The reason why some people have such a want to live and live, not life was not interesting, but life did not find the right way of life and meaning. Must do:
First, life is more and more meaningless is a person did not find the goal and direction of life. Today is a market economy, although the competition is very fierce, but a person as long as there is a healthy body, have their own life aspirations and goals, can live out their own wonderful to live out their own passion, live out their own characteristics
1, life is tasteless mostly than out. Market economy is a colorful society, everyone lives in this colorful society, due to the gap between rich and poor, everyone has their own life coordinates, do not blindly compare each other, than eating than drinking, more than fun, than than than than than than than than than than than than than than, than their own more and more no life, more than more than the more flavorful life, a more than the word than the grievances than out of the negative than out of the life of the tasteless, which is in life! The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal on your own.
2, most of the flavorless life is also a lack of self-confidence. People living in real life, the most valuable or self-confidence, self-confidence in order to self-improvement, self-improvement, in order to tenaciously live down. Often see a lot of people with disabilities, some people lack legs and arms, but they are still self-improvement, tenacious life, through hard work, in a certain aspect of the specialties, living out of self-confidence, living out the charm of life. It is so, a person with sound limbs, what difficulties can not be overcome, and what setbacks can not be overcome?
3, life is tasteless only struggle to live flavor. A person's life is flavorful and tasteless, closely related to their own, if a person does not have the goal of the struggle, then the days are dull and boring, feel no meaning of life. If you determine the ideal goal of life, do what you like to do, or do some small business, from small to big, you can also live a good life; or learn chess, calligraphy and painting, and slowly develop an elegant interest, people as long as there are ideals and goals, so that your life has changed, there are changes, people will be up every day, so that the life of a busy, there is a positive significance.
Second, living feeling is to spend days like years is not strong enough to be a specific manifestation of life. Modern society, people live in a fast-paced, most people are shouting tired, many people are shouting busy, but as long as the quiet mind to seriously think about it, will find many people tired to where? But if you think about it carefully, you will realize that many people are tired of where they are and where they are busy.
1, people are busy with socializing and the so-called socializing. Now a lot of people are busy making friends, think of a friend of all things, some people play cards and drink outside every day, some people are outside every day to socialize, as if this is the only way to live, only to live with the meaning of life? However, human energy is limited, so busy more. There is less quiet work, people do not have quiet work, how can be far? The ancient saying: tranquility leads to distance. Only quiet reading and learning to enhance knowledge and learning, not so "quiet work", the ability to do things will be poor, do things will not be able to do, feel very tired, can be tired and no work.
2, some people are busy in order to have their own face, but lost the child. Many people always live for the face, look at other people's eyes, afraid of other people's ridicule, do not dare to do a good job, some people talk or not, the world is also in accordance with other people's eyes, so live a very tired, but also live without their own. There is a good saying: "do the best yourself". It is the best way to live, when you get the enlightenment of life from this sentence.
Conclusion: life is originally meaningful, the reason why some people think that life is more and more meaningless, is that life has lost the goal of moving forward and motivation, the solution is to establish the ideal of life, set up the goal of life; with the goal of no matter how difficult the road in front of you, there are courageous and forward, so, life will be beautiful and wonderful. "The sun is new every day." People's lives are happy every day. Life as long as you dare to do the best of themselves, there is no "can", can not go out of the way.
The key problem is that people lose faith, corruption, rampant, money, the country in the lack of spiritual civilization education, from early childhood all the way to the university graduate indoctrination is to earn money, profit-oriented, look at Peking University and Tsinghua University professors graduate students doctoral students, how many of them for the sake of the people, for the sake of the country, to create wealth, to serve the people, and after the completion of the study earned a large amount of money to run to foreign countries, like a large amount of money. Run to foreign countries, as now our country these big money rich people how many people have moved abroad? How many of these rich people have moved abroad? Eating China's food and smashing China's bowls, are there not more of these people? So bring the disparity between the rich and the poor and inequality, caused by the people of the ordinary people in the heart of the extreme imbalance, accounting for more than 80% of the ordinary people feel no sense of well-being, look at the bottom of these wage earners? Every day, get up early and go to bed late, how much money can they earn in a day of hard work? How many people can they feed? Where does happiness come from?
Just want to say a word, these years, how many negative news, these negative news on the society is too much damage, more and more indifference, more and more selfish, this is still like a what the world?
Everything to the money, has let people have no shame, no sense of morality, no soul, but also have to look to the money, so in a predicament. Too impetuous, too much desire, the pitfalls are everywhere, this is the negative effect of the Internet era, this is the media irresponsible propaganda consequences, this is the result of pandering to foreigners, pandering to foreigners will inevitably live in a kind of vanity is not their own culture, can not find a place to return to, confused and do not know what to do, but also on the Internet every day is very noisy. If the reality is this bitter, the spirit of a little happy ah.
But we can't even find spiritual happiness. This is the first time I've ever seen a computer that was so easy to use, and I'm sure it's been a long time coming.
