Kindergarten dismissal time is 4:50 or so, elementary school students dismissal time is 3:50 or so, this time mom and dad are not yet off work, grandparents are mostly unable to control, consciously child homework finished watching TV, not consciously child homework is not written to play the game, has been grinding to mom and dad back from work to start unfinished homework, the preset parent-child good time is accompanied by homework replacement, the child said Slowly brush your teeth, slowly wash your face, take your child to eat a breakfast, buy a dish, it is 11 o'clock, start to do lunch, look at the big white sun, continue to sleep in the afternoon or do parent-child games, do not realize that it is already 4 o'clock, downstairs plaza to play a circle, ready for dinner, the weekend of the day was so slow and loose spent, this is not a bad thing, but always feel the lack of something?
The lack of a goal, and focus, you will say, the child how to need these?
There's nothing wrong with a child growing up with a sense of purpose!
The world of children needs adult guidance, like a blank sheet of paper, they do not know what they can do? What do you like about it? Then enroll in a hobby class, you can help your child to have a goal and specialize in learning something.
Instead of letting your child watch TV or play games, you can enroll them in a few hobby classes to help them find their favorites and make good use of their time.
When we were young, we didn't have the means to enroll in various hobbies, and after we started working, we were at a disadvantage because we didn't even have any hobbies outside of work, except for square dancing. If you look around, you'll find that it's always easy to get the appreciation of the leadership and the love of your colleagues, and your career development is also smooth. In the company's annual meeting or organizing activities, easily able to show off their skills, and soon stood out in the crowd.
Future children have their own hobbies and interests and will live a happy life.
Now the market is full of interest classes, uneven, how to choose the interest class for the child has become a headache for many parents. Although parents choose, but it is the child on, to his favorite not to say, but he said that everything like, burning money not to say, but also easy to pick up and drop off, insist on not giving up.
The child's interest classes are really not randomly reported.
This issue I also struggled for a long time, especially the second baby from home, see sister learning to paint, she also want to learn to paint, the teacher to promote a variety of interest classes in school, taekwondo, singing, soccer, calligraphy, street dance, he said that they all like, the final choice is still in the parents here.
There is a colleague, the child said she likes what she enrolls in what, learn for a period of time, do not want to go, and then do not learn, this may not be good for the child.
I always think that interest classes should always learn a little more professional, of course, you can also learn a lot of things outside the profession, three feet of kung fu can not be called what interest, interest is the best teacher is right, in-depth learning to hook up with a long time of interest.
I like, want to learn, easy to stick to the long term, practical and strong interest I will understand one by one, so that the interest to accompany the child's life, or to make a living, or to make love, even if one day I'm not by his side, I wish to interest to become his best friend.
It's a pleasure to play with children, but parents may not always be able to accompany them, so it's a very good and necessary choice to enroll them in interest classes.
1. Help your child utilize their time.
Tell your child, you choose, you are responsible for the end, wind and rain, no matter how hard and tired, but also to go, good rabbit never give up.
Mom is paid tuition, tuition can buy many, many toys, the class should cherish the time, so that the child has the sense that to the point should go to class.
Parents also rationalize their time, and waiting time is good for reading and chatting with other moms and dads.
2. Give your child more wings to fly.
I can't say that interest can definitely become a skill to make a living in the future, or at least a hobby that you stick to for a long time, so that you can have a pair of wings to fly.
How to choose a hobby class?
Daughter during kindergarten is learning to dance, she is also very talented, since the contact with painting, she likes to paint, pulling my hand begged: mom! I want to paint! I love painting, girls learn to dance, painting is the standard.
The son is a bit of a headache for me, when asked formally, he likes. So sex first follow the sister painting it, when firm can not be slowed down first, not a good way, with the passage of time, the day on the emergence of a very suitable choice.
A moving interest class is also standard, street dance class is in the interest class when chatting with the moms flashed the idea, strong body movement, easy to arouse the interest of children for a long time.
Of course, English and musical instruments are also good choices, according to the child's preference and character.
After determining what to study, the next step is to choose which teaching, this is also very critical, I choose the institutions are friends or baby moms recommended, I will compare all aspects of the analysis list, the baby moms feedback is the most valuable reference.
At the same time to the training institutions have worked with friends to ask for advice, often in the chat he will reveal a lot of insiders, for example, the English training institutions, many say that there are foreign teachers, in fact, foreign teachers of the teaching time is very short, many institutions are accompanied by the child to play the game in Chinese, the brand influence of the training institutions can be more understanding.
But also convenient transportation, before learning about the Children's Palace of Xiaoyan studio is good, examined for a long time, but also auditioned, but from where we live a little far away, back and forth on the road is too tortuous, just a friend introduced with Xiaoyan studio also know the child color studio.
Finally, the most important thing is to adhere to, the child needs to adhere to, parents need to adhere to, interest classes test is not a child, more is the parents. To those who give up the rest, running around in the accompaniment of the child learning to grow the road of the parents to pay tribute!
If lying at home, "get" more, is a happy life, then accompanied by the child on the interest class, "give" more, is a life full of meaning, if something is meaningful, then the pain experienced must also be The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and you'll be able to do that.
Frank, the bestselling author of The Meaning of Life, whose career was rising, faced with Nazi persecution, he still gave up fleeing to the safety of the United States, gave up all the achievements of his career, and chose to honor his parents by following them into prison, putting his personal pursuits to one side, to serve his family, and to serve the inmates who were imprisoned just as much as his parents.
A meaningful life is more for others, for husband, for children, for family, for parents. Live a meaningful life with your children by sticking with their studies and taking interest classes.