious, no matter what difficulties encountered, can be solved. Although people and people's ability is different, but as long as we can work together, money out of money, powerful out of power, we all do not go to the catty, and harmony will be able to put things are solved. And as the saying goes, when people are united, mountains move. As long as the family work together, living together, I believe that the family business will be prosperous.
The second is to have a good family style, good family style should be filial piety and obedience. Filial piety is to be filial to elders, filial piety to the elderly, and smile should also have the meaning of emulation, the elders of the family. Being filial to one's elders will certainly set an example for future generations. And obedience is to follow the wishes and requirements of the elders to do, so that the elders in front of the helm, the next generation in the efforts to do. The direction is correct. The young people work a hundred times harder, and I believe that such a family will prosper. Because a good family style for the family business can be prosperous, laid a solid foundation.
The third is to have a good daughter-in-law. The family married a good daughter-in-law, can be directly related to the family's prosperity and development. Because the daughter-in-law in the family to take care of household chores, husband and mothering more, is the child's first teacher. A daughter-in-law who is hardworking, thrifty, and filial is able to keep the household running smoothly and without a drop of water, and to keep the family in harmony. In raising the children, she is also able to give priority to teaching the children how to be human beings and to cultivating the children's intellectual development. The physical health of the children is the foundation. Make the family business good heirs, is the family's descendants of people, such a family days will certainly be very prosperous and developed.
In short, a prosperous family must have harmonious family relations. The family has a good family tradition to be passed on. A good daughter-in-law in the family is able to run a good household and raise good offspring. With these three treasures. Family days want to not hope developed are impossible.
Every family wants to live is red hot, the family is harmonious, but with the continuous development of rural areas in the past few years, the living standards of farmers is slowly improved, but many families have chosen to go out to work to earn money, because going out to work also let a lot of families become more and more bulging pockets, and even some because of the money earned from working outside, after returning home to their old houses from the new! The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good understanding of what you are doing and how you are doing it.
But today we have a question about which of the three things that the proverbial "three things in the family, the days of prosperity" refers to, and today I'm going to explain the deeper meaning of this proverb in the context of current rural life.
This is also an important factor in family harmony and prosperity, we must have encountered a lot in recent years because of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship and lead to the relationship between the whole family is not good, it can be imagined that if the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law two people can get along, which is even more valuable to a family, after all, there is such an old saying called "family and everything is prosperous! "
A family is a family of two, and it is a family of two.
Whether a family can have a great development this completely determines their own children and grandchildren how, if the children and grandchildren is a filial child, then the family even in the rich, will not have a greater development, not to mention the family prosperity, because only the children and grandchildren to understand the big body to bring the hope of the family.
There is also the development of future generations of orientation, is to rely on our parents as the correct guidance, so we are filial parents, then as the children's eyes in the heart, they will also become a filial understanding of the people, so our family will be more and more prosperous.
The right work here means not doing the right thing, because if a family is lazy all day long or not working, then such a family will not be able to prosper, but if a family is diligent and active with their own hands to create wealth, then it must be a prosperous family.
The prosperity of a family requires harmony, the need for children and grandchildren, but also the need to have a job, so that we can make the family's life better, the future of the family more prosperous.
Everyone has their own family, and what a family wants is to have fun and happy days. Even if there is not enough food to eat, not enough money to spend, the family can care for each other and tolerate each other, but also happy. To be honest, it is really not easy to form a family, and it requires the **** of the family members to work together. In this regard, the old people in the countryside often say: "The family has three things, the days of prosperity".