What is the point of having an abundance of material?
The abundance of the material world can never, ever bring happiness; it is the fulfillment of the spiritual world that brings happiness. But this problem is difficult to solve and very complex.
The only way to bring order and happiness to society is to strengthen traditional culture education and to let the whole society bathe in good traditional culture, because traditional culture itself is meant to make society happy!
Traditional festivals, traditional virtues, propriety, justice, honesty and shame, only care about these, society has a general norms and values, to understand what is right, what is reasonable, to drive away too much impatience. It is safe to say that if traditional culture is not revitalized, this problem will not be solved, because there is no better way.
Of course, the revival of traditional culture is not to not change the reality, but both sides of the equation!
People, to live like a person, not just a money-making machine!
Modern life ah, all aspects of the pressure is more and more, the gap between rich and poor is also getting bigger and bigger. Classmates, coworkers, families, the inevitable comparison, so many people psychological imbalance, with many invisible psychological pressure, so that life due to comparison, become unable to see the hope, life has become the same as eating wax. Than economic income, than the child's performance, than the house than the car, compared to enter a vicious circle. In fact, now people's economic conditions are actually better than before, just, due to the disorderly comparison of inferiority complex, so that the mentality is bad. In fact, there is no need to face the reality, everyone's conditions, environment, circumstances, luck are not the same, no comparability, live their own lives on the good, do not compare, or seek trouble. In addition, the reality of life is getting more and more pressure, busy with endless troubles, one after another. Work pressure, childbirth, child rearing, children in kindergarten, elementary school, secondary school, university, employment, marriage, buying a house, retirement. Endless matters of the heart to be resolved, so that people, exhausted, anxious. And nowadays, the society, human feelings have become diluted, everything needs money to solve. But the income of the working class is limited, so tired, so there is a feeling of life is worse than death, the loss of heart will be born. Indeed, the reality of helplessness, everyone, every family is not easy to live, every family has a difficult experience. What can we do? Only to cheer up, bravely face life, water to cover the earth, soldiers to block, winter is here, spring will be far away? With everyone **** encouragement.
Why is life more and more meaningless now? Feel life is a day like a year, this should be, the modern society a common phenomenon, we live for what, life is so bitter, we still do not want to insist on, not married want to find a wife, looking for a wife to have a house, to buy a house to pay the mortgage, a variety of pressures, so that you can not catch your breath, life has been enough to be bitter, why do we have to insist on going on it! 996 has now become the norm, in addition to institutions and civil servants, a few people are not this system, this way of working, a variety of pressures, so that people can not breathe, inexplicable depression, inexplicable irritability.
Traced down is not a sense of belonging, you are busy all day long, the door dizzy, in the end, why is it ah, your purpose, is to make money, earn money to spend, and then go to make money, and then spend. Feeling like water inside the duckweed, no root, do not know where they will float to, busy, you do not have time to think about these things, the general public idle, will be thinking, and found themselves really like a machine, non-stop turn, non-stop turn, when is the head? When is a, let yourself idle, look up and see, the white clouds turned out to be so white, the stars turned out to be so bright, failing time, failing years, look back, the original is not worth remembering, there is no worth letting yourself reminisce about the time, can think about it, it is all kinds of busy, all kinds of burnt out!
Life is like a bathtub inside a bucket of cool water, need to use their own body temperature, these cool water warm hot, you can feel alive, the world, this society, most people are not happy, happiness is not because you have more money, happiness can be a bowl of noodles, can also be a cup of hot tea, you do not feel happy because your heart has been filled with all kinds of trouble, can not accommodate the location of happiness. The position of happiness, I would like to ask everyone, there are a few houses do not have a mortgage? How many wives don't have a house? How many wives don't want to buy a house? All day around the house ticket turn, how many do not feel tired? How many can feel their future is bright?
The day is like a year because you do not feel safe, you have to pay the mortgage tomorrow, and now there is no money in the pocket, what do you say? Who will lend you money from who? Can you sleep at night? Anxiety has now become a norm in this society, if you do not feel anxious, sleep peacefully every night, get up in the morning, see the bright sunshine outside the window, no pressure of life, congratulations, has become the top of the world happy people!
Tell me about you, why are you anxious all day long and why are you unhappy all day long? The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
Why is life more and more boring now? The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal of money to pay for the work you do. There are a lot of reasons, but I think the root cause is money, people are too much money, do not value the inner world, lack of spiritual pursuit.
First, everyone is busy earning money, have no time to care about other
When money becomes the measure of success and the standard of happiness, all the people are thinking about, busy how to earn money, in the eyes of the heart, in addition to the money there is no other, so how the life will be interesting?
Secondly, when everyone is crazy about money, honesty, morality, courtesy, honesty and shame are not important.
Whoever has the money is the most successful, no matter what you do, and no matter how you earn the money!f Some people do whatever they can for money, profit-minded, engaged in deception, fraud, cheating each other, the sense of trust is missing in the society how can it be interesting?
