Just want to tell the real story, write the real words, then first of all, I and Mr. Lai's matter. In fact, Mr. Lai and I do not have a lot of experience in love, but I believe that people are good at what they do, and the way they fall in love is pretty much the same. We are each other's first love, that is, from school uniform to wedding dress love. I remember my senior year home for New Year's Eve, I talked to my mother and Mr. Lai, my mother was not very agreeable at first, my mother did not dislike Mr. Lai as a person, not because of the material aspects, but because Mr. Lai's home is a little far from my home, that is, driving 3 hours.
Mother has been to the farthest place is the city, never out of their own city, never seen the world, we to the city time is only 1 hour. I don't want to be married to a rich man, but I want to be married to someone close to home, preferably someone she can reach by driving a trolley, so that she can drive a trolley to see me at any time when she wants to see me, because my mother gets carsick, and she is afraid of hitchhiking.
I called Mr. Lai and intentionally made things more serious: "My mother doesn't agree with us being together, let's break up right away, and we're about to graduate. The first time I mentioned the word "break up" was the first time I had ever mentioned the word "break up".
Thousands of miles away, Mr. Lai on the other end of the phone in tears, choked and said: "We do not want to break up, we graduated on the marriage, I am afraid to leave you, do not dare to imagine the day without you, you know I love you more than I love myself, I will try to get the mother-in-law's consent, you have to give me time, we can not give up easily! ".
I said in this end some of the theft: "Mr. Lai, you're enough, a big man crying and weeping into the behavior, a man of the man can afford to let go, the world is not only me this flower". I've never seen Mr. Lai in tears before, and I've never seen him cry when he fell down, when he was frustrated, or when he was bleeding, but I've never seen him in tears.
In fact, I can appreciate Mr. Lai's mood, if love is 10 points, then Mr. Lai should love me 11 points, and I love him 8 points, I understand his carefulness, I understand his overpayment, I understand his good intentions, but I am also afraid that he is too tired of love.
2. I have also met a CF boy whom I love him 11 points, that is my crush. At that time, as long as CF boys can talk to me, I can be happy all day. As long as a CF guy liked something, I would do whatever I could to satisfy him. Do not say that CF boys want the stars in the sky, I will try to give him to pick, even if he wants me to go to the fire, I do not hesitate, is love to this extent, can not help themselves. But then the CF guy fell in love with another girl, and never knew that I had loved him very much. After he was with someone else, I sank for a long, long time, it was a very painful, torturous time, I had thought that I would never fall in love with anyone again, I would be alone for the rest of my life. Fortunately, I met Mr. Lai, who gave me warmth and brought me out of that dark and painful time. I think Mr. Lai feels the same way, so in love that he can't help himself!
If I leave Mr. Lai, I think he will also suffer for a long time, perhaps in the heart of the forever leave a place for me, or many years later he will love another girl, get married and have children, after all, who is not so important, not who can not be replaced, but the heart of the wound will be very difficult to heal, I understand him!
I had a discussion with Mr. Lai about this: "What would you do if I left you"?
He said: "I would get drunk every day, live a zombie life, it is difficult to love someone again, even if the marriage will not be because of love, and you?". .
I said: "If you leave me, I will not be able to stand, maybe never find a person who is so good to me, I can not imagine that the person who once was good to me, with the same good to another person, only I can leave you, you can never leave me", I am so domineering.
He touched my head and said: "I won't leave you unless you don't want me anymore, then we're stuck with each other".
We are now exactly entangled with each other, perhaps for the rest of our lives, I do not think it should be perhaps, is certain!
3, the third year of college, and very good friend Xuan together in Shanghai internship, that time work is very busy, often overtime, the happiest days is not overtime days, the afternoon and Xuan sitting on the grass to blow the wind, look at the blue sky, chatting.
One afternoon, we sat together on the grass and chatted, and Xuan suddenly said, "It's been a year since we broke up, and I still can't forget him.
Although and Xuan is a very good friend, but, for good friends feelings on the matter, I do not interfere, because the world has no empathy for things, which is my principle, unless the other party took the initiative to say to me.
I said: "In fact, I don't understand love, I have been in love once, but now I love people will only love 8 points, the remaining two points to love themselves, you love him too deep, so you can't pull yourself out of it, infatuated with the most bitter people".
Xuan raised his head to look at the blue sky, his hand involuntarily pulling the grass, and continued to say: "I do love him more, I love carefully, every day I worry that I will not do anything wrong in front of him, doubt that he will not fall in love with someone else, and often ask him if he will love me forever, sometimes I think I am really stupid, but, there is no way, I just love him so much! ".
From that chat, to now has been the past 5 years, 5 years of time, Xuan has been sunk in this relationship, occasionally send some other people do not understand the sad mood "was wet place, there will always be the wind to blow dry, why do you care to appear an umbrella," "life is so short, why heart is too deep, smile too shallow. Why is the heart too deep and the smile too shallow? Why is my heart too deep and my smile too shallow? "The wind stops, the rain knows. Who knows when love is gone?" "Valentine's Day without a lover, is not should not wear a beautiful dress" ...... I look very heartbroken, but can not do anything about the feelings of the matter, you are not the parties can not appreciate the pain, perhaps for you is a dragonfly point of water, for the parties there are The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and you'll be able to do that!
After graduation, Xuan and I have been in Shenzhen, and she can not forget the sweetheart, recently came to Shenzhen to work, because his sweetheart this 5 years has been in a single state, and they broke up in the state of occasional contact, and now to her city, Xuan thought he had hope again, that the sweetheart to ask for compound. I look at the heartache, but do not know what can help Xuan, I went to detect her sweetheart's meaning, he said: "I came to Shenzhen just because of the work relationship, not for Xuan, my love for Xuan has long been unable to support the love". I was able to get a good understanding of the situation, and I was able to get a good understanding of the situation, and I was able to get a good understanding of the situation.
I said to Xuan: "Forget about him, 5 years, the put down, hurt and hurt enough, and so on and so on, if he still loves you, how can he bear to let you this sad sad?
Xuan said : "My love for him is like a love that is low to the dust, and I even want to take root in the dust, he is the one I have guarded with my life, and I want to be relieved of it, but I can't do it".
5 years have passed, Xuan still can't walk out, I don't know when she can be relieved from this grief. The two years of deep love, in exchange for five years of grief, and even the possibility of using a lifetime to forget.
I understand Xuan low to the dust of love, because I have also been so y in love, afraid of whether they say the wrong words, the other side of the sentence can also make themselves nervous all day, the other side of the casual words, but it regarded it as true ......
4, the news reported a variety of love for the love of the death of the example abounds, but I have not seen with my own eyes, and do not want to fabricate some sad stories, only write the real story. Perhaps, there is no shortage of love around you, unable to extricate themselves from the love of men and women, perhaps you are one of them.
I just want to say to you, no matter you are a girl, or teenager, if you love, please do not be too deep love, love love seven or eight points is enough to leave two points to love themselves, but also give some space for others to love you, do not love too tired, do not love bruises. Don't love a person love to the dust, you are a unique, you have to dance in the wind. Chances are that you will not be able to forget the response, but again and again disappointment, you can not forget the person, perhaps not so much love you, wait not to come to the person, do not wait, bitter themselves, but also to the pressure of others.