Wen/Xiaomo
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Time and youth is like a mountain stream, once it passes, it is never there again, leaving only endless remembrance and emotion. Lamenting the time is too fast, as if nothing has been able to come, it has been the years suddenly has been twilight.
People's lives are thinking about how to spend their lives meaningfully, but in a trance, life has unknowingly gone through a lot of miles.
Time passes and it is difficult to undo. The only way to plan ahead in one's life, whether it is a life or something you want to do, is to not become stagnant because of time and age.
Later life, need to plan ahead.
Planning for later life is not something you have to wait until you are in your sixties or seventies to start planning. It's a little late to be thinking about planning for your later years.
So, how do people who are running for five plan their later years and spend them happily and securely? Pave four roads in advance to avoid a miserable cold in old age.
02, save a sum of money for yourself in advance to ensure the quality of life
Charles Lamb said, "Money is a passport that can allow us to go to any regional aspects of the army in addition to paradise; at the same time, it can provide us with anything other than happiness. something."
In the later years of one's life, there is no guarantee of quality of life if one does not save a sum of money in advance for oneself. An unexpected accident in your life will only make your later years worse.
Money is the guarantee of life, can make the later years of their own have a good quality of life, sick, but also can have money to see the doctor.
In life, learn to save a fortune for yourself.
Life is full of surprises and accidents can happen at any time. When the unexpected comes, when you need money, there is such a spare amount of money that can save you from a lot of worries and concerns.
When you reach fifty, you should learn to save a sum of money for yourself so that you can have a secure life in your later years. If you don't learn to save a sum of money for yourself in advance, then in your later years, life will not be particularly comfortable.
Even if, just to stay around the defense, can increase the inner sense of security, so that life is solid.
03. Keep healthy and have a good mindset
Daisaku Ikeda said, "No matter how much talent and power you have, no matter how much insight you have, once you are bedridden, your life will be nothing. "
Health is the foundation of life, and without it, it is difficult to have a good life experience.
In later years, it is better to have a healthy body than to have a good body to do what you want to do. Maintaining good health and having a good mindset is the biggest and most luxurious asset in one's old age.
Many people, when they are young, use their youth and health to exchange wealth; later, they desperately use money to exchange health. But once you lose your health, it's hard to have it again, and you need to work a thousand times harder to find it.
On the road to five, insist on exercise and keep yourself in a good state of mind.
You can use your free time to do exercise, square dance, or play Tai Chi.
Don't feel that you are old, useless and unable to move. People are prone to become more and more pessimistic about life under such psychological cues, and their bodies begin to age faster.
But if you always stay healthy, keep exercising, and be positive, it will be more conducive to the body to maintain a healthy state.
The body and the mind are good, the mood is happy, comfortable, people will also become relaxed.
04, treat your lover well, let the family become cozy
five people, most of the children have grown up, have their own career, family and life, do not need to worry about parents, this time, accompanied by your side of your lover.
Through thick and thin, it's the other person who has been silently guarding them, and they should be more thankful for the love that has always been there for them.
In the later years of each other's company more time, good treatment of loved ones, so that the family becomes cozy, less unnecessary arguments and quarrels, more cherish each other's later years.
A good marriage is one that is managed.
A happy marriage and a cozy family make for a better life in old age. A good married life, behind the scenes must not be less than each other's *** with efforts.
Marriage needs to be run with each other, if one party is not willing to work hard, it will lead to the other party's excessive fatigue, and the marriage will be difficult to sustain over time.
Treat your lover well while you are still old. In later years, the other party is more willing to return a love, give you better care and companionship.
05, according to their own heart to live
People live in the world, there are always some forced to choose, and not their own heart willingly.
At the end of his life, he has been working hard for half a lifetime, and he should take a break and enjoy his time.
In accordance with their own heart to live, the unfinished dream, to want to do things can be reorganized, can start again.
Late life is not the end of one's life, but another new beginning, embracing a different kind of life.
Live as you like. Life is short, live it for yourself.
Don't care too much about what others think, do what you think is worth it and what you think is right.
Let your mind be fulfilled and satisfied, life will be in the rest of the time, glittering, will make you feel that the late years are also meaningful.
Live your life as you want to live it, so that you can live a simple life, live your own life, and live a relaxed life.
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Please plan your later years well.
Don't be sad because of your age, as long as the heart is still young, people will always be full of vigor.
People live a lifetime, aging can not be avoided, but your mind and soul can always keep a young look, keep a good state.
People who want to live their lives in their own way in their twilight years should plan ahead.
Learn to save money for yourself; keep a good workout routine, keep exercising, keep a good mindset; treat your lover well, run a good marriage; learn to live for yourself, in order to make yourself happy and stable in your old age.
Don't waste your time in your old age easily, you can live a wonderful life in your old age.
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Author: XiaMoMO, new emotion mentor, psychology scholar, the whole network more than 1 billion popularity of emotion writer, happy woman management division, focus on emotion, gender, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law Q&A more than ten years.