It is really a very happy thing to be able to spend time freely. Going home for two months in the summer vacation, I can imagine two months, which is enough for me to do a lot of things.
Growing up in the northwest, I always wanted to learn Tibetan dance. I went to Qinghai this time and my brother was there. Every time I go for a walk in the square, I can be attracted by the beautiful Tibetan square dance. That dance is so beautiful and full of Tibetan characteristics. The feeling I saw with my own eyes is still very shocking. I really have an impulse to dance with it. So I said to myself, I must learn Tibetan dance in these two months.
After dancing for a few days, I found it quite difficult to jump, especially for people like me who have uncoordinated hands and feet. It is not easy to get rid of this feeling. A few days later, I never danced again.
As a result, two months later, I didn't learn to dance Tibetan at all.
When I left home, I suddenly felt very sad. I just remembered the sentence I said, "I want to learn Tibetan dance", and the rest seems to have drifted away with the wind.
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I think the reason is lack of motivation. I want to learn Tibetan dance, because I am attracted by other people's beautiful dancing. I think if I can learn a folk dance, I will look tall when I show it to my friends in the future. So my motivation is just to look tall by dancing folk dance, and showing off with my friends is not how much I love it.
I gave up easily when I found it difficult for people with uncoordinated hands and feet like me to jump. I'm just fascinated by the beautiful surface of others, and I never thought about the efforts behind them.
In fact, if I really want to learn, I will arrive at 7: 30 every night, but maybe it will be 7: 00 or 8: 00 after I finish eating, and I am too lazy to go out at this time. That is to say, there is no reasonable planning time.
If you want to do a good job, you must have a strong motivation, which is enough to support yourself to continue. This is what psychology calls internal drive.
Candidates for the college entrance examination must have a strong desire to get into a good university, and then they may go all out in the next study; People in the workplace must have a strong desire for promotion before they are willing to improve themselves in their next job; People who lose weight must have a strong desire to lose weight before they insist on exercise.
Strong desire is the premise, then continuous action, and then wait for time to reap the fruits.
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My cousin is a senior three student, a clever and humorous boy. We all thought that with his cleverness, he could be admitted to a good university, but in fact, his exam results surprised me, and I didn't even get into the second line.
I asked him, "You are usually smart. I have always believed that you can get into a good university. How did you get in? " He said, "Why do you trust me so much? I think it would be very good to get into two books. "
You see, in fact, he doesn't believe that he can get good grades, and his desire to get into a good university is not so strong, even his desire to get into two colleges is not so strong. No wonder this is the result.
I just know that he was transferred to the back row by the teacher because of his love of talking, and he was educated as a typical problem student by the teacher. So in the final analysis, it is because he lacks internal drive.
Some people say, you see, I have a strong desire and a strong motivation, but I still haven't done it well. The internal drive can make us as energetic and combative as chicken blood, and we can continue to act. However, there are skills and methods, and there is also the power to believe.
Some people cry to lose weight every day, the method is wrong, and they are eager to lose weight quickly. Isn't it a daydream? Time is also powerful. This is definitely a process.
In the final analysis, we must have a strong desire to do a good job, have correct methods and skills, have the accumulation of waiting time, and have the power to believe. This in itself can tell what kind of people we are, and what kind of people we want to be depends on our own thinking and choice!
May we all have the power to believe!