Daughter unfortunately died due to illness, you can imagine the blow to the people as the sky is falling. The first thing that you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world, and then you can get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world. Without the daughter, the bond of emotional connection is lost. Conscientious may care more about the care of parents-in-law; no conscience, like strangers can only sigh a two. The key question is still how you can better spend the rest of your life.
If you don't have savings, no pension, the health condition is okay. It's best if you can find a job. On the one hand, a job can relieve your mood, and on the other hand, it can increase your income. If you do not have other children, to old age in rural areas in line with the conditions of the five guaranteed households, you can be admitted to a public nursing home free of charge or at home to enjoy the treatment of the five guaranteed households. Basic life is still guaranteed.
If you have savings, there are pensions, economic resources without worries. The main thing is to adjust your life according to the schedule and try to make your life more fulfilling. To pick some of their favorite things to do, love to dance square dance and the big moms to go to dance, love to learn to enroll in the senior university. Music, calligraphy, cooking..... If you love something, you can learn it! One day in the future, you can also choose to live in a nursing home on your own terms.
The son-in-law is now a stranger to you, which proves that he doesn't want to care about you old people, and tries to avoid too much contact with you, which can be fully proved. The son-in-law will inevitably also have the idea of remarrying, between you and your son-in-law, there is only the child as a bond, and if your daughter was not born with a son, then this last bond is gone.
Try to plan as early as possible for your pension, if you have already retired and have a fixed pension, now you need to find a suitable nursing home, the economy within their affordable range, the conditions are as perfect as possible, and feel that you can move in after you reach the age.
If you don't have a pension, you have more or less some savings, try not to touch it, and keep it for your old age. If the deposit on hand is not a lot, you can take the house old age, will sell their own house, with this part of the money, to stay in the nursing home.
In short, it is the son-in-law did not give you the meaning of old age, do not be too much reluctance, and do not negotiate by what kind of way, even if there is a law or policy, so that the son-in-law mandatory for you to old age, your days will not be good to go. There is a saying: I would rather look at my son's ass than my son-in-law's face. There is no blood relationship and no relationship of old age will be established, after all, the elderly are a great burden to the young.
The most crucial issue is still to adjust your mind. People live a lifetime, it is inevitable that they will encounter all kinds of misfortune and pain. Use perseverance to suppress the pain in your heart, and let time heal the wounds of the soul.
Let your life be busy, if the conditions allow you to travel, make some friends, if the economy does not allow you to dance, raise flowers and plants, so that your life is full. In short, make more friends, support each other, help each other. The main thing is to rely on yourself, rely on your own abundant inner support themselves.