When the term "nibbling old people" was first coined, the public scoffed at it, and the young people who were caught in the act were criticized because it was a very humiliating and ungrateful thing to do. But today, chewing the old has rarely appeared in people's line of sight, compared with this more difficult for parents there are many similar, even more excessive behavior.
Family has a difficult to read the scripture, the relationship between the family is also very difficult to judge by outsiders, after all, warm and cold, the child filial piety is not filial, only the parents know. But sometimes, even family members are difficult to blame, even if it is a biological child, parents will have concerns. There are many old people in my hometown who are like this, life is not going well, but there is no way to spit it out to their children, let alone have any complaints. What makes parents cold is not chewing the old, but this? Fake filial piety? , countless old people have bitter words.
In the name of filial piety, let parents come to live, do nanny
Many people say, now only the rural old man so dead set on having to live with his son, in fact, this is too absolute, or there are old people are willing to late in life, they live in the old home, more at ease. Auntie Ma is one of these, why figured out not to live with the son, is because of such a loss. I thought that when I was old, I was taken over by my son and daughter-in-law, and I could finally start enjoying my life, but it was just a matter of taking care of the children and transporting them to and from the kindergarten, which, needless to say, is something that grandparents would take the initiative to do.
When the son took over, he said, "Let the old couple enjoy the happiness, and it's more convenient to live in the city. But the past is not so, usually not only the grandson, but also the young couple's living, all inclusive of the old man. Auntie Ma said she was not there to enjoy the happiness, but to be a nanny. Laundry, cooking, go out and buy food by the way to pick up the children, the time schedule is full, what with the neighborhood elderly a square dance, do not even think about it.
Children's behavior is not good, parents can not complain
Even if the son and daughter-in-law have their own little plan in mind, when the parents can not say it, can only put the heart of the grievances held back, the suffering to be eaten also have to suffer. Because Auntie Ma said, this family thing is not casually with outsiders to complain, said out is not to let others look at the joke. What's more, he was taken over by his son in the name of filial piety, but if he said he didn't enjoy the blessings of being treated as an old mother, the face of the parents can't hang on.
While the children's behavior is inappropriate, but the surface are in place, they are indeed received in the past to fulfill their filial piety, living in the city, but the specific life is not the same.
Fake filial piety? Hurt is the heart of the parents
Whether the children are really filial piety, or false filial piety, the real face of this problem is the parents, can experience the taste of it or parents. It can be said that inside the family about this kind of parent-child relationship, the only one who is hurt is the parents. The white-eyed child in the open, or the bright and openly gnawing on the old man, which are condemned, but not as much as the ? Fake filial piety? To the parents of the great harm.
Giving parents a beautiful blueprint, but after the parents to see the truth, nothing more cruel than to personally recognize the children's unsuspecting sincere.