Third, the dream is no longer important, the ideal is even more ridiculous?
Ask your kids around you, who wants to be a scientist? All want to be a star, when the actor, because the fastest and most money! How can a life without ideals and dreams be interesting?
Fourth, there is a smell of money everywhere, too much emphasis on the interests of people, the taste of mankind is light, the love is light!
Fifth, the standard of living of society as a whole, but people generally lack of faith in the heart, the spiritual world is empty.
Sixth, people do not communicate with each other, do not communicate, everyone is holding a cell phone, living in the world of self.
In addition to the sweet words that have to be said when you are in love, look at how many people are still willing to communicate, in-depth communication. When you get married, one person has a cell phone, and even the kids take one! Cell phones have become a tool for coaxing children! It seems to be quite beautiful, everyone is in self-indulgence, in fact, everyone's heart is slowly walking away!
Seventh, the world's skylight has been opened, to see the world a variety of wonderful, some people and others to compare, suddenly feel hopeless life.
The rich and idle class life naked in front of the toiling masses, but where a little desire of the ordinary people how can not be stimulated? Some people are unbalanced, can only watch, participate in not in, do not know how to step into that class inside to go, the pain comes, compared to their own life is too meaningless.
Also, there are some people, at the bottom of society, running for survival, running like a machine every day, how can this life TA feel interesting?
There are also some people who live for others or family all the time, there is no self, when the child is older, when do not have to work, there is no goal to strive for, but also feel that life is not interesting.
In short, the status quo of the various, some are social reasons, we can not change, but there are also part of the personal reasons, which can be changed!
When you feel bored with life, reflect on yourself, spare time is not to find some new pursuits! No matter how bitter life, no matter how boring life, you change a perspective, look at the world, always find the good!
Learn to make yourself an interesting person, learn to pleasure yourself, and be a person who is full of heart, you don't need to rely on the outside world to make your life interesting!
Now life feels more and more meaningless, which is part of the people feel, you see the city of those old men and women square dancing in the wind, many people have become a net red (although disgusting). Ask them, they say thanks to the country's care for the elderly, do not pay for the car, travel tickets free, but also get a high pension. They are so happy that they can't wait to borrow another 500 years from God. Nowadays, young people, high prices, work wages in addition to living rent, little left, start a business and no project and funds. The pressure is immense. Society has become more and more materialistic and realistic. So people's hearts are restless. The once beautiful love is now also trampled all over. Some girls have nothing but money and sex in their hearts. Society morality regression, honest people can not defend their normal interests, do not want to skin people everywhere, women are like wolves like tigers like tough. It's easy to talk about a girlfriend, house, car bride price, pressure are unable to breathe, but also to cope with the ghost of the mother-in-law and hanging over the head of a green, and so on and so forth,...... a difficult to say, said, I feel no fun.
Material life is getting richer by the day, want that is obtained,
Want to eat a little takeout, want to play to travel, want to see the computer, life everywhere there are beautiful, natural, man-made, fruits and vegetables all year round, not divided into the season, want to eat that can be purchased, as long as money, as long as the money, as long as the money, luxury goods are everywhere, beautiful women are everywhere, sister buddies are everywhere.
In order to earn money, in order to earn more money, some people began to cheat; some people began to blackmail; some people began to entice; some people began to sell themselves, sell their humanity. In order not to be found out, carefully planned, once cheated, cheated again and again.
Human nature is exposed, began to seek excitement; seek spiritual fulfillment; seek boring life without the fun; seek more challenging things; seek to envy others have the comfort; seek overnight wealth.
Eat, drink, play, food, clothing, housing and transportation, everything is there, the lack of true; the lack of sincerity; the lack of sincerity; the lack of companionship; the lack of trust; the lack of understanding; the lack of simplicity; the lack of self-reflection.
All living beings live for life, all day long muddled and animals, what is the difference, a lifetime for the bucket of rice piece of tile labor difficult to run around, even if the end of the brocade clothes and costumes and how? We've got the material but we've lost the most valuable personal beliefs, thoughts and virtues.
Bewildered, some enlightened people began to reflect on the reasoning (dabbing traffic is not one of them), their own clothes and food to keep warm and carefree but do not feel happy, even at a loss, people are full of dirt but happy and happy? I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that.
I believe that the reason why many people now feel that life is not interesting, feel like years, this is because in the process of the development and growth of the market economy, some social problems continue to accumulate and magnify the people's original ideology, including the value of money, morality, the concept of love, the impact of the cold reality of the fragmented, in the poor and rich to increase the polarization of the distribution of the existence of inequity, the lack of fairness and justice, the current situation, y living and working together. In the present, y life and work survival pressure, the uncertain future is full of anxiety and fear, in the material standard of living has been improved at the same time, people's spiritual life has not been synchronized, but rather is relatively poor and boring, the heart of the confusion continues to increase, the sense of belonging, the sense of security, the sense of well-being, the lack of the future is very confused.