1 Walking: Walking down the road to moonlight is a good idea, but it's important that you get her to walk on the sidewalk side of the road and pace yourself as closely as possible to her. An initial spacing of twenty centimeters between the two is appropriate.
2 Parks: A trip to the park is one of the most common ways for young couples to fall in love. But instead of sitting in a park chair, you should wander or sit on a swing and get your bodies moving so that both of you can get rid of the tension.
3 Dancing: We read above about the downsides of going dancing on a first date, but if the other person is keen, you'll have to go along for the ride, and the intensity of the dancing will help to bridge the gap between the two of you.
4 Sports: you can increase the enthusiasm in the shouting, but you can not be inferior to her.
5 The choice of restaurant: girls will like the elegant and clean style of small restaurants, exotic Western-style restaurants, or, you can also go to the top of the high-rise restaurant to go to the top of the building, you can eat while enjoying the city at night.
6 Restaurant: pay attention to find a corner location, so you can avoid the eyes of the crowd, reduce the psychological tension of the first girlfriend, and you have to ask her to sit in the back of the door position, so that her line of sight will be centered on you, and at the same time you can see the whole restaurant situation, to be able to guide the conversation in a calm atmosphere. But if it is not particularly interesting or necessary, do not find a topic of conversation in the restaurant crowd.
⑤Movies: You must know that the plot is suitable for couples who are in love for the first time, and don't be sad about it, or he will think it is a bad omen. Also don't purely amusing farce brush, or she will think you have poor taste. And can not talk during the movie, is its disadvantage.
7 Museums: If your girlfriend is elegant and quiet, you can consider going to the museum with her, may unexpectedly produce a good atmosphere. But you must not know nothing or very little about what is displayed in the museum, by the girlfriend to say to you, it would be very bad for you.
8 game or show: let the girls watch sports or acrobatic performances, let her realize that she is not very familiar with the world, while you can watch and publish their own high opinion, which can deepen her impression of you.
9 Amusement park: easy to make people in a state of excitement, can create a frank and open atmosphere, the body will naturally close, but you can not have a "chance to wrestle with the chaotic" idea, otherwise the woman has a wariness, you will be a good thing to smash.
Precautions about drinking:
a. You can't force your girlfriend to drink on a first date, as this will make her unhappy and she will refuse to go out with you again on the pretext that you forced her to drink.
b. Don't pretend to have a lot of alcohol, whether you do or not.
c. If she's drinking and she's extra red in the face, you have to compliment her.
Notes during the meal:
1. Take the initiative to invite her to eat, because usually girls do not want to explicitly say that they are hungry.
b. Ask her what she wants to eat first, and if she doesn't express an opinion, you decide the menu yourself. Don't push around, so you think you're being courteous to each other, but in fact you'll embarrass each other. When ordering, be careful not to ask for food that stains your teeth, as that can ruin the mood.
c. Try not to make any noise when you eat, and eat while you talk.
d. You can eat as much as you want, girls usually like it when boys have a big appetite.
Dash to the date, gasping for breath to apologize sincerely to each other, and then naturally find an excuse, such as "in Zhongshan Road traffic jam, so anxious that I jumped out of the car and ran over, running me out of breath." Or: "I want to find a gift you like to give you, so that you can not catch up with the time ......" In short, to make up a reasonable and reasonable, can not let her perceive that you are a moment of carelessness caused by the tardy, at all with what the car ah gift ah has nothing to do. This kind of promise to help dissolve the girlfriend's dissatisfaction, the motive is good, can not be regarded as unintentional deception. However, if you're late for a meeting, you can't tell the story again, and if you tell too many lies, you're going to be exposed to them.
Tips for saying goodbye:
The best way to say goodbye to her is to wait with her at the appropriate station until the car comes, and then leave when she gets on the car and the car leaves. This way the woman will not feel that you are not tightly wound. If she is willing to let you send her home, that means she has a little heart to heart with you. This must be timed separately, meaning that the first date should end when the girl still wants to spend time with you. This is a great way to make her look forward to the next date. In the meantime, you should utilize the following invitation techniques. For example, while waiting for the car, you ask her, "Today is the summer solstice, do you know what the meaning of summer solstice is?" She says no, and that's when the car comes. You say, "Well then, I'll tell you on our next date." Repeat the time and place of the next time one more time, then walk her to the car. Or, she says this as she is about to break up, "I had a great evening with you." You must immediately press the point and say, "That's just great, I'll make it even more enjoyable next time." Then repeat the next date time and place appropriately.