In fact, to say that the "three things", different families, different views on life, there will be different say. For me, it should be these "three":
Home is a warm harbor, maintaining a family depends on both natural blood relations, but also rely on each other's feelings. Nowadays, the family, the most difficult to maintain and own is the child after the family. Although it is said to be under the same roof, in the same pot of food, too many families have been "separated from each other" life. Children earn their own money to spend their own, eat well and wear good, never ask the family about the cost of living such as rice, flour and oil, not to mention debt repayment. As parents, know the children's not easy, everywhere for the sake of the children, as much as possible to save money, "digging the east wall to make up the west wall", as much as they can, for the children to share their worries, but also afraid of a daughter-in-law out of a "demon moth", the family is not at peace. Some of the son even change the book, do "gnawing on the old" thing, idle, good to do, completely disregard for the parents of the labor and hardship. A mention of daughter-in-law, but also justified that the big deal is to be a bachelor again? The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
In fact, this is not necessary. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and you'll be able to do that. Do parents think about the child is not wrong, for the son married daughter-in-law, parents are considered to have completed the "mission", should be stacked down "burden", just parents can not give up that "love", so it is still a lot of love and affection. So it is still a lot of favor and care. Sons and daughters should have self-awareness, understand the difficulties of parents, you earn money you spend, but also for the sake of parents and family. There is something to discuss with your parents, calmly solve the problem, not to say that "the family and all things are prospering"?
Although the "husband-songwriter" is a traditional feudal ideology, but for a family, there is still a certain significance. Because only the husband and wife relationship is handled well, there is something to consult with each other, in the event of mutual tolerance. Even if the temporary poverty, but also can face openly, the same boat ****. Do not argue, do not leave, get along well, but also for the children to play a subtle role, set a good example. It is respect for parents, filial piety and elders of the family style in the unconscious gradually formed, the day will naturally be better and better.
If the couple is not in harmony, they will quarrel when they encounter problems, and when they have difficulties, they will "separate" and divorce. The conflict between husband and wife so that parents do not know how to mediate, left and right, the most fatal is to let the children to watch and learn, modeling is often the opposite.
"All good things come first", China's thousands of years of national cultural traditions tell us, "filial piety" is the bottom line. With filial piety, there is inheritance, our current culture and life. Children who are filial and obedient know how to be thankful and do good deeds will have a smooth career and a happy family. Filial piety is the precursor to family prosperity.
In reality, with the pursuit of the quality of life of the people more and more old higher, surprisingly, the "world of two" life as the highest realm. So the suspicion, or even abandonment of the elderly, not accustomed to eating the old man to do the meal, do not let the elderly in a table to eat, some even the old man's shoes have to be placed outside the door. In fact, they want to drive their parents out of the buildings they bought or the new houses they built for them. Parents returned to the old house, do not hear and ignore, even the children are not allowed to see their grandparents.
Many people go out to work to earn money, leaving the elderly at home, leaving the children to their parents, and not even give a pocket money. The old man has something to do, is sick, there is no one around to take care of, not to mention do a little filial piety. Some of the elderly heart resentment, said to the neighbors and townspeople, the family scandal is not a good thing, this is the family's "war", and meet the character of the daughter-in-law, will make a mess. Some families married into the door of the daughter-in-law is not "idle generation", parents do not look good, and occasionally say a sentence or two, they do not rely on, increased family disharmony factors, not to mention filial piety, parents, the days have been a mess.
In fact, whether the son or daughter of filial piety, but also character. Good character, must be filial parents, children filial piety, family harmony, work without worries, life will be happy.
Conclusion
The family of thousands of things, is not just oil, rice, soy sauce and vinegar, these small things, most of them are caused by money. Who let the money is not everything, no money nothing! This is the reason why we have been running for money all our lives. That said, but in order to live a good life, husband and wife together, family harmony, filial piety of the children are the basis and prerequisites. Only with these three things, the days of prosperity is only a matter of time. Therefore, the old man said, "family has three things, the days of prosperity" is very reasonable.
All good filial piety first is our country's thousands of years of tradition, the essence of etiquette, only know how to filial piety, know how to be grateful, only know how to do everything. Parents give birth to a child, with a lifetime of energy to pay a lifetime of sweat cultivated children. As children, they must first be filial, and only filial piety can lead to family unity and harmony. "The lamb knows how to feed the breast", "the crow knows how to feed", as children should and must be filial to their parents, in order to repay the gift of birth, the gift of nurturing. This is a very prosperous life.
