If it's the first one, then you need to supervise it, you can't hide alcohol inside the house, and you can't forbid your mom to drink in your life, so you need to supervise it and persuade her, how to persuade her?
The second kind of words: pressure is big, then reduce the pressure. For example, if the mother is worried about her son or daughter's marriage, then you should not be too selfish and solve your own problems. If it is too tired to run the home, you can take the holiday time to accompany the mother to go out to travel, take a break. If your own work is too busy, you find ways to make mom love square dance, a free time to find their own sisters to go out and dance square dance, is also a good way to relieve stress.