4-year-old girl shouting in public ****, female college students come up and kick, who do you think has a problem with this incident?
? In response to this matter I think both sides have problems, since it is the female college students first impulse to move the foot, let's say her behavior! An adult and is a college student should have the most basic qualities and cultivation, cultivation is very key, first of all, regardless of what the child did, the other party is just a child ah, even if you did not kick the child, you just emotional kick chair, you know what this will bring the child harm? As an adult, you can not even tolerate the child's sudden screaming, ask how a 4-year-old child can tolerate and digest the sudden violence of an adult threat? This kind of behavior will not be able to get the child will have a shadow, will scare the child, fortunately this child is the kind of health, if you meet is a congenital frail and sick, you so suddenly scared, maybe the child is not just into the hospital so simple, you are not just by the child's mother to beat a couple of times.
As an adult, no matter when what the situation should learn to control their own emotions, or else it is really possible to harm people and their own, say this female college students, because of a moment of impulse, on the news, the whole world saw, was all kinds of all kinds of condemnation, the heart is not good, right? Impulse is the devil, I believe that this student kicked the chair at the moment of regret, and now even more regret, now feel aggrieved? What have you been doing? Do not say that the child's mother excited, is the bystanders see an adult so chastise a child will not be able to see, as an adult should be responsible for their own behavior, do not do things to make their own regrets.
If I were the mother, I would be very excited, I will go crazy will not be able to stand, the child is so small, she yelled at you can not stand to do it, then you suddenly rushed over to terrorize the child, how can she afford to scare you? As a mother's instinctive reaction, I don't think any mother will be able to calmly reason with you. Although the child is small, she can not take you, but every child in front of you in public **** occasions are accompanied by family members to watch, who is not a baby these days, can not tolerate being treated by a stranger like this?
To me, this college student is also lucky, I remember when I was in junior high school, a pair of sisters were often harassed by a boy, and one day this pair of sisters' uncle made a special trip to wait on the road, and just saw his niece being harassed by the boy, this uncle did not say anything and rushed up to the boy a wild beating, the boy's hand is broken, and why is it so important?
? And the waitress, that IQ? You know what it's like for a mother to watch her child being bullied? Go back and ask your mother you know, I'm not scolding, really, the mother so excited, you if you do not have the ability to you do not care, the female students left not to throw things back, you think the child's mother can tolerate it? To a yellow hair girl so bullying, you so dragged people, people have no place to vent their anger can not be angry grabbing you? As a big man this basic quality is not even the most basic, just with a woman hands, you show majesty to whom? Do you have majesty? Don't you just think that you are a man and the mom can't beat you? If it was the father of the child, would you have dared to do this? Young people can persuade to persuade not impulsive, and then as a man to have a man's temperament, the mother is mad at you and why bother?
? On this matter, I think all have fault, the female students wrong in a time did not control their emotions, did not hold. And this mother is wrong in the usual education for children above, children love to play is not false, but usually should be more with the children to instill in the public **** occasion should do what should not do what the reasoning, you may have taught, but this kind of thing is that you do not have to educate in place, the 4-year-old child has been able to listen to understand, if because of this time the child left a psychological shadow, that parents can not be shirked the responsibility! The public **** occasions like that casually string to play, but also restaurants, so that has affected the appetite of others, not to mention the restaurant floor may have a general oil stains very slippery and dangerous, in case of a sudden bump into the end of the soup dish waiter tragedy how to do? Injured but the child ah, but also loud noise, there is not your living room, some parents like to indulge the child, think the child is happy on the good, he loved how to play how to play, completely disregard for the feelings of others, your child is your treasure you as a treasure, but in the eyes of others is not, so no matter who is right and who is wrong in this case, are the past, the excitement of the end of the surely regret it, advise parents, want to make their own child Not hurt, usually still have to spend some effort on the children, you own tube, that is called education, by other people tube that is called a lesson.