A family living in harmony, the days are particularly smooth and smooth, the mood is particularly happy. As the saying goes, "all things prosper in the family", "family and outsiders do not bully", so a family and live in harmony, reunion, mutual accommodation and mutual care, so that the family's very prosperous, and can keep a family forever, will not do the state of fragmentation, and will not do the state of fragmentation, and will not do the state of fragmentation. Will not be able to do the state of fragmentation, especially for those who love to make a fuss at home, quarrelsome family, in the eyes of outsiders to see are particularly twisted. So only the family and can all things prosper.
Couples must get along with each other, after all, husband and wife, know each other for a particularly long time, it can be said that the white head to old age, a lifetime of eternal companionship together. If the phenomenon of the same bed, each harboring evil intentions, each for their own purposes to take advantage of each other, this kind of day never live well, and finally to the end of the unhappy, and even the death of the family. Only husband and wife are of one mind, like a sharp sword cuts iron like mud, cuts gold like earth. It can be said that the husband and wife is the smallest unit of a family, only unity and harmony, can family happiness.
Some people may first say that as long as the family has money, the days will be prosperous. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world, and then you can get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world. Some people have money in their homes, but their children are unfilial, and their love for each other is weak, so even if they have money, their lives will not be prosperous.
About eight or nine years ago, the daughter of a village clerk in our neighborhood killed her mother with her own hands. At that time, this village secretary's family was very rich, her daughter played mahjong gambling every day, and that day she went home to ask her mother for money, and her mother did not give it to her, so her daughter teamed up with her own boyfriend, and mutilated her own mother to death. So it has nothing to do with whether the family has money or not. What does it have to do with? If you have three things, you will be prosperous. The first one is the one that you have to do with the first three things.
The first is that children must honor their parents in order to prosper. I don't know if you have found a phenomenon, in the village you can look at, but all the family life is smooth, days of prosperity, are very filial family. Rural people live, do not seek great wealth and prosperity, but all hope that the days go smoothly. Traditional culture tells us that only filial piety can be smooth, filial piety and smooth are linked together.
I remember reading a passage in a book to this effect: If a family is compared to a tree, then the parents are the roots, and the children are the leaves and branches on the top of the tree. If you want the whole tree to flourish and the top of the tree not to wither, you have to keep watering and fertilizing the root of the tree, otherwise as long as the root of the tree dries up, the top of the tree, no matter how capable, will wither along with it. I think this is very eloquent, if the children do not honor their parents, then the family will not prosper.
The second thing is that brothers and sisters are of one mind. In the countryside, there are a lot of siblings, because of family trivia or uneven division of parents' property, and a big fight, some even made a human life. In recent years, some villages catch up with the relocation, rural houses all of a sudden worth a million, would have been a good thing, but because of the money, in exchange for the family siblings turned against each other.
Our neighboring village relocated last year, there is a married daughter, feel that their parents have their own share of the family property, while the mother's family brothers feel that married daughter should not go home to share their own property. Both sides want to force their parents to agree with their own ideas, but the palm of the hand are meat, parents were forced to get sick, and finally the old mother was hospitalized at the expense of suffering. Siblings, however, because of the house problem, not in the mood to serve the mother, resulting in the aggravation of the old mother's condition, almost no life. So siblings only sympathize with each other, care for each other, days can be prosperous.
The third is the most basic, that is, between husband and wife must deal with family relations. Husband and wife relationship is the center of the family, only husband and wife and harmony, there is a discussion, the whole family relationship can be harmonious. Only when children grow up in a harmonious environment will they have love and filial piety. This is a virtuous cycle, the parents have a harmonious relationship, the children know how to filial piety, the day of the natural smooth.
I grew up in the countryside since childhood, and I have an unusual attachment to the countryside. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world, and then you'll be able to get your hands on some of the most popular ones. Today, on the "family has three things, the days of prosperity" in the "three things" refers to what, and share with you:
I have the honor of knowing a talkative sister-in-law, family harmony, career success, children filial piety. She shared the secret of her success: Chinese people generally lack a sense of boundaries, as a family in the elderly, whether it is grandpa and grandma, or grandpa and grandma, have to have the look of the old man, as the home of the fixed star, do not interfere with the children's lives, the children have their own family, right and wrong, the pros and cons of the trade-offs understand, as for how to live, the other two couples will be negotiated to solve the problem, the old man do not follow the instructions, the old man is a little more than a few days, the old man is a little more than a few days, the old man is a little more than a few days. The old couple planted some small vegetables, drink a little wine, take a small walk, pull a small hand, such a small life is not good.
