Recently, "The Trio of Happiness" is very popular. It's easy to get hot search and sprinkle dog food in front of a group of fans. Big S Barbie Hsu delivered a royal guide on the spot: "Eating shrimp means that a man must help you peel it. Don't eat if you don't peel it! "
As soon as the voice fell, the three husbands present (Chen Jianbin, Jiang) were immersed in peeling shrimps, and the wife showed a sweet smile. This painting is very spectacular and lovely.
Looking at Wang Xiaofei's coquetry expression, many netizens expressed their envy, and many people thought that Big S had princess disease, which was really unbearable. Big S had to come forward to explain, "It's just a little habit of mine. I won't let Phillips help me peel shrimp. " I also spilled a handful of dog food. "He did too many intimate things to me in the details of life. Peeling shrimp is not my focus. "
And Wang Xiaofei also see not bottom go to, overbearing answer, "her husband is willing to peel shrimp for her, what's the matter. I don't even dare to expect my husband to peel a shrimp. I advise you to take a good look at your marriage. " The implication is that I spoil my woman, and I am used to it! Women need long snacks, and find a man who is willing to help you peel shrimp and respect you.
Everyone can see that Wang Xiaofei loves his wife very much and is willing to accommodate her little habits. And Wang Xiaofei's care for Big S made everyone feel very warm, and she married the right person.
People who really love you will tolerate you, understand your unique "actions" and princess diseases, and take good care of your little habits and emotions.
Loving deeply is accommodating, not loving is settling. Love is irreconcilable, but it needs tolerance.
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Sister Wang, an old best friend, has had a hard time recently. She had insomnia and lost a lot of hair. Sister Wang's husband is very masculine. He doesn't feel bad about her efforts and never gives in to her. Whenever someone says that Sister Wang is bad, her husband will suppress her indiscriminately.
The next month, my in-laws didn't take care of her on the pretext of poor health. The mother-in-law also instigated her son, "Which woman doesn't have children? What is so delicate! After giving birth, I went to work in the fields. " Others' confinement was treated as a "lady", but Sister Wang was tortured as a "ghost woman". She dragged her weak body after childbirth, took the big baby, nursed the little baby, held two children at one end, cooked and washed clothes on her own, and endured the criticism of her in-laws.
After the baby's full moon, Sister Wang's heart has been broken all over the floor. Not only did men not protect her from the wind and rain, but they also gave her storms from time to time.
Once, we went to her house to play. Sister Wang is very happy. While greeting everyone to sit down for tea, she took out the clothes in the washing machine to dry, and did not forget to tell the children to write well. While chatting, the doorbell rang. Sister Wang shook herself nervously and ran to open the door at once.
When her husband came in to see us, he glanced at the corners of his mouth and showed displeasure. He was so cold that he didn't say a word. He nodded and went straight into the bedroom and went to bed to watch TV. Sister Wang looked at us awkwardly and smiled. She quickly poured a glass of water and ran in, handed it to her husband, and came out and gently closed the door.
We looked at each other, wondering what had happened in this family. Sister Wang whispered apologetically, "He just came back like an uncle."
No wonder Sister Wang seldom invites us to her home. Her husband doesn't value his wife, and his friends are so cold and even contemptuous. It's hard to imagine how sad Sister Wang's usual life will be.
She said with a wry smile, "It is difficult for us to communicate. I'm tired of quarreling in less than three sentences. At first, I hoped he would change, but now I don't expect it anymore. I think that the day when the children's college entrance examination ends is the time for divorce. "
I finally understand why Sister Wang is young, but her skin is rough too early, and there is always a sad background in her eyes.
What a selfish man who only loves himself and can't see his wife's various efforts? I am most afraid that you are obviously married, but you have to face more ups and downs in the world alone, and you have to face the incomprehension, disapproval and various difficulties of people at the bedside.
A man who doesn't love you won't understand your loneliness, take care of your mood, shelter you from the wind and rain, and hurt you naturally.
The man who really loves you will understand your difficulties, share your hardships, respect your friends, love everything about you, tolerate you, and even accommodate your little emotions, so that you can live a happy life.
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Get up in the morning to do morning exercises and meet a couple in the community. Brother Ling holds the nine-section whip in his forehand and dances like a tiger. I saw him pounce on a flicker, and his long soft whip, like Youlong, "snapped" a whip flower, and it was another one who turned to shake hands with him, which made people applaud.
Ling sister-in-law looked at her husband tenderly, smiled, stretched her arms and crossed her legs. After warming up, she went to the old sister opposite to dance square dance.
"Sister, you are so beautiful, with curved eyelashes and a small cherry mouth ..." In the music, Ling Sister-in-law wears a red dance skirt, and moves skillfully and gracefully as the two sisters step and turn. The breeze is blowing, the leaves are shaking, the picture is too beautiful and provocative, and I can't help but sigh the beauty of life.
The sun rose to the treetops, the dance music in the square stopped, and Brother Ling put away his whip. After the morning exercise, everyone sweated back.
Chatting and chatting all the way, I couldn't help but gather together and curiously ask Ling Sister-in-law "the way to be a husband". She smiled sweetly. "We seldom quarrel. My neck and shoulders are not good because of using the computer for a long time, so my husband began to do morning exercises with me. It's been more than a year now, and my cervical spondylosis is rarely committed. He also learned the nine-section whip by the way, and his blood pressure and blood lipid were normal, even his stomach was thrown down. No matter what I do, he is very supportive, considerate and accommodating. "
The sun shone on the couple through the leaves. They walked side by side, smiling happily. They are almost fifty years old, but they are still in their prime. It seems that the happy marriage life of body and mind makes their faces still write the sweetness and happiness of love.
There are no perfect two people, only two hearts give in to each other.
The man who really loves you will respect you, understand you, tolerate you, accommodate you and fulfill you, because he knows in his heart that if he accommodates your little emotions, you will love him more and consolidate your happy marriage.
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Ruby Lin once wrote about her parents' divorce. Mother Lin is a bit of a neat freak. She likes to raise flowers and grass at home to make it neat and comfortable. On the other hand, Fu Lin disagreed. He is informal and likes to throw cigarette butts everywhere.
Finally, when the cigarette end was pressed in the flowerpot again, mother Lin divorced angrily. The whole family didn't understand, and felt that mom was too delicate.
Until the next time, in the hospital ward, I saw my sick mother leaning on the bed, reading her favorite book. After that, my father sat there peeling oranges and looked at my mother with a coquettish smile. Only then did she understand what kind of life her mother wanted. It turned out that the years could really be so calm.
A man who doesn't love you will not give in to you even if he throws a cigarette butt. He thinks you are melodramatic.
The man who really loves you will give in to everything you have. He loves everything you love and is proud of you. He gave in to you moderately, knowing that you also loved him tenderly.
Marry the wrong person is a "ghost girl" and marry the right person is a "lady". ? Big S's "Shrimp Peeling Theory" has attracted numerous netizens' praise for Wang Xiaofei's "Spoiling Wife" strength. He spoiled his wife into a princess, and he himself became the incarnation of the prince.
Willing to accommodate your man, tolerate your little temper, like your little coquetry, and know your warmth and sadness, which not only makes the love of youth beautiful, but also warms the years of marriage.
A man who is willing to accommodate you must love you very much. He puts down the figure of a man, holds your hand, understands you, dotes on you, warms you, is gentle with each other, cares about the years, and is worthy of your life.
I have a long life, girl. Please marry someone who is willing to accommodate you.