When the movie ended, I saw the girl sitting next to my friend with tears on her face. It turns out that the word predecessor has the most special meaning to everyone.
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There is no farewell if you really leave.
I remember at the beginning of the movie, Jia Lin angrily decided to break up with badon min. She was so proud that she carried three suitcases back and forth from the bedroom to the living room, but she collapsed on the bed without any intention of cleaning up.
And badon min, furtive, wants to know what she is doing in the room, but every time Jia Lin opens the door, she drinks water and smokes to find something, pretending not to care.
One thought that the other party would stay, and the other thought that the other party would not leave.
Finally, after a night of cold war, Jia Lin compromised and gave up.
She dragged the suitcase, opened the door, closed the door and left.
Before Jia Lin left, he gave Meng Yun a chance and said, "Is there anything else you want to tell me?"
Badon min cares in his heart, but his mouth is hard. He said, "Now that you have made up your mind, what can I say?"
When Lin Jialin gently closed the door, I knew she might never come back.
Until now, I still remember that sentence:
All high-profile resignations are actually temptations. There is no farewell if you really leave. The person who really wants to leave is just picking a sunny morning, wrapping up a coat you wear most often, quietly closing the door and never coming back.
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Later, everyone I loved was like you.
After Jia Lin left badon min's life, Zi Wang broke into badon min's life.
That is a girl who is very similar to her predecessor. She has the same outline, loves dogs, cooks instant noodles and beats eggs, and is equally smart.
She said to badon min, I know why you like me, because I look like her, right?
Badon min didn't answer, he knew that he really fell in love with her through Jia Lin's shadow.
Even Jia Lin said, "I don't care how many new girlfriends Meng Yun has after breaking up, because I don't think they pose a threat. The moment I saw Zi Wang, she looked at me fearless, and that was me. "
After separation, we will always meet many people.
But the only person who can leave an impression in your heart may be someone like him. Some have noses like him, some eyes like him, some walk like him, some look like him when they are angry, and some look like him when they are jealous, but none of them are him.
How is he? Will he meet many people like you?
We listen to the same songs and love the same people, but we just can't go back.
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Some people are destined to make you grow up.
Meng Yun said: "There will always be a gentle person who will keep you warm and then leave silently."
And Jia Lin is the one who makes badon min very warm.
There was no toilet paper at home before, and Meng Yun didn't know it.
Jia Lin is afraid of the dark. When he sleeps alone, he can only sleep with the light on. Meng Yun doesn't know.
Jia Lin needs badon min to accompany her, and needs badon min to spend time to prove that he loves her, but badon min doesn't know.
Now, Meng Yun has learned to close the window, buy toilet paper, take care of himself, and learn how to love someone, but that person is no longer Jia Lin.
Jia Lin's mission is to teach Meng Yun to grow up, make him a better person, and then leave silently.
We have to admit that although our predecessors have left our lives, the influence they have brought us is still engraved in our bones and is inseparable.
As Cai Kangyong said, the most precious souvenirs of love are never those. The watch necklace you gave me, even those sweet messages and photos, were taken away from me by you, just like the river left mountains and rivers, and you changed me.
It's just that the order of appearance in life is so important that those who accompany you as drunk as a fiddler are doomed to be unable to send you home.
So some people can only make you grow up and can't accompany you to the end.
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People who have visited loved one can't say goodbye.
At the end of the story, Jia Lin and badon min are separated.
Time jumped to six years ago.
Jia Lin asked Meng Yun, "What if you don't want me?"
Meng Yun said, "Then I will go to the busiest street like a sovereign treasure and call Jia Lin I love you 10,000 times."
Badon min turned to ask Jia Lin, "What if you don't want me?"
Jia Lin said: "Then I will eat mangoes and die of allergies."
Finally, he really shouted "Jia Lin I love you" 10,000 times in the busy street.
Finally, she was really saved because she was allergic to mangoes.
One was hoarse and the other was heartbroken.
They didn't meet again, but made a final farewell to this relationship in a way that promised each other.
Maybe this is the best farewell.
We talked about breaking up with dignity and leaving with dignity. But we know very well in our hearts that people who have tried to love will say goodbye.
Goodbye, it will only be embarrassing. Goodbye, maybe the best goodbye.
I read a sentence before: "one day, you think of someone for no reason." He made you look forward to tomorrow, but he didn't appear in your tomorrow at all. "
Now read the second half of the sentence: "there is a person who will give you longer happiness in the years to come, although he has never been to your youth."
So, this is it. Let's meet again like this.
May you spend these years safely, even if you are alive or dead.