The children of adults, families and establishments to form a family, living with their own cooking plans, this time the relationship between the elderly and their children can be said to be friends, can often get together, but each other have an independent space. Once and their own close children, suddenly and other people love each other, do not feel lost, like a bird wings hard to leave the nest, this is a normal natural phenomenon. This is a natural phenomenon. If you are always around your parents and stay in the nest, how many of your parents will be born early?
As a member of a large family, people to the middle age, on the old, under the small, the role of the top and bottom is very important, can be said to be the mainstay of a family, their words and deeds, the relationship between the parents of the happiness of the later years, but also in the silent cultivation of the next generation.
The old family's second uncle is a well-read man, in the four grandpas and four grandmothers in old age to the city to take care of, three meals a day, food, clothing, cold and warm, all the time on the heart. No matter where you go, the first thing you do when you return home is to sit in your parents' room and see what the old man needs. The toilet in the house was a squatting pit from the past, not a toilet. The four grandmothers poop to the outside, stepped on a foot, but they did not realize, walking around the house, and so the two uncles and two aunts go out and come home to open the door, gold all over the place ah.
The second uncle, without saying a word, rushed to the four grandmothers on the feet of the shoes to come over, wipe clean, and then give the old man to wear. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world, and then you'll be able to get your hands on some of the most popular ones. Seeing the son, daughter-in-law busy work, the fourth grandmother said: This is not my work, my shoes are clean, my son just checked. The second uncle hurriedly agreed: Yes, mom, your shoes are clean, I testify, and you have nothing to do with it. In fact, at that time, there was only one person in the house, and it was a small foot, that pointed little shoe print, it is simply a glimpse of ah.
Children are the hope of the future, parents are the object of cultivation by all means, to know how to sympathize with their parents, and strive for excellence. Nowadays there is such a popular saying: thirty years ago to see the father, honor the son, thirty years later to see the son, honor the father. Traditional Chinese culture, that thirty, should have the ability to dare to face all the difficulties, in you are still young, others respect you is in the face of your father. When you are independent, your father is old, others respect your father is in your face. Commonly speaking, before a child reaches the age of thirty, relatives and friends will respect their children because of their parents' ability. After the children are thirty years old and have families and businesses, relatives and friends will respect their parents because of the children's position.
Parents work so hard for you, as the next generation of the family, there is no reason to be addicted to the network, waste of school, in the age of the struggle to choose to be comfortable, in the age of the comfortable must work hard to run. The time to seize the youthfulness of the time, hard to get ahead, one day all the efforts will be rooted and blossomed, and fruitful.
Each region may not be the same concept in each place, such as small three brother this side of the old man often said three is to refer to: the successor, family harmony, filial piety, with these three, it represents the days of prosperity.
1. In the countryside, the idea of having a son is that we must have a son, and if we don't have a son, we will be looked down upon and gossiped about in the village, and if we don't have a son, we won't have any descendants, and we will break the root of the family. So in our rural areas have a son is a symbol of happiness.
2. Family Harmony
Family harmony in rural areas is a sign of happiness. And there is no contradiction in family trivia, each other are sincerely treating their relatives and friends. Often this kind of person in the village a mention of him, is everyone praised. We all know what Confucius said: Harmony is precious. Since Confucius, our nation has formed the traditional idea of "harmony is precious" and "pro-kindness is good and kind". So family harmony is a manifestation of the days of prosperity.
3. Filial piety
Filial piety is a traditional virtue in our country for thousands of years. So in the countryside from childhood, the elders have taught us to be grateful and filial. Treating the elderly elders we must respect and love filial piety. In the countryside, the elderly should see a doctor in time when they are sick, and they should always be taken care of when they can't walk. So in our countryside there is a filial understanding of the child is praised by everyone.
I am the countryside small three brother, a rural boy. The customs of each place are different, I don't know what your side of the "family has three things, the days of prosperity" refers to? We'll share the traditional virtues together.
