Love is the most beautiful thing in the world. Love should bring happiness to two people who have love. If a relationship brings you more pain than happiness, and it is not what you expected, then it is telling you that this relationship is not for you. Some people may think, then I will try to change it and make it what I expect, but love doesn't mean that changing it for you can change it. Many times, no matter how hard you work, in the end, this feeling is still the same as before, which is exactly what you expected, so you spent so much youth and energy to change the love, and finally went in the direction you didn't expect.
People should understand that some love doesn't have to come to the end. When a love appears in front of you, when it is accepted by you, when you accept it, you find that it is not what you think, then you should choose to let go in time. Letting go is the wisest choice. Grasping a love that is not suitable for you will only make you suffer, and it will also make another person in love suffer. We said we should cherish it.
We should learn to choose people who are suitable for us, and hold fast to those who are not suitable for us. So is love. If love brings you too much pain, then the person who brings you this love is not suitable for you, so it will make you feel that love is painful. Don't importune the unsuitable person, sometimes importune can't change the final result, so instead of spending so much time touching the south wall, spend more time meeting the person who won't let you touch the south wall.