Suo Yang, a 23-year-old boy from Henan, died of hunger because he was too lazy. Suo Yang's laziness in death is more or less a reflection of Suo Yang's family and society. But as far as I know, before Suoyang was 23, he had been in a closed state for more than 20 years. Therefore, family factors have the greatest influence on the outcome of Suo Yang's starvation. In short, Suo Yang's laziness can be regarded as parents' overindulgence.
There is nothing wrong with Suo Yang's parents' love for their son. All children need the meticulous care given by Suo Yang's parents in their childhood. But how to turn this meticulous care into other forms of love and then impose it on children is the common sense of life that parents should think about. While caring for children, we should let them understand the value and significance of fate, and then urge them to explore the value and significance of fate themselves, help them cultivate correct values and avoid "precocity."
When I heard this sentence, I didn't know how many people, like me, yearned for Suo Yang to be a "handsome, smart and hardworking" beautiful country. How many people don't want to hear the word "laziest" When it comes to laziness, the handsome appearance and smart brain endowed by God and genes are almost a waste. The most thorough expression of Suo Yang's death is the evaluation of his fellow villagers: "Suo Yang's death is completely used by his parents."
Suo Yang, who was starved to death at the age of 23, was from Baoan Village, Zhutang Township, luoshan county. Since he was a child, he has always been regarded as a freak by local people because he was surprisingly lazy. Because he has lived for so many years, he has never seen a typical lazy Bisoyan. It is said that Suo Yang's name also has a story. In order to keep their son around forever, parents gave his son the word "lock" on the basis of his surname. Growing up, Suo Yang was either held in his parents' arms or shouldered a heavy burden.
Suo Yang, like other peers, once went to the school in the east of the village with his schoolbag on his back at school age. According to the teachers who have taught Suo Yang, Suo Yang is really smart, but the teachers dare not be strict with him. Once Suo Yang feels disgusted, he will tell his parents after school that their parents spoil their children too much, protect them and often take them to school at random, and want to find a teacher to explain. If parents are so worried, why send their son to school?
Before 13 years old, Suo Yang tried to work in the fields and do something within his power, just like other children. However, due to lack of patience and parents' overprotection of their sons, Suo Yang has never been able to accomplish anything within his power. What kind of awkward position do you often find yourself in? Sometimes, Suo Yang is trying to do something, but in the process, as long as his parents see Suo Yang take action, they will scream at him, "Go away, don't be tired", that's all.
When Suo Yang 13 years old, his father died of a long-term liver disease. In most families in China, the death of father is almost a blow to the family, not to mention the family in Suo Yang is an ordinary rural family. But on second thought, my father's death may inspire Suo Yang. At least my mother will start to let Suo Yang try because of the burden of life, but the reality after that is really embarrassing. Although my mother lets Suo Yang do farm work, Suoyang is really lazy.
What happened after that? Suo Yang always talks to his mother easily, and starts heavy work because of disagreement. In order to maintain the livelihood of mother and son, mother has been doing farm work and housework for many years. Where is there any expectation for such a life? Just looking at Suo Yang who finally grew up, my mother really didn't want to swallow this resentment in advance. Lovely body is not steel. After years of hard work, Suo Yang's mother finally fell ill from overwork and passed away at the age of eighteen.
18 is the age of adulthood, but Suo Yang developed a lazy habit in the past 18, which is basically a habit that can't be changed in this life. As a cousin, Yang Yude couldn't ignore the lives of his relatives, so he took the initiative to move Suo Yang to his own residence. My cousin's family is not rich, so she goes out to work every day to earn some living expenses. When he first moved to his cousin's house, Suo Yang asked him to drag him to the construction team, but after more than ten years of laziness, Suo Yang ran home by himself every time.
The villagers felt sorry for him, so they asked someone to introduce him to a restaurant in the county as a waiter. At that time, the villagers thought: since the construction team can't move the bricks, it's easier for someone to carry the plates! To the surprise of the whole village, Suo Yang did nothing all day after he arrived at the hotel. I can't help it. Suoyang is really a bit disappointing. Seeing his lazy habit, the hotel sent someone to send him back a few days later, and his fate actually ended here.
Although living in my cousin's house, my cousin's financial situation is also very poor, and it is not easy to maintain his food and clothing, but Suo Yang is not satisfied with his present life. He sold all his parents' valuables before he died. After selling out, there was no food to eat, and the young men in their early 20 s went door to door begging. People in the village feel sorry for him, and often take the initiative to send him some lettuce and raw meat, but what does it look like when they send it, and what will it look like next time?
Everyone guessed when Suo Yang left his parents and cousins. How did you spend it? People in the same village have a deep memory. Because they are too lazy, Suo Yang always has enough food to try to eat too much at a time during each begging. Then Suo Yang will tear open his stomach and sleep, and sometimes he will not see Suo Yang for two or three days in a row; Summer is fine, but winter is hard to escape. Finally, Suo Yang was frozen to death, starved to death under the covers, and never came out to beg for food.
The ending may be read between the lines. With the death of his parents, Suo Yang immediately ushered in the tragic ending of "starvation". So-called love can also kill people. In fact, this is the doting of parents on their children. While they are endlessly doting on their children, they have actually wrongly guided them to form dependent values. Before Suo Yang's parents died, maybe Suo Yang's existence was meaningful, at least for his parents, he was the closest person in the world.
However, the death of Suo Yang's parents actually indicates that Suo Yang will be helpless in the future. Although his parents died, villagers and neighbors in the same village would send him meals from time to time. Does Suo Yang need ready-made meals? What he needs is that his fellow villagers can send hot food to his mouth with chopsticks and spoons. If his hometown can realize this wish, Suo Yang will certainly not starve to death. But if you have to face this kind of person, will you choose to support him?
Suo Yang is "redundant" in society. His existence and death are really "as light as a feather" in Mr. Sima Qian's Historical Records, because Suo Yang has no personal value to society at all. In that case, his death would be a pity. Of course, the parties and future generations can naturally learn something from the "death of Suoyang": the existence of a person who only knows how to take and doesn't know how to pay is absolutely meaningless. Such people, represented by Suo Yang, don't even understand the struggle, let alone the dedication of life value.