The family is the most basic unit of society, the Confucian culture advocated in ancient China, the provisions of the family's various behaviors, these behaviors become the basis of a family can be prosperous. This is the source of the saying that the old man in the countryside used to say: "If you have three things in your house, you will be prosperous".
First, family harmony: the family is made up of everyone, here the big family, including grandchildren, brothers and sisters-in-law, small families, including a family of three, the most important is the harmony of the family members, the family members referred to here, including brotherhood and harmony, sisterhood and harmony and harmony of husband and wife. There is an old saying in the countryside that if brothers are not united, the gold in their hands will turn to mud. So if brothers are not in harmony with each other, the family will not prosper. In any family relationships are the main family members, the idea of wishing for a long time, there is a tradition in the North is to eat "vegetarian dumplings" on New Year's Eve, is the hope that the members of the family in the new year will be harmonious, the family to do so vegetarian quiet, harmonious **** place.
Second, the children filial piety: Confucian culture that filial piety means "good parents", only to do good parents filial piety people can have a higher moral character, in order to make the family's life is prosperous, "in the" filial piety requirements is to do the children can respect and be grateful to their parents through continuous learning and growth to maintain the family culture for the family, and to make the family a better place to live. The requirement of filial piety in the Middle Ages is that children should respect and be grateful to their parents, and through continuous learning and growth they should maintain the family style and achieve honor for the family in order to maintain the prosperity of the family, to honor the ancestors, and to glorify the clan. So only children filial piety can days prosper.
Third, diligent and thrifty family: diligent and thrifty family is composed of two words, one is diligent, one is thrifty, Zeng Guofan has summarized several points of view of the family prosperity and these two words are related to the children and grandchildren to see what time they can get up, whether they are able to diligently do the household chores, whether they like to read diligently, these small things can be seen in the family's ethos, these small simple things can determine the future of the family can prosper. At the same time, from the observation of the family's state of living whether the wastefulness, extravagance and extravagance can be seen in the future of the family can be prosperous.
So, family harmony, filial piety, hard work and thrift these traditions have become the Confucian culture advocate of good qualities, but also to maintain a family prosperity and development of the most fundamental factors of the long-lasting, look back to summarize, a lot of people say that the wealth of the family is not three generations of the family basically made the above mistakes.
The family has three things, the wealth to prosper!
The family has three things, days of prosperity, in the countryside can often be heard in the children or grandchildren in front of the children say such words, this is to guide the future generations of the hearts of the people to the good, the importance of love and righteousness, the positive sentence.
There are three things in the family, and the old people say that as long as there are these three things in the family, the family's life will be prosperous and prosperous.
The first, filial piety. The first of all, filial piety, filial piety is an ancient civilization has always respected a topic, and has never ceased to exist.
I once heard a friend say, she has a neighbor, the family's days are very rich, but take care of her sick mother-in-law, she never pretend to borrow the hands of others, such as hiring a nanny, to their family conditions, hire a nanny too, but the woman said, her mother-in-law has worked hard for her whole life, and only now we need to use the filial piety of her old man, the outsiders are always outsiders, and how can they take care of the loved ones of the comfortable.
She also warned her children: people should know how to be filial, filial piety to the elderly is a natural thing, only know how to be filial, will have a good fortune.
Second, harmony. The family and the past is prospering, all people know this sentence, harmonious families will be popular, there is wealth, noisy family, all day long in the clouds of sadness, wealth dare not enter the door.
My aunt's mother-in-law since she married her daughter-in-law, often talk to her daughter-in-law, she said that she was willing to be a peacemaker in her life, which relatives family quarrels, are her head mediation, she told her daughter-in-law, a good family, it is the first standard of harmony, family and everything, peace within the family will be a thriving family.
Third, the good heart. The good heart is the standard of cultivation. This is the practice of the ancient people, is not good people have good rewards? This good actually means goodness, today your goodness allows you to help others, in the future you have a hard time, the people you have helped will definitely help you in turn.
There is a man in our village, that is, the kind of heart is too real man, there was a time when he pushed the car uphill, there is a kind master in the village to help him pull the car, and then after the master is sick, this solid heart man often go to visit, he said: master is the village of the most kind of